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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Silly silly silly sounding question i know, but, in others experiences, how does the fun start? Who starts it off? Do you sit an chat first?

Im planning a mmf an have only had 1 before in a club an i was full of alcohol so cant remember much of it!

Very nervous but very excited!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have two guys lined up?

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By *ixie69Woman
over a year ago

leicester

Be yourself and relax. Things will happen. If you are stuck then play a game of some sort that the loser removes an article of clothing.

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

I like a chat before hand, to make sure everyone knows the ground rules e.g. condoms, which holes are available, where the men are going to Cum, etc.

Then when you are ready, strip down and start playing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

best way i think is to have a certain area u decide u want to play in ..sit and chat for awhile away from this area till u feel comfortable then when ur ready suggest to other that u should move to play area and if everyone agrees u know ur all on same wave length

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how you would like it to work out. You would be centre of attention and the guys would take and pressure off you. The roles how this could happen are endless. But that's the fun part

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By *orny and Sexy 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackwood

Enjoy being the centre of attention. Have a chat first, lots of kissing will just turn you on . Have fun Rebecca xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just like normal sex... lots of foreplay. The slower you progress the better it is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would depend if you're naturally drawn to women or guys more. Which we'd have discussed before any play meet, as this would give us the info on how we could comfortably progress chatting into flirting, then progressing into something more.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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depends on the guys for me. they never turn up at the same time usually, so i offer the first guy a brew and he gets some chat. when the 2nd turns up he also gets offered a brew.

if he wants a brew i'll make him one and we all chat in the kitchen, if he doesn't want one i ask them if they both wanna head upstairs. nobody says not yet, lol.

i jump straight into my bed (making sure i'm in the middle) and get naked, let them get undressed and wait for them to start touching me.

nothing is planned. works well for me that way. dunno if it'd work for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"depends on the guys for me. they never turn up at the same time usually, so i offer the first guy a brew and he gets some chat. when the 2nd turns up he also gets offered a brew.

if he wants a brew i'll make him one and we all chat in the kitchen, if he doesn't want one i ask them if they both wanna head upstairs. nobody says not yet, lol.

i jump straight into my bed (making sure i'm in the middle) and get naked, let them get undressed and wait for them to start touching me.

nothing is planned. works well for me that way. dunno if it'd work for you."

Oh i like the brew an chat thing first!

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"depends on the guys for me. they never turn up at the same time usually, so i offer the first guy a brew and he gets some chat. when the 2nd turns up he also gets offered a brew.

if he wants a brew i'll make him one and we all chat in the kitchen, if he doesn't want one i ask them if they both wanna head upstairs. nobody says not yet, lol.

i jump straight into my bed (making sure i'm in the middle) and get naked, let them get undressed and wait for them to start touching me.

nothing is planned. works well for me that way. dunno if it'd work for you.

Oh i like the brew an chat thing first!

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so do i, but i like it when they don't wanna have one also.

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By *on and TammyCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We've been having a similar conversation, bit different for us though as we're man & wife so its easier to start off, we'll also be doing it in a hotel room in all likelihood. Like Superkinkycouple said, lots & lots of foreplay seems to be a sensible way forward. Mrs wants to be blindfolded too initially as she thinks this might help alleviate nerves, not sure that would work for you if the others aren't people you know well.

Good luck with it OP

Mr

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By *on and TammyCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Just like normal sex... lots of foreplay. The slower you progress the better it is!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been enjoying mfm fun for a number of years.we would meet another guy at his place or a hotel,bit of a chat get to know each other,then once sweet feels comfortable enough she would nip off to the bathroom n change into something sexy n revealing.that's when the real fun starts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmf is the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Silly silly silly sounding question i know, but, in others experiences, how does the fun start? Who starts it off? Do you sit an chat first?

Im planning a mmf an have only had 1 before in a club an i was full of alcohol so cant remember much of it!

Very nervous but very excited!! "

Chat first, relax and things normally progress from there quite smoothly. Don't put any pressure on yourself or anyone else. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sit between them on the settee. Chat to each to help them relax then reach down with both hands and grab their cocks. Feel them for a bit before spining round, unzipping both and sucking them. After that I am sure you will find a way...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we have them at ours, we chat in the living room for a bit till we're all comfortable, then the mrs and the other guy will go upstairs, I follow up about 20 mins later usually to find the guys head buried between my wife's legs.

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