FabSwingers.com forum: Misleading profiles

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I recently contacted a couple in response to their request to meet likeminded couples. Their profile stated they were both straight and after a brief exchange of messages I together with my long term female fb agreed to meet. Sadly after a drive of over an hour we arrived only to find out that all was not right namely the male of the couple announced that he never plays preferring to take a voyeuistic role and also they only have a "couple" profile as a way to get female partners for his bi partner. As my fb is 100% straight she was bitterly disappointed. Should I report this couple for blatantly posting a misleading profile? I feel I should not out of any malice but to avoid others falling for this con.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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definitely don't verify them as genuine.

as for the other, idk. seems pointless to report them but someone might think it isn't.

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By *icked_tongueMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Yes you should

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Update: tried to report but sadly they have blocked me !!!!!

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Update: tried to report but sadly they have blocked me !!!!!"

You can still report them. You can also block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...Should I report this couple for blatantly posting a misleading profile? I feel I should not out of any malice but to avoid others falling for this con."

Of course you should!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Update: tried to report but sadly they have blocked me !!!!!

You can still report them. You can also block them. "

How?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Update: tried to report but sadly they have blocked me !!!!!

You can still report them. You can also block them. "

Relatively new here. How can I report them if I click on their profile via my inbox it tells me I'm blocked from their profile.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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report via the message.

but even though you can't see their profile you can also report them on their page, should be a drop box in the top right corner.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"report via the message.

but even though you can't see their profile you can also report them on their page, should be a drop box in the top right corner."

Thanks just reported x

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Doubt if anything will be done.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"report via the message.

but even though you can't see their profile you can also report them on their page, should be a drop box in the top right corner.

Thanks just reported x"

you're welcome. hopefully any more meets you have will be with genuine people.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Yes they should be.

Just because we are on a swingers site, doesn't mean we have to leave honesty, morals and principles before we enter

This just gives more creedance to my argument about bi guys pretending to be straight.

Respect for others is dwindling badly with some on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes they should be.

Just because we are on a swingers site, doesn't mean we have to leave honesty, morals and principles before we enter

This just gives more creedance to my argument about bi guys pretending to be straight.

Respect for others is dwindling badly with some on here. "

So very true

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"report via the message.

but even though you can't see their profile you can also report them on their page, should be a drop box in the top right corner.

Thanks just reported x

you're welcome. hopefully any more meets you have will be with genuine people.

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By *op gooserMan
over a year ago

chester

"Yes they should be.

Just because we are on a swingers site, doesn't mean we have to leave honesty, morals and principles before we enter

This just gives more creedance to my argument about bi guys pretending to be straight.

Respect for others is dwindling badly with some on here. "
The saying 'A standing prick has no conscience' springs to mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is so awful.

There's are lots of bifem couples on here so why lie?

How did they react when you said to them your partner was straight?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is so awful.

There's are lots of bifem couples on here so why lie?

How did they react when you said to them your partner was straight?"
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It didn't go down well as you can imagine and tbh we just wanted to get away asap

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By *icence_2_Thrill_006.9Man
over a year ago

Sex Bi The Sea

I get a lot of straight guys wanting to play with me I usually tell them to change the profile and man up I get a bit of abuse. And on the other hand iv gone around to play with a Straight couple and they both like to share my cock very strange lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes they should be.

Just because we are on a swingers site, doesn't mean we have to leave honesty, morals and principles before we enter

This just gives more creedance to my argument about bi guys pretending to be straight.

Respect for others is dwindling badly with some on here. "

What about a straight guy pretending to be straight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi how can you block

Somebody who has already blocked you as I would like to do this many thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are thousands of profiles here that are False and/or Misleading.

Just requires more care in going about your meets to them out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes they should be.

Just because we are on a swingers site, doesn't mean we have to leave honesty, morals and principles before we enter

This just gives more creedance to my argument about bi guys pretending to be straight.

Respect for others is dwindling badly with some on here.

What about a straight guy pretending to be straight?"

Love it

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"Hi how can you block

Somebody who has already blocked you as I would like to do this many thanks x"

On the desktop version you can click on their profile, blue menu on the left of the page, select Block Profile option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi how can you block

Somebody who has already blocked you as I would like to do this many thanks x"

If you're on a lappy/computer just click on your block list and type their name in. not sure if you're using a phone

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

"Yes they should be.

Just because we are on a swingers site, doesn't mean we have to leave honesty, morals and principles before we enter

This just gives more creedance to my argument about bi guys pretending to be straight.

Respect for others is dwindling badly with some on here. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why on earth would somone make a couples profile to bait women for thier bi female.

A single bi female profile would be knee deep in clunge

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By *eal Deal PartiesWoman
over a year ago

REPORT!! Report!! REPORT!!

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

Sounds like somethings weren't discussed enough beforehand

Shame you had a wasted time

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock

It's always wise to do a social first. Anyone can say anything on the internet, but in person, they can't hide their body language.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had a similar experience -though the profile did say the female was bi- it made out they played as a couple. We drove two hours (there and back) to meet them; guy doesn't play; both only giving eye contact to Penny; clearly only looking for ladies for her. Why waste our time when our profile clearly states Penny is straight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would suggest that there was a lack of communication here - perhaps more careful planning, better discussion?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We would suggest that there was a lack of communication here - perhaps more careful planning, better discussion?

Hindsight is such a wonderful thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sounds like somethings weren't discussed enough beforehand

Shame you had a wasted time "

This what I wondered also, whether it's less about misleading profiles and more about wishful thinking and running away with assumptions, this happens A LOT here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sounds like somethings weren't discussed enough beforehand

Shame you had a wasted time

This what I wondered also, whether it's less about misleading profiles and more about wishful thinking and running away with assumptions, this happens A LOT here."

Nothing to do with wishful thinking and running away with assumptions, their profile and messages clearly indicated they were both straight and would BOTH actively participate in same room swapping fun

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

"Sounds like somethings weren't discussed enough beforehand

Shame you had a wasted time

This what I wondered also, whether it's less about misleading profiles and more about wishful thinking and running away with assumptions, this happens A LOT here.

Profiles I take with a pinch of salt

From what you say about the messages then yes they need reporting for all the good it will do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you not bottom out what their play preferences and parameters were in the chat before meeting? Maybe spend a little more time doing your due diligence, if it was an out and out fib then yes I would report them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sounds like somethings weren't discussed enough beforehand

Shame you had a wasted time

This what I wondered also, whether it's less about misleading profiles and more about wishful thinking and running away with assumptions, this happens A LOT here.

Profiles I take with a pinch of salt

From what you say about the messages then yes they need reporting for all the good it will do.

In my defence I am a newbie to this site so naively thought profiles were honest

. They have been reported by like you suspect nothing will be done

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

OPA has stated that the expectations were discussed beforehand and that the couple gave the impression they would do full swap fun.

Profiles really should not be misleading and if a couple states they are after couples for full swap, but in fact only one plays, they ought to be reported.

This has ruined the OP and his fb's day and wasted time and petrol money.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

OP you'll struggle to report anyway.

The couple wanted to meet couples for full swap.

You are a single and took your fb.

The male in the couple wasn't playing so your fb didn't have a swap.

The only person who could reasonably report them is her.

Also, the other couple could say on meeting things didn't click and they gave an excuse.

Forget it and move on.

Also, if you play as a couple create an additional couples profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sounds like somethings weren't discussed enough beforehand

Shame you had a wasted time

This what I wondered also, whether it's less about misleading profiles and more about wishful thinking and running away with assumptions, this happens A LOT here.

Hmm ok. I still don't get it though - if he/they were looking for a woman to play with their woman and you had told them your friend was straight, what did they stand to gain by inviting you over? Them messing you around aside, you yourselves didn't fit their criteria either?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recently spoke to someone who said they've not had sex since August, okay cool; they're overly pushy in messages about barebacking and having been tested, not cool; safe only for me, no matter how much I hate condoms, unless I've known you for ages or am in a relationship with you.

Talk on phone with her, they npw say last time had sex was December and again mention unprotected sex.

Some people really are fucking thick! Annoying.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"Sounds like somethings weren't discussed enough beforehand

Shame you had a wasted time

This what I wondered also, whether it's less about misleading profiles and more about wishful thinking and running away with assumptions, this happens A LOT here.

some people think you will change your mind once you meet them. it's why some people use old pics or pics of themselves better looking than they are now, they think it won't matter once you meet them.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Yes they should be.

Just because we are on a swingers site, doesn't mean we have to leave honesty, morals and principles before we enter

This just gives more creedance to my argument about bi guys pretending to be straight.

Very true I've had the worst day ever on here.

Respect for others is dwindling badly with some on here.

So very true "

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