FabSwingers.com forum: Family law advice needed

By *agic fingers1 OP Couple
over a year ago

Croydon

If you work in family law please Co tact us as we need some advice. T.I.A

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"If you work in family law please Co tact us as we need some advice. T.I.A"

You expect free advice? Lol

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

My toilet isn't working. Any plumbers around willing to come and sort it for free?

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By *pple16Man
over a year ago

Macclesfield

This site amazes me, that's what the citizens advice is there for,

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By *esmond and Molly JonesCouple
over a year ago

Watford

A swingers site forum, yep, that's the place for specialist legal advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you work in family law please Co tact us as we need some advice. T.I.A"

try the CAB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no harm in asking, these here forums are frequented by people from all walks of life and I'm sure those in the know wouldn't mind offering a bit of advice. I certainly wouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus christ. Are you all so tight arsed that you would refuse someone else help unless there was something in it for you?

No wonder this world is so fucked up with the majority of the population being complete aresholes.

Yes go on.. send me on a holiday. It was worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jesus christ. Are you all so tight arsed that you would refuse someone else help unless there was something in it for you?

No wonder this world is so fucked up with the majority of the population being complete aresholes.

Yes go on.. send me on a holiday. It was worth it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's no harm in asking, these here forums are frequented by people from all walks of life and I'm sure those in the know wouldn't mind offering a bit of advice. I certainly wouldn't. "

Ah but harm can be done. Would you trust a total stranger off here to give you advice? Especially on family law? More fool them if they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or maybe someone who has needed legal advice can share it, if they know the OPs question.

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By *egionaireMan
over a year ago

ramsey

Hi what do you want to know I may be able to help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's no harm in asking, these here forums are frequented by people from all walks of life and I'm sure those in the know wouldn't mind offering a bit of advice. I certainly wouldn't.

Ah but harm can be done. Would you trust a total stranger off here to give you advice? Especially on family law? More fool them if they do. "

If the person was qualified to give said advice then yes, I think I would. People say "on here" like it's full of the dregs of society. I suppose it's up to the OP whether or not they listen to the advice but I see no harm in them asking for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jesus christ. Are you all so tight arsed that you would refuse someone else help unless there was something in it for you?

No wonder this world is so fucked up with the majority of the population being complete aresholes.

Yes go on.. send me on a holiday. It was worth it. "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This site amazes me, that's what the citizens advice is there for,

They give shit advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's no harm in asking, these here forums are frequented by people from all walks of life and I'm sure those in the know wouldn't mind offering a bit of advice. I certainly wouldn't.

Ah but harm can be done. Would you trust a total stranger off here to give you advice? Especially on family law? More fool them if they do.

And you will be checking their credentials how? It's a sex site not free legal advice site.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"There's no harm in asking, these here forums are frequented by people from all walks of life and I'm sure those in the know wouldn't mind offering a bit of advice. I certainly wouldn't. "

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site clearly attracts all sorts (we've met a solicitor on here) but generally speaking providing free informal advice which won't be covered by indemnity insurance is seriously frowned upon by professional governing bodies,and would you want to risk duff advice on family law?

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"This site amazes me, that's what the citizens advice is there for,

They give shit advice

if you can even get an appointment with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's no harm in asking, these here forums are frequented by people from all walks of life and I'm sure those in the know wouldn't mind offering a bit of advice. I certainly wouldn't.

Ah but harm can be done. Would you trust a total stranger off here to give you advice? Especially on family law? More fool them if they do.

And you will be checking their credentials how? It's a sex site not free legal advice site."

It's an open forum for people to use as they see fit. If people want to ask for advice and there are people willing to give it then where's the harm. You can be given bad advice from somebody who has a few certificates on the wall of their office just as easily as you can be given good advice from a total stranger.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"There's no harm in asking, these here forums are frequented by people from all walks of life and I'm sure those in the know wouldn't mind offering a bit of advice. I certainly wouldn't. "

I'm a lawyer though not a family one. I would never give someone advice on here as it would be negligent to give off the cuff advice without knowing someone's full circumstances. Hence anyway qualified will not give advice and. Anyone not qualified will be talking bollocks.

And it always gets me how people expect those qualified in non practical skills to give their services free to strangers. As I pointed out above you wouldn't expect a plumber to give you the benefit of his skills for nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been through the family courts system recently,spent an absolute fortune on advice,but represented myself and one so happy to help if we can .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's no harm in asking, these here forums are frequented by people from all walks of life and I'm sure those in the know wouldn't mind offering a bit of advice. I certainly wouldn't.

Ah but harm can be done. Would you trust a total stranger off here to give you advice? Especially on family law? More fool them if they do.

And you will be checking their credentials how? It's a sex site not free legal advice site.

Of course trust important issues such as family law from a random on a sex site. Surely nothing can go wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't have to be qualified to give advice on a certain topic... just a personal experience of it to relay your experience.

They aren't asking for free representation but ADVICE..

I'm sure there's plenty of us here been through the family court

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You don't have to be qualified to give advice on a certain topic... just a personal experience of it to relay your experience.

They aren't asking for free representation but ADVICE..

I'm sure there's plenty of us here been through the family court "

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"You don't have to be qualified to give advice on a certain topic... just a personal experience of it to relay your experience.

They aren't asking for free representation but ADVICE..

I'm sure there's plenty of us here been through the family court "

Depends what they are asking. If it just asking something like what it is like going through the family court then fine. If they want advice on what to do on a serious family law issue they need to go and see a proper lawyer. . I can't believe any sensible person who act on the advice of an unqualified person on a message board on a sex site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You don't have to be qualified to give advice on a certain topic... just a personal experience of it to relay your experience.

They aren't asking for free representation but ADVICE..

I'm sure there's plenty of us here been through the family court "

its true you don't have to be qualified to give advice but not everyone's experience is the same, and not everyone's experiences are always good ones either ...they could get the wrong advice and then be unnecessarily worried..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure the Ops are sane enough to agree with you all and would appreciate a bit of support.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's no harm in asking, these here forums are frequented by people from all walks of life and I'm sure those in the know wouldn't mind offering a bit of advice. I certainly wouldn't.

Ah but harm can be done. Would you trust a total stranger off here to give you advice? Especially on family law? More fool them if they do.

And you will be checking their credentials how? It's a sex site not free legal advice site.

Of course trust important issues such as family law from a random on a sex site. Surely nothing can go wrong. "

You obviously know best, I'll leave it that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's no harm in asking, these here forums are frequented by people from all walks of life and I'm sure those in the know wouldn't mind offering a bit of advice. I certainly wouldn't.

Ah but harm can be done. Would you trust a total stranger off here to give you advice? Especially on family law? More fool them if they do.

And you will be checking their credentials how? It's a sex site not free legal advice site.

Of course trust important issues such as family law from a random on a sex site. Surely nothing can go wrong.

You obviously know best, I'll leave it that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are however many websites that will offer support and advice from legal professionals as well,just maybe not this site.

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By *Q_GentMan
over a year ago

Manchester, City Centre

If people can ask for advice on how to write a profile and what to do when planning on fucking a virgin for the first time then someone can ask for a bit of legal advice surely?

Those who can help might well be able to point in the right direction at least...while those who can't help just want to mock for whatever reason...

Community spirit at its finest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This site amazes me, that's what the citizens advice is there for,

They give shit advice

if you can even get an appointment with them."

I wouldn't bother and I'm talking from a work point of view. Most of them are volunteers who know fuck all.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"This site amazes me, that's what the citizens advice is there for,

They give shit advice

if you can even get an appointment with them.

I wouldn't bother and I'm talking from a work point of view. Most of them are volunteers who know fuck all."

the one who helped me had access to law books but i did lose my case anyway.

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By *lovisMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

Try Mumsnet - always lots of experience and advice on there

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"If you work in family law please Co tact us as we need some advice. T.I.A"

Well I know of at least one barrister on this site...

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

"If you work in family law please Co tact us as we need some advice. T.I.A

Well I know of at least one barrister on this site...

What's the best way to make a double frappe choco latte ?

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By *agic fingers1 OP Couple
over a year ago

Croydon

Ok first of all I would like to say thank you to all those that have replied and been helpful. For those that haven't..... Well who said I'd be taking the said advice? Where does it say I'm looking for free legal advice? On this site there are people if nearly every job. I've spoken to people who work on oil rigs trades people professional stock brokers sports players pornstars and executives.it was a simple question as some people don't have a fairytale life all the time. I know from dome if the private messages that others have been through similar circumstances and was enquiring as to what they have had to do as anyone invloved would know it's a long process.

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By *ensualguy70TV/TS
over a year ago

paisley

id help out but you have blocked my sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yet another forum post that has been hijacked by the forum police. The op asked a question why can people not just answer the question. Why does it have to turn into a thread debating the perils and pitfalls of the question. I am sure the OP is sensible enough to decide what to do with any advice given, and as no one knows exactly what advice they want maybe, just maybe we should give them the benefit of the doubt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The difference between a plumber and lawyer is £200 per hour, a plumber will give free advice but charges for the work done. A lawyer charges for a consultation before considering if they want to take on your case or not.

I agree, if the OP wants to ask a question, surely yet him, and let it be up to their discretion what advice they take

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By *agic fingers1 OP Couple
over a year ago

Croydon

"The difference between a plumber and lawyer is £200 per hour, a plumber will give free advice but charges for the work done. A lawyer charges for a consultation before considering if they want to take on your case or not.

I agree, if the OP wants to ask a question, surely yet him, and let it be up to their discretion what advice they take

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By *agic fingers1 OP Couple
over a year ago

Croydon

"Yet another forum post that has been hijacked by the forum police. The op asked a question why can people not just answer the question. Why does it have to turn into a thread debating the perils and pitfalls of the question. I am sure the OP is sensible enough to decide what to do with any advice given, and as no one knows exactly what advice they want maybe, just maybe we should give them the benefit of the doubt"

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By *ffanotdykeCouple
over a year ago

Telford

Be clear in your own mind as to what you want. Do you want ADVICE or an OPINION. Two entirely different things!

Advice would suggest a course of action. Opinion simply expresses a view.

G&A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, if the OP wants to ask a question, surely yet him, and let it be up to their discretion what advice they take

Not sure the difference between a plumber and a Lawyer is so great. One wears a suit and drives a flash car, the other a pair of work pants and a tee shirt and drives a van. If I couldn't clear more than £200 an hour when fitting boilers I'd give up.

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By *orksCouple25Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

I agree, if the OP wants to ask a question, surely yet him, and let it be up to their discretion what advice they take

We know quite a few lawyers and our son is a lawyer and from our experience Plumbers charge far more than lawyers and Plumbers are never free on Bank Holiday weekends whatever you offer to pay them !

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've had plenty of advise on here over the years about many subjects! Trying to belittle people who ask is an arsehole thing to do, sometimes people genuinely don't know where to start....and I thank all the one's who have PM'd me to pass on their knowledge, it was very much appreciated

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By *agic fingers1 OP Couple
over a year ago

Croydon

"I've had plenty of advise on here over the years about many subjects! Trying to belittle people who ask is an arsehole thing to do, sometimes people genuinely don't know where to start....and I thank all the one's who have PM'd me to pass on their knowledge, it was very much appreciated

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I had problems with my phone. Trying to decipher info on line went straight over my head. I posted on here and within minutes someone messaged me and guided me through what I needed to do.

That said, I would not ask for legal, medical or financial advice on the forums: too important and personal to take the "advice" offered from the Walter Mitty types on here, but I wouldn't belittle those that do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A swingers site forum, yep, that's the place for specialist legal advice."

I imagine thid place has a very high number kf divorced peopke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A swingers site forum, yep, that's the place for specialist legal advice.

I imagine thid place has a very high number kf divorced peopke"

The op wanted advice in family law ie. Children. Not divorce

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all plumbers charge the earth, I had a new toilet and cistern fitted and it cost me less than just buying the items from my local DIY store, and it was fitted at short notice too.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"A swingers site forum, yep, that's the place for specialist legal advice.

I imagine thid place has a very high number kf divorced peopke

The op wanted advice in family law ie. Children. Not divorce"

So how would YOU categorise divorce within the legal profession.

Or is this some sort of ironic way of proving the argument that there's a lack of basic legal knowledge within the swinging community?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A swingers site forum, yep, that's the place for specialist legal advice.

I imagine thid place has a very high number kf divorced peopke

The op wanted advice in family law ie. Children. Not divorce

So how would YOU categorise divorce within the legal profession.

Or is this some sort of ironic way of proving the argument that there's a lack of basic legal knowledge within the swinging community?

No that's what they actually wanted advice on....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A swingers site forum, yep, that's the place for specialist legal advice.

I imagine thid place has a very high number kf divorced peopke

The op wanted advice in family law ie. Children. Not divorce"

Yeah because lets face it int hwbreal world the family courts are never used for divorce/separation right?

Its going to be totally unrelated to the end of a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A swingers site forum, yep, that's the place for specialist legal advice.

I imagine thid place has a very high number kf divorced peopke

The op wanted advice in family law ie. Children. Not divorce

Yeah because lets face it int hwbreal world the family courts are never used for divorce/separation right?

Its going to be totally unrelated to the end of a relationship"

You have the wrong end of the stick... divorce is family law but the op wanted advice about kids not divorce

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A swingers site forum, yep, that's the place for specialist legal advice.

I imagine thid place has a very high number kf divorced peopke

The op wanted advice in family law ie. Children. Not divorce

Yeah because lets face it int hwbreal world the family courts are never used for divorce/separation right?

Its going to be totally unrelated to the end of a relationship

You have the wrong end of the stick... divorce is family law but the op wanted advice about kids not divorce"

Because divorced people have zero experience with kids right?

Im gonna go our on a limb here and wager the majority of custody cases involve divorced people

but where did they say kids?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A swingers site forum, yep, that's the place for specialist legal advice.

I imagine thid place has a very high number kf divorced peopke

The op wanted advice in family law ie. Children. Not divorce

So how would YOU categorise divorce within the legal profession.

Or is this some sort of ironic way of proving the argument that there's a lack of basic legal knowledge within the swinging community?

I belive its the "i post therefore i am" perspectiv

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's no harm in asking, these here forums are frequented by people from all walks of life and I'm sure those in the know wouldn't mind offering a bit of advice. I certainly wouldn't. "

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By *heartsasoneCouple
over a year ago

outside of plymouth

"Be clear in your own mind as to what you want. Do you want ADVICE or an OPINION. Two entirely different things!

Advice would suggest a course of action. Opinion simply expresses a view.

G&A"

Someone that is educated well done

Very true statement

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By *orders2forUCouple
over a year ago

Hawick

There is a website called legal beagle

http://legalbeagles.info/forums/

We had a problem and a kind person on another forum, actually a cycling forum pointed us in that direction and the advice we got saved us a fair bit so what goes around comes around and so here you go.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This site amazes me, that's what the citizens advice is there for,

They give shit advice

Absolutely with you on that one!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not all plumbers charge the earth, I had a new toilet and cistern fitted and it cost me less than just buying the items from my local DIY store, and it was fitted at short notice too. "

Did the plumber supply the new toilet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They ask to be contacted

We don't know if when contacted they may pay for the advice. Might just be looking for someone qualified with swinging experience.

Probably not something yellow pages offers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am still embroiled on a family law case which has been dragging on for far too long.

I am litigant in person and NOT a solicitor.

Family law is very complicated and you really should speak to a solicitor who specialises in family law.

Quite often you can get a free half hour with them (Basically to explain your position and for them to explain what can and can not be done)

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