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By *BW Snowbunny OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow

I'm sure others have been affected by this at sometime or other.

Apart from ignoring, how do you deal with persistent malicious slanderous gossip being pedalled around clubs by people because they're friends with someone you rejected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck thier partners

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By *BW Snowbunny OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow

Already done that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ignore them and leave them to their sad little lives until the time is right to chastise them about their actions.

It's what I am currently doing.

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By *BW Snowbunny OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow


"Just ignore them and leave them to their sad little lives until the time is right to chastise them about their actions.

It's what I am currently doing. "

You're right, they obviously do have sad little lives.

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By *op gooserMan
over a year ago

chester


"I'm sure others have been affected by this at sometime or other.

Apart from ignoring, how do you deal with persistent malicious slanderous gossip being pedalled around clubs by people because they're friends with someone you rejected. "
Difficult, the clubs themselves even sling it around. There is a guilty till proven innocent attitude in this swinging. Being a fussy single guy I have rejected a quite a few couples and women. Then they call you arrogant I do this for fun not to fuck people I don't want to just to help the club get good reviews.

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By *layfulCouple86Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire

That's madness, sometimes when I read about people's childish behaviour it baffles me considering we're all adults.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure others have been affected by this at sometime or other.

Apart from ignoring, how do you deal with persistent malicious slanderous gossip being pedalled around clubs by people because they're friends with someone you rejected. "
just try to ignore it. I personally found that speaking my mind to said people even justifiably made me look stupid... so now Im just super nice to them.... I smile. I chat and look at the confused faces...

Just have fun and Remember that while they are gossiping about you.. they are leaving some other poor sod alone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure others have been affected by this at sometime or other.

Apart from ignoring, how do you deal with persistent malicious slanderous gossip being pedalled around clubs by people because they're friends with someone you rejected. just try to ignore it. I personally found that speaking my mind to said people even justifiably made me look stupid... so now Im just super nice to them.... I smile. I chat and look at the confused faces...

Just have fun and Remember that while they are gossiping about you.. they are leaving some other poor sod alone x "

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"I'm sure others have been affected by this at sometime or other.

Apart from ignoring, how do you deal with persistent malicious slanderous gossip being pedalled around clubs by people because they're friends with someone you rejected. "

For me, gossip is a passion killer so I try to avoid it whichever direction it flies.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We don't go to clubs enough to be talked about but in other areas of our life we just ignore it. If anybody tries telling us nasty things about people we tend to ignore it too, it does make us thing badly of the person doing the gossiping though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who it is to be fair, if its the general populous then i ignore it, if its someone i thought i could trust i put effort into understanding why it happened, then when the time is right i deal with it accordingly

Such a shame when it affects peoples lives

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