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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

Your profile's only 2 weeks old, having public photos helps. You say you're up for anything which will put some off as will being attached. I'd lose the 'lol'.

Say something more specific about who/what you're looking for and what you can offer a potential meet. Add some personality. I look at the profile before I even read the message. good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I missing the joke.. lol

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By *aggersMan
over a year ago

portsmouth

Give it time mate this sites awaome

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By *aggersMan
over a year ago

portsmouth

Awsome!! Bloody fat fingers ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Awsome!! Bloody fat fingers ??"

How fat are they

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By *aggersMan
over a year ago

portsmouth


"Awsome!! Bloody fat fingers ??

How fat are they "

Fat long and really useful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile's only 2 weeks old, having public photos helps. You say you're up for anything which will put some off as will being attached. I'd lose the 'lol'.

Say something more specific about who/what you're looking for and what you can offer a potential meet. Add some personality. I look at the profile before I even read the message. good luck! "

"Some" people can achieve a lot in 2 to 3 weeks.

Effort in, results out.

Having an epic profile helps too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Awsome!! Bloody fat fingers ??

How fat are they

Fat long and really useful "

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By *redfreddyMan
over a year ago

Valencia

I don't know about anyone else, but poor spelling and grammar is a real turn off for me, amongst girls anyway. Makes you feel like you're talking to a cave woman. It's nothing to do a spell and grammar check. Gives the impression that you've made an effort too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might be to do with you saying you're in a relationship but not coming on here with your partner for a start. Don't hog her all for yourself you greedy bastard, having her do this with you might spice both yours and her sex life up.

BTW, go to a club. I ended up going to a swinger's club (the attic) before I found out about fab. I've had more success at clubs, I mainly use this to just look around and to chat with people I've met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I look at the profile before I even read the message. good luck! "

I actually prefer that, so you don't know how freshing it is to read that. It's like, I've put the effort in, so atleast read a bit of what I'm about, ffs.

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen


"Your profile's only 2 weeks old, having public photos helps. You say you're up for anything which will put some off as will being attached. I'd lose the 'lol'.

Say something more specific about who/what you're looking for and what you can offer a potential meet. Add some personality. I look at the profile before I even read the message. good luck!

"Some" people can achieve a lot in 2 to 3 weeks.

Effort in, results out.

Having an epic profile helps too.

"

I know, it was more of a comment on the fact that some people will avoid new profiles and so that could be another factor that may hinder him, among other things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile's only 2 weeks old, having public photos helps. You say you're up for anything which will put some off as will being attached. I'd lose the 'lol'.

Say something more specific about who/what you're looking for and what you can offer a potential meet. Add some personality. I look at the profile before I even read the message. good luck!

"Some" people can achieve a lot in 2 to 3 weeks.

Effort in, results out.

Having an epic profile helps too.

I know, it was more of a comment on the fact that some people will avoid new profiles and so that could be another factor that may hinder him, among other things. "

You're right, lots of people seem to filter out new members.

However, my own profile is only a few weeks old....

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen


"Your profile's only 2 weeks old, having public photos helps. You say you're up for anything which will put some off as will being attached. I'd lose the 'lol'.

Say something more specific about who/what you're looking for and what you can offer a potential meet. Add some personality. I look at the profile before I even read the message. good luck!

"Some" people can achieve a lot in 2 to 3 weeks.

Effort in, results out.

Having an epic profile helps too.

I know, it was more of a comment on the fact that some people will avoid new profiles and so that could be another factor that may hinder him, among other things.

You're right, lots of people seem to filter out new members.

However, my own profile is only a few weeks old...."

I filter out new profiles now but I get messages from 5 day old profiles so I guess after 5 days you're not a newbie anymore ....? I also filter no public photos but at least half of my messages come from those profiles ...I think that's the most pointless filter ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile's only 2 weeks old, having public photos helps. You say you're up for anything which will put some off as will being attached. I'd lose the 'lol'.

Say something more specific about who/what you're looking for and what you can offer a potential meet. Add some personality. I look at the profile before I even read the message. good luck!

"Some" people can achieve a lot in 2 to 3 weeks.

Effort in, results out.

Having an epic profile helps too.

I know, it was more of a comment on the fact that some people will avoid new profiles and so that could be another factor that may hinder him, among other things.

You're right, lots of people seem to filter out new members.

However, my own profile is only a few weeks old....

I filter out new profiles now but I get messages from 5 day old profiles so I guess after 5 days you're not a newbie anymore ....? I also filter no public photos but at least half of my messages come from those profiles ...I think that's the most pointless filter ever "

They no public photo filter is easy to get around.

People set a photo, send their message, then go back to a silhouette avatar.

The buggers.

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen


"Your profile's only 2 weeks old, having public photos helps. You say you're up for anything which will put some off as will being attached. I'd lose the 'lol'.

Say something more specific about who/what you're looking for and what you can offer a potential meet. Add some personality. I look at the profile before I even read the message. good luck!

"Some" people can achieve a lot in 2 to 3 weeks.

Effort in, results out.

Having an epic profile helps too.

I know, it was more of a comment on the fact that some people will avoid new profiles and so that could be another factor that may hinder him, among other things.

You're right, lots of people seem to filter out new members.

However, my own profile is only a few weeks old....

I filter out new profiles now but I get messages from 5 day old profiles so I guess after 5 days you're not a newbie anymore ....? I also filter no public photos but at least half of my messages come from those profiles ...I think that's the most pointless filter ever

They no public photo filter is easy to get around.

People set a photo, send their message, then go back to a silhouette avatar.

The buggers. "

I know...when I mentioned that to one guy he denied it and said it must be fate that got him around my filters....sigh...

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"Your profile's only 2 weeks old, having public photos helps. You say you're up for anything which will put some off as will being attached. I'd lose the 'lol'.

Say something more specific about who/what you're looking for and what you can offer a potential meet. Add some personality. I look at the profile before I even read the message. good luck!

"Some" people can achieve a lot in 2 to 3 weeks.

Effort in, results out.

Having an epic profile helps too.

I know, it was more of a comment on the fact that some people will avoid new profiles and so that could be another factor that may hinder him, among other things.

You're right, lots of people seem to filter out new members.

However, my own profile is only a few weeks old....

I filter out new profiles now but I get messages from 5 day old profiles so I guess after 5 days you're not a newbie anymore ....? I also filter no public photos but at least half of my messages come from those profiles ...I think that's the most pointless filter ever

They no public photo filter is easy to get around.

People set a photo, send their message, then go back to a silhouette avatar.

The buggers.

I know...when I mentioned that to one guy he denied it and said it must be fate that got him around my filters....sigh... "

wonder if it's because they've ever had a pic on their profile at some point? this site has a few glitches as well.

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen


"Your profile's only 2 weeks old, having public photos helps. You say you're up for anything which will put some off as will being attached. I'd lose the 'lol'.

Say something more specific about who/what you're looking for and what you can offer a potential meet. Add some personality. I look at the profile before I even read the message. good luck!

"Some" people can achieve a lot in 2 to 3 weeks.

Effort in, results out.

Having an epic profile helps too.

I know, it was more of a comment on the fact that some people will avoid new profiles and so that could be another factor that may hinder him, among other things.

You're right, lots of people seem to filter out new members.

However, my own profile is only a few weeks old....

I filter out new profiles now but I get messages from 5 day old profiles so I guess after 5 days you're not a newbie anymore ....? I also filter no public photos but at least half of my messages come from those profiles ...I think that's the most pointless filter ever

They no public photo filter is easy to get around.

People set a photo, send their message, then go back to a silhouette avatar.

The buggers.

I know...when I mentioned that to one guy he denied it and said it must be fate that got him around my filters....sigh...

wonder if it's because they've ever had a pic on their profile at some point? this site has a few glitches as well."

Ah possibly I always think it's a bit of a fuck about to be changing your pic settings just to send 'hi' to a random profile and then quickly change it back again. A glitch would make more sense to me

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"Your profile's only 2 weeks old, having public photos helps. You say you're up for anything which will put some off as will being attached. I'd lose the 'lol'.

Say something more specific about who/what you're looking for and what you can offer a potential meet. Add some personality. I look at the profile before I even read the message. good luck!

"Some" people can achieve a lot in 2 to 3 weeks.

Effort in, results out.

Having an epic profile helps too.

I know, it was more of a comment on the fact that some people will avoid new profiles and so that could be another factor that may hinder him, among other things.

You're right, lots of people seem to filter out new members.

However, my own profile is only a few weeks old....

I filter out new profiles now but I get messages from 5 day old profiles so I guess after 5 days you're not a newbie anymore ....? I also filter no public photos but at least half of my messages come from those profiles ...I think that's the most pointless filter ever

They no public photo filter is easy to get around.

People set a photo, send their message, then go back to a silhouette avatar.

The buggers.

I know...when I mentioned that to one guy he denied it and said it must be fate that got him around my filters....sigh...

wonder if it's because they've ever had a pic on their profile at some point? this site has a few glitches as well.

Ah possibly I always think it's a bit of a fuck about to be changing your pic settings just to send 'hi' to a random profile and then quickly change it back again. A glitch would make more sense to me "

well i looked at source code, but only for things available to me. and i checked out filters blocks 'NoPics', so i checked a page with no pics, no profile or freinds pics and it shows up as 'Pics' and not NoPics.

i reckon that's why. bet he could get round your filters without altering anything.

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen


"Your profile's only 2 weeks old, having public photos helps. You say you're up for anything which will put some off as will being attached. I'd lose the 'lol'.

Say something more specific about who/what you're looking for and what you can offer a potential meet. Add some personality. I look at the profile before I even read the message. good luck!

"Some" people can achieve a lot in 2 to 3 weeks.

Effort in, results out.

Having an epic profile helps too.

I know, it was more of a comment on the fact that some people will avoid new profiles and so that could be another factor that may hinder him, among other things.

You're right, lots of people seem to filter out new members.

However, my own profile is only a few weeks old....

I filter out new profiles now but I get messages from 5 day old profiles so I guess after 5 days you're not a newbie anymore ....? I also filter no public photos but at least half of my messages come from those profiles ...I think that's the most pointless filter ever

They no public photo filter is easy to get around.

People set a photo, send their message, then go back to a silhouette avatar.

The buggers.

I know...when I mentioned that to one guy he denied it and said it must be fate that got him around my filters....sigh...

wonder if it's because they've ever had a pic on their profile at some point? this site has a few glitches as well.

Ah possibly I always think it's a bit of a fuck about to be changing your pic settings just to send 'hi' to a random profile and then quickly change it back again. A glitch would make more sense to me

well i looked at source code, but only for things available to me. and i checked out filters blocks 'NoPics', so i checked a page with no pics, no profile or freinds pics and it shows up as 'Pics' and not NoPics.

i reckon that's why. bet he could get round your filters without altering anything. "

Ah crap....I feel a bit bad now, he must've been wondering what the hell I was going on about.... If he didn't have a silhouette avatar I could maybe have found him and apologised... I'll stop giving them a hard time now just in case.

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By *ink magnolia s yorksWoman
over a year ago

south yorkshire

You've been here two weeks..people get bored of arranging things with new people for them to leave.

You're playing away...self explanatory really. Why do single women want the hassle of men playing away to have to work around another person, when you can have a single man with no hassle

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"Your profile's only 2 weeks old, having public photos helps. You say you're up for anything which will put some off as will being attached. I'd lose the 'lol'.

Say something more specific about who/what you're looking for and what you can offer a potential meet. Add some personality. I look at the profile before I even read the message. good luck!

"Some" people can achieve a lot in 2 to 3 weeks.

Effort in, results out.

Having an epic profile helps too.

I know, it was more of a comment on the fact that some people will avoid new profiles and so that could be another factor that may hinder him, among other things.

You're right, lots of people seem to filter out new members.

However, my own profile is only a few weeks old....

I filter out new profiles now but I get messages from 5 day old profiles so I guess after 5 days you're not a newbie anymore ....? I also filter no public photos but at least half of my messages come from those profiles ...I think that's the most pointless filter ever

They no public photo filter is easy to get around.

People set a photo, send their message, then go back to a silhouette avatar.

The buggers.

I know...when I mentioned that to one guy he denied it and said it must be fate that got him around my filters....sigh...

wonder if it's because they've ever had a pic on their profile at some point? this site has a few glitches as well.

Ah possibly I always think it's a bit of a fuck about to be changing your pic settings just to send 'hi' to a random profile and then quickly change it back again. A glitch would make more sense to me

well i looked at source code, but only for things available to me. and i checked out filters blocks 'NoPics', so i checked a page with no pics, no profile or freinds pics and it shows up as 'Pics' and not NoPics.

i reckon that's why. bet he could get round your filters without altering anything.

Ah crap....I feel a bit bad now, he must've been wondering what the hell I was going on about.... If he didn't have a silhouette avatar I could maybe have found him and apologised... I'll stop giving them a hard time now just in case. "

lol, the avatar thing.

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By *pple16Man
over a year ago

Macclesfield

winge, winge, effort in, yields results,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I would say that that was due to the fact that you are using this site as somewhere to find someone with which to conduct illicit liaisons and behind your partners back....

whereas obviously it is primarily a swingers site, where supposedly honest and open people get to know each other and then eventually meet for sex...

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