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" There is a bit of a myth around that you can't have a coil fitted if you haven't had children. I haven't and it was fine." It actually depends on two things: 1. How large your body is (presumably your cervix size and uterus). 2. If your local NHS trust will fund the smaller coil. Essex NHS trust used to fund the smaller coil for women who had not had babies and were small bodied. Oxfordshire doesn't (or didn't, last time I went). I could get it privately where I live now, but not on the NHS. | |||
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"All I know is when having sex the strings can make the guy sore as well . Does for me anyway .." Ask the lady to go and have them cut shorter. I did. | |||
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"All I know is when having sex the strings can make the guy sore as well . Does for me anyway .." We don't have it fitted for you though, we do it for our own health and wellbeing. My periods were so heavy i was severely anaemic. I would rather never have sex with anyone than suffer the way i was before i had it fitted. | |||
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"All I know is when having sex the strings can make the guy sore as well . Does for me anyway .." Not if it's done right ... no one has ever felt mine & it's been 8 years, halfway through my second one now! | |||
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"All I know is when having sex the strings can make the guy sore as well . Does for me anyway .. We don't have it fitted for you though, we do it for our own health and wellbeing. My periods were so heavy i was severely anaemic. I would rather never have sex with anyone than suffer the way i was before i had it fitted. " My apologies I probably didn't come across the way I wanted to Of course you do it for you and totally feel for you must be awfull I was just throwing my own experiences out there as coming from a different angle ![]() | |||
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"All I know is when having sex the strings can make the guy sore as well . Does for me anyway .. Not if it's done right ... no one has ever felt mine & it's been 8 years, halfway through my second one now!" It can be felt by the guy if your strings are too long. They soften over time or you can get them snipped shorter. My poor hubby was on the receiving end of this and it isn't pleasant! | |||
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"All I know is when having sex the strings can make the guy sore as well . Does for me anyway .. We don't have it fitted for you though, we do it for our own health and wellbeing. My periods were so heavy i was severely anaemic. I would rather never have sex with anyone than suffer the way i was before i had it fitted. My apologies I probably didn't come across the way I wanted to Of course you do it for you and totally feel for you must be awfull I was just throwing my own experiences out there as coming from a different angle ![]() Perfectly valid point ![]() | |||
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"I have the Mirina. Was no worse than going for a smear to have it fitted. Some cramping for a day or two after. The first 6months I had spotting but not a period. Ive never had a period on it. I have gained a little weight but that could just be coincidental as my dad died shortly after I had it and my life's been very stressful for the last couple of years. Its worked for me and I'm due to get it replaced soon. I'd be interested to know how that went for others. I'm worried I'll go back to spotting again for months! " Yes I had a period of sporadic bleeding after for a few months. But it's worth it for me. | |||
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"I have the Mirina. Was no worse than going for a smear to have it fitted. Some cramping for a day or two after. The first 6months I had spotting but not a period. Ive never had a period on it. I have gained a little weight but that could just be coincidental as my dad died shortly after I had it and my life's been very stressful for the last couple of years. Its worked for me and I'm due to get it replaced soon. I'd be interested to know how that went for others. I'm worried I'll go back to spotting again for months! Yes I had a period of sporadic bleeding after for a few months. But it's worth it for me. " Oh it definitely is for me too. I have very high blood pressure so its the only hormonal contraception safe for me. | |||
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"I had the mirena fitted two weeks ago for exactly this. So far I've bled every day and had stomach cramps, I'm really hoping it settles!! I was supposed to be having an endometrial abalation but it was decided that due a variety of factors that it wouldn't be suitable. I'm giving this six months to settle down and if it doesn't I'll be having everything out! " I'm hoping for an endometrial ablation, because my periods have got longer and heavier since I came off the pill due to having a sterilization. I'd love everything out... but they won't go for that... | |||
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"I had the mirena fitted two weeks ago for exactly this. So far I've bled every day and had stomach cramps, I'm really hoping it settles!! I was supposed to be having an endometrial abalation but it was decided that due a variety of factors that it wouldn't be suitable. I'm giving this six months to settle down and if it doesn't I'll be having everything out! I'm hoping for an endometrial ablation, because my periods have got longer and heavier since I came off the pill due to having a sterilization. I'd love everything out... but they won't go for that..." My mum had everything out at the same age that I am now and they found cancer, plus being overweight, my risk is quite high. I had a hysteroscopy instead, which was ouchie. I'm just waiting for results on that too. If it all works, i will be a happy bunny! I'm sick on carrying loads of stuff around each month, not being able to go out and having to take days off sick because of heavy bleeding. | |||
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"I had a mirena and bled for 8 weeks solid....and not just spotting either. It works great for some but makes other peoples live a misery ![]() Oh god! | |||
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"I had a mirena and bled for 8 weeks solid....and not just spotting either. It works great for some but makes other peoples live a misery ![]() Do you take tranexamic acid?? | |||
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"I had a mirena and bled for 8 weeks solid....and not just spotting either. It works great for some but makes other peoples live a misery ![]() I have done but although it helped initially I ended up bleeding for 10/15 days. | |||
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"I'm thinking of having the coil fitted as I have heavy periods and quite painful. I've been told the coil will stop my periods is this true? And is it painful to have it fitted x" As long as it the Mirena and not th3 copper. I love mine no periods although I did once lose it into my cervix lol. Means I can have sex all the time too | |||
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"I'm thinking of having the coil fitted as I have heavy periods and quite painful. I've been told the coil will stop my periods is this true? And is it painful to have it fitted x" I didn't want a coil so the alternative given to me was a pill that stopped my periods called Cerazette. But I was a few years older than you. Worth asking if you are unsure with the coil. Good luck though x | |||
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"I've got the mirena coil and it's been brilliant. No problems at all and very rarely a tiny little bleed but nothing more than a day. ![]() Same here ![]() ![]() | |||
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"It is a Mirena coil for heavy periods. That is why I had it fitted and also the reason I had it removed. Hated it. Do your research before hand, not just with medical and the manufacturers website but with support groups. Find out the pros and cons before hand, I wish I had, would have saved me years of medical complications." I've been against it for ages but after having to explain to four people at work, why I needed to go home to change and try and discreetly clean up where I had been sitting, I thought that it couldn't make it any worse. So everything crossed that it helps! | |||
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"Had an ex who had the coil fitted due to heavy periods ....worst thing she ever done , it changed her completely her moods were foul n disgusting ..she even admits it her self ..we broke up thought it ...turned her into an animal ..FACT " I've not noticed any changes like that yet, plus I'm always grumpy ![]() ![]() | |||
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"All I know is when having sex the strings can make the guy sore as well . Does for me anyway .. We don't have it fitted for you though, we do it for our own health and wellbeing. My periods were so heavy i was severely anaemic. I would rather never have sex with anyone than suffer the way i was before i had it fitted. My apologies I probably didn't come across the way I wanted to Of course you do it for you and totally feel for you must be awfull I was just throwing my own experiences out there as coming from a different angle ![]() Typical man lol wanting attention even when ladies are discussing 'ladies problems'...! | |||
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"Had an ex who had the coil fitted due to heavy periods ....worst thing she ever done , it changed her completely her moods were foul n disgusting ..she even admits it her self ..we broke up thought it ...turned her into an animal ..FACT " That can happen with any hormonal contraception. It's the reason I don't take it anymore. | |||
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"I have the mirena coil and I've never really had any problems with it.....in 5 years I've had 3 periods...I wasn't awake when the put it in though so can't comment on that however I am due to have it removed next month and I am dreading it ![]() Take some pain killers before you go world for me | |||
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"I have the mirena coil and I've never really had any problems with it.....in 5 years I've had 3 periods...I wasn't awake when the put it in though so can't comment on that however I am due to have it removed next month and I am dreading it ![]() I didn't feel hardly anything when I had it removed....just a quick tugging feeling for a few seconds thats all xx | |||
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"I have the mirena coil and I've never really had any problems with it.....in 5 years I've had 3 periods...I wasn't awake when the put it in though so can't comment on that however I am due to have it removed next month and I am dreading it ![]() Thank you ![]() | |||
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"I have the mirena coil and I've never really had any problems with it.....in 5 years I've had 3 periods...I wasn't awake when the put it in though so can't comment on that however I am due to have it removed next month and I am dreading it ![]() ![]() I had a hysteroscopy done with just painkillers and the coil fitted, so think a coil on its own would have been ok. | |||
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"I have the mirena coil and I've never really had any problems with it.....in 5 years I've had 3 periods...I wasn't awake when the put it in though so can't comment on that however I am due to have it removed next month and I am dreading it ![]() They couldn't find the strings on mine (this was a known issue from early days) so there was quite a lot of delving around ...but even that wasn't that uncomfortable considering. For a normal removal it won't be anywhere near as bad as you'll big it up to be before hand! Don't worry about it..... And try to relax. X | |||
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"I had the mirena fitted two weeks ago for exactly this. So far I've bled every day and had stomach cramps, I'm really hoping it settles!! I was supposed to be having an endometrial abalation but it was decided that due a variety of factors that it wouldn't be suitable. I'm giving this six months to settle down and if it doesn't I'll be having everything out! " I had the mirena fitted almost 5 yrs ago, needs changing later this year, and I had cramps for weeks. Eventually they sent me for an ultrasound to check it was all OK which it was, so they trimmed the strings and asked me to give it a little longer. I think it was 6-8 weeks but it did settle, haven't had a period since and I'm glad I didn't get it removed. | |||
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"I had the mirena fitted two weeks ago for exactly this. So far I've bled every day and had stomach cramps, I'm really hoping it settles!! I was supposed to be having an endometrial abalation but it was decided that due a variety of factors that it wouldn't be suitable. I'm giving this six months to settle down and if it doesn't I'll be having everything out! I had the mirena fitted almost 5 yrs ago, needs changing later this year, and I had cramps for weeks. Eventually they sent me for an ultrasound to check it was all OK which it was, so they trimmed the strings and asked me to give it a little longer. I think it was 6-8 weeks but it did settle, haven't had a period since and I'm glad I didn't get it removed. " Thank you. I'm really hoping that it settles! | |||
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"Nurse here. Both coil fittings are similar to Smear procedure. Take some painkillers before hand. You may notice spotting and irregular bleeding up to 6 months post insertion. Side effects of mirena are weight gain, mood swings, acne and headaches. With copper, weight gain, back ache and altered tastes. Each womans story will be different and only you can choose the right contraceptive. The implant has the highest success rate. Expiry on licence of mirena is now three years not five. Personally, I hated the mirena, I was suicidal, moods intolerable and weight gain. Within an hour of it being removed I felt better. There are law suits against the manufacturers in the US, and are attempting here. Read up, be wise, and be willing to trial options. " I got told 5 years and that's what my renewal card says. | |||
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