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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm new to the whole thing does anyone one have any tips for a newbie

Thanks

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Hi op

Maybe fill in your profile with what you can offer and what you are looking for ,most would skip by a profile with nothing on it.

Also read profiles and contact those whose preferences you meet.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 pic and no profile wont be enough to attract any attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Write a profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beware folks. I have had forum bans for commenting on profiles, if profile advice has not been requested. Even if the advice is well meaning and helpful. Here comes another probably

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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago

Near enough

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

If you think just by joining this site and not making any effort that you will have pussy on tap.....you are in for a very long wait!

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

OP. As it stands at present, your entire profile doesn't exactly stand any chance of generating interest.

Firstly, ditch the cock shot and get a face pic up ASAP; potential meets want to see who the person is.

In your status line you're seeking someone to chill with. But your profile text has nothing there; people aren't telepathic, so you need to tell them what you want and what you can offer

Check on the Forum pages about answers to tho issue which have cropped up before.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP. As it stands at present, your entire profile doesn't exactly stand any chance of generating interest.

Firstly, ditch the cock shot and get a face pic up ASAP; potential meets want to see who the person is.

In your status line you're seeking someone to chill with. But your profile text has nothing there; people aren't telepathic, so you need to tell them what you want and what you can offer

Check on the Forum pages about answers to tho issue which have cropped up before.

Good luck.

"

Check previous posts about forum bans and comments on profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm new to the whole thing does anyone one have any tips for a newbie

Thanks"

how about actually writing a profile and getting rid of the cock pic?

women on here like to know a bit about the person that wants to chat to them and I'm sure there is more to you than just your cock?

think of your profile as your shop window...

no one is going to bother looking if there is feck all on show and all the windows are boarded up, are they?

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Yep plenty of tips. Some actual text in your profile. Pics that arent your cock. I could go on but there are 10 threads a day on this. Go search them. Jack.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo


"Beware folks. I have had forum bans for commenting on profiles, if profile advice has not been requested. Even if the advice is well meaning and helpful. Here comes another probably "

He is asking for help so the rule doesn't apply.

"No nit-picking please

Unless someone specifically asks for their profile to be critiqued or if it's relevant to the thread e.g. someone is wondering why they're not having success, please don't critique their profile or be mean about it. We want the forum to be open and friendly to newbies and everyone starts somewhere."

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo


"If you think just by joining this site and not making any effort that you will have pussy on tap.....you are in for a very long wait! "

Where did he say that in his asking for advice post?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo


"I'm new to the whole thing does anyone one have any tips for a newbie

Thanks"

Welcome to the forum. You are probably best writing something on your profile and maybe some more pics. Maybe see if there are any socials near you if you are into those, if not stick around in the forum or chat rooms while you wait for your first meet, you never know you may get noticed from there.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Odd, my inbox specifically said my ban was for giving profile advice not asked for ?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo


"Odd, my inbox specifically said my ban was for giving profile advice not asked for ?"

Then maybe you gave it when it wasn't asked for or not relevant to the thread.

Either way this conversation shouldn't be happening on the forum, if you want to dispute/ discuss it you need to do it through the contact button.

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan

Being new passes after a while!

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock


"I'm new to the whole thing does anyone one have any tips for a newbie

Thanks"

Hi and welcome.

As others have suggested, you really need to improve your profile to have a chance on getting replies to your messages. A forum search on the subject could give you ideas that was given to others, or look at other male profiles as a guide, but don't copy. It takes time to get noticed on here. Swinging is also a social activity, rather than just about sex.

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