FabSwingers.com forum: bath or shower after meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wondering, would you ask for one before leaving after a meet or if asked, how would you react?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We have been offered a shower and have sometimes taken people up on that offer. We'd feel ok if someone wanted to shower after meeting us but nobody has yet.

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By *ordon88Man
over a year ago

town

Bath to soak. Shower after to rinse = so fresh and so clean clean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

last few meets have been in hotels where it doesn't really come up..no asking anyone in that scenario

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By *emptingtracyWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Love to end a meet with a shared shower!

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Love to end a meet with a shared shower!

We have done that in clubs a few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheaters might want to grab one before going home, I guess.

I had that once. I wasn't impressed.

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By *ire X IceCouple
over a year ago

coventry

"Cheaters might want to grab one before going home, I guess.

I had that once. I wasn't impressed."

Yeah our last visit ended like that, was a dead give away!!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I's be a wee bit suspicious if someone asked to shower before they went home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to shower after but a shared shower is even better

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"Just wondering, would you ask for one before leaving after a meet or if asked, how would you react? "

No better or worse than washing your hands after a meal.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Cheaters might want to grab one before going home, I guess.

I had that once. I wasn't impressed.

Yeah our last visit ended like that, was a dead give away!! "

Hmmm... In essence, you'd assume the person was cheating, if a single guy I'm assuming...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After a meet I scrub myself down with a Brillo pad and bleach

As for the "cheating" crap. Wth?? Maybe people don't like being sweaty or dirty?

Maybe its a reflection of how clean they thought their meet was???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Revel in the stink of sex.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Going home to my wife i might try and grab a shower. But when she gets back from a meet of prefer she's still filthy!

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

How about a sandwich and watch the football before they hit the road.

I know some that are cheeky enough to ask.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I'll shower the next day, or not. I like the smell of sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I went out on a meet by myself I wouldn't wash after as I know Mrs Freespirit would get a kick out of smelling the sex on me, as I would on her. I'd assume other swingers would be the same. And anyone who really needed a shower would probably wait to get back home unless it was either an amazing shower or a shared erotic shower... which would be great! But to just want to wash the smell off before going home? That sounds like a pretty good sign of a cheat imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

neither, i like a crust build up as a momento. i scrape it into little airtight specimen jars when i get home so i can smell the contents at my leisure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normally if we are having a social and decide to play we offer a shower before hand but never offered afterwards

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By *teveNW81Man
over a year ago

wigan

"After a meet I scrub myself down with a Brillo pad and bleach

As for the "cheating" crap. Wth?? Maybe people don't like being sweaty or dirty?

Maybe its a reflection of how clean they thought their meet was??? "

This! Some people, me included want to be clean before leaving if.not going straight home...

Imagine walking round tesco straight after a meet

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

A shared shower at the end of a meet would be the best way to be sent home x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If going home then no.

If going straight to work from meet then yes.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

"After a meet I scrub myself down with a Brillo pad and bleach

As for the "cheating" crap. Wth?? Maybe people don't like being sweaty or dirty?

Maybe its a reflection of how clean they thought their meet was???

This! Some people, me included want to be clean before leaving if.not going straight home...

Imagine walking round tesco straight after a meet

I've done the school pick up straight from a day club meet.

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I'm single and I would have no issue with a shower after. In fact I'd prefer it if they did too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on who/where.

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

"Imagine walking round tesco straight after a meet

I quite often pop into the supermarket on my way home from a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How about a sandwich and watch the football before they hit the road.

I know some that are cheeky enough to ask."

I always offer the couple a brew lol....!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Believe or not I like to be clean and hate smelling unclean and feeling sweaty so I'd have a shower after a meet.

If I go to the gym I have a shower.

When I play football I have a shower.

If I run I have a shower.

What's wrong with a shower after sex?

If I work hard and get sweaty I'll shower.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends, I've let friends shower/bath at mine. I see no issues with it. I'd normally just wait until I got home but have also had a shower at others.

However more often than not, that just ends up being a joint shower

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After a meet I scrub myself down with a Brillo pad and bleach

As for the "cheating" crap. Wth?? Maybe people don't like being sweaty or dirty?

Maybe its a reflection of how clean they thought their meet was??? "

No, he revealed he was cheating.

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By *aggersMan
over a year ago

portsmouth

i dont get why some of you think because a guy has a shower after automatically he's cheating!! Maybe he just likes to be clean and smell good that's just him looking his best ..

I shower every time

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

You should never shower after a meet! It's very rude! Especially if you have been playing "two in the pink, one in the stink!" Or even just some good old anal fucking. Women don't like it if you don't go home with pubes that smell of arsehole.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"i dont get why some of you think because a guy has a shower after automatically he's cheating!! Maybe he just likes to be clean and smell good that's just him looking his best ..

I shower every time

because you can flipping well shower at your own home,if you're going to work afterwards fair enough,but if your going home then shower there you cheeky sod

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By *aggersMan
over a year ago

portsmouth

"i dont get why some of you think because a guy has a shower after automatically he's cheating!! Maybe he just likes to be clean and smell good that's just him looking his best ..

I shower every time

because you can flipping well shower at your own home,if you're going to work afterwards fair enough,but if your going home then shower there you cheeky sod

Haha wow that escalated

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"i dont get why some of you think because a guy has a shower after automatically he's cheating!! Maybe he just likes to be clean and smell good that's just him looking his best ..

I shower every time

because you can flipping well shower at your own home,if you're going to work afterwards fair enough,but if your going home then shower there you cheeky sod

Haha wow that escalated

Well the last time a guy had a shower at mine the cheeky fucker left the towel on the floor for me to pick,it ain't happening again!

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By *aggersMan
over a year ago

portsmouth

"i dont get why some of you think because a guy has a shower after automatically he's cheating!! Maybe he just likes to be clean and smell good that's just him looking his best ..

I shower every time

because you can flipping well shower at your own home,if you're going to work afterwards fair enough,but if your going home then shower there you cheeky sod

Haha wow that escalated

Well the last time a guy had a shower at mine the cheeky fucker left the towel on the floor for me to pick,it ain't happening again!

Ahhh no bathroom etiquette totally unacceptable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't meet at my home but if a hotel I'd like to think the guy would shower after?

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By *aul020269Man
over a year ago

bidford on Avon

Before or after so long as it is shared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they want one im happy to oblige

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

"Bath to soak. Shower after to rinse = so fresh and so clean clean "

Guess your not on a water meter!

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Lol! "I'll suck your cock,and you can fuck me in the ass, but you can fuck off if you think you're using my shower!"

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

"Lol! "I'll suck your cock,and you can fuck me in the ass, but you can fuck off if you think you're using my shower!""

Read the gay mans guide to anal sex...it doesn't have to be dirty!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Lol! "I'll suck your cock,and you can fuck me in the ass, but you can fuck off if you think you're using my shower!""

Yep,you can make a mess of me,but make a mess of my bathroom and you'll be in deep poo poo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet men with a power shower

If I could host I would always offer use of the bathroom afterwards they generally need it when I've finished

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wet wipes cause I'm an impatient cunt

Nah shower all the way don't want to be sitting in my filth

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"wet wipes cause I'm an impatient cunt

Nah shower all the way don't want to be sitting in my filth "

Or someone else's...

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

dont do home meets but if i did i would shower and offer a shower..whats wrong with that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones that ask are generally going home go their wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"wet wipes cause I'm an impatient cunt

Nah shower all the way don't want to be sitting in my filth

Or someone else's..."

Exactly! Plus I'm too tall for a normal bath

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"The ones that ask are generally going home go their wife "
i dont have a wife..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The ones that ask are generally going home go their wife i dont have a wife..

....in my situation meeting men.....

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"The ones that ask are generally going home go their wife i dont have a wife..

....in my situation meeting men..... "
i meet couples , men and women and don't think anything of it, having a shower or them having a shower, afterwards

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

Peoplw we meet at our home are friends so we always offer them a shower

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do find it rather funny that a man having a shower after a meet, means he's a cheat.

Personal hygiene after lets face it swapping bodily fluids over each others body parts. Have done this many times and then sat and had a drink, chat afterwards.

Feeling fresh a clean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a shower before a meet ,please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know which of the guys I meet are attached and always offer them a shower after playing...often I'll join them.

It doesn't offend me that they don't want to go home smelling of sex - I even check them for stray red hairs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feels awesome to take a shower together but it's not something I really think about. At the most I usually just sort my hair out. I love getting a whiff of pussy on me when I'm out and about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ave had a shower afta meets. One guy let me have a shower at hes home after our meet. Another guy took a shower with me after a hotel meet.

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By *ames1763Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I love to shower at my own place before and after a meet.

I noticed people place a lot of double standards on guys , should it matter if a guy is in any relationship when it comes to swinging?

This is the only community where people can be free and have responsible fun, so asking for a shower after a meet should be encouraged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to go home and use my own shower

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I'm usually a hotel.

I like to finish off with some shower play

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"The ones that ask are generally going home go their wife "

Not necessarily the case.

Lovely generalisation there though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a bath after a meet at my house ...nice to relax and have a wank thinking about the meet....

I can cum standing up in the shower but it takes longer and not so relaxing ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if playing here always offer a shower for anyone before they leave - good hosting i think -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"neither, i like a crust build up as a momento. i scrape it into little airtight specimen jars when i get home so i can smell the contents at my leisure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if playing here always offer a shower for anyone before they leave - good hosting i think - "

I always offer a shower, as I generally want one too. Shared or otherwise, it's a nice way to finish off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Share a shower is more fun .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i head to a meet ill take wash stuff an wipes. Quick wash of the foof before heading off!..not cos im attached,just cos i like a clean smelling pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see why anyone would have an issue with this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The ones that ask are generally going home go their wife "

Im pleased I don't have a cynical mind, it must make life shallow and sad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't let someone have a shower at mine as I wouldn't want her rubbing her vag on my nice clean white towels and contaminating them.

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By *ragon-tattMan
over a year ago

runcorn

Depends where and when the meet was...i hooked up during lunch break once and kind of needed a shower before heading back

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