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By *mmmMaybe OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Wales

So H got a message this morning from a well veried ladies account, goes straight to her profile were this "singles" profile promptly says "I never meet without xyz & we have a couples account too"..

The message H got is from said mail on the ladies singles account.

Now I know we have plenty of fakes already but can admin advise as to why so many single ladies accounts are allowed to exist when if they are on fact real they never meet alone.

And yes H does have her own account put plastered all over it is "Forum use only, not meeting from this account"

So obviously, said messenger can't bloody read either

S

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

If you see account like this, you can always report them for not being what they say they are.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a genuine single woman and I do meet alone. My verifications from in person meets prove this. Not all fab single women are lying.

If you see someone that isn't what they say on the tin, report, block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they forgot which profile they were on when they messaged?

I have a single and couples account but I only use this one for the forums and chatting because I know it would drive hubby mad getting notifications all day while I'm gassing about forum posts and hair dye lol.

If I'm interested in meeting someone all arrangements are made through the couples account so we can both see what is being said x

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By *mmmMaybe OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Wales


"If you see account like this, you can always report them for not being what they say they are.

Cal"

This one will be but I was trying to find out if a single account says "I will never meet alone" would admin say it should be closed down no matter how well verified or how long they've been on here.

I just see it as a way around filters tbh. Even more so when a message comes from the male of the partnership on the single fem account.

S

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By *mmmMaybe OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Maybe they forgot which profile they were on when they messaged?

I have a single and couples account but I only use this one for the forums and chatting because I know it would drive hubby mad getting notifications all day while I'm gassing about forum posts and hair dye lol.

If I'm interested in meeting someone all arrangements are made through the couples account so we can both see what is being said x"

I can see this happening, I'll read message later & respond first see whether just a cock up, language used sort of tell me it wasn't though.

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps the single account is for chat and forums.she is making it clear she has a couples account,and won't meet alone.personally i don't see the problem.you have read what it says,it's obviously not what you are looking for so move on to a profile that does fit your needs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we call them bait accounts because so many people are looking for single females, the woman is dangled like a piece of bait when the profile is actually driven by the male partner. Particularly annoying if all of the veris are for "this lovely couple"

We report every one we come across...then have a giggle at the "don't understand why my profile has been changed to a couple" status updates while there are still capital letters in the first line of the profile saying "I DON'T MEET WITHOUT MY MAN"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I,m a genuine single, I,m dangling myself as bait, I wish I could hook me a nice man XXX

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley


"I,m a genuine single, I,m dangling myself as bait, I wish I could hook me a nice man XXX"

I've never liked being hooked, it always leads to a misadventure.

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

OP surely the exact details of who or who isn't at the first meet would be sorted out over a phone call, prior to that meet?

Think about it from the other women prospective -she's walking into unknown territory, meeting unknown person, she wants to take someone along "for safety" and if your intentions are fine, then the question is: what's the problem!

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Maybe they forgot which profile they were on when they messaged?

I have a single and couples account but I only use this one for the forums and chatting because I know it would drive hubby mad getting notifications all day while I'm gassing about forum posts and hair dye lol.

If I'm interested in meeting someone all arrangements are made through the couples account so we can both see what is being said x"

Im much the same with my account ... very genuine female here but I host events, like to go on the forums and have more time to chat than he does about the events coming up. Still love to meet people socially at my nights just prefer to meet and play with my other half involved x

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Any single profile that says they only meet with there partner should be reported.

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By *mmmMaybe OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Wales


"OP surely the exact details of who or who isn't at the first meet would be sorted out over a phone call, prior to that meet?

Think about it from the other women prospective -she's walking into unknown territory, meeting unknown person, she wants to take someone along "for safety" and if your intentions are fine, then the question is: what's the problem! "

Nope, the message is quite clearly from him & breakdown in no uncertain terms what HE can do with not a lot of mention from her & what she will do.

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By *ungdublinguyMan
over a year ago

Dublin/Leitrim

The theory is they get more attention as a single lady and I always report them but no action gets taken there is one lady local to me with the word couple in her username it's a growing problem and one admin seem to ignore.

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By *mmmMaybe OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Wales

Take it to its basic level & its a way around filters, so should be stopped.

Makes us die that the guy has sent two bloody paragraphs in a raunchy message but can't read a two line profile that says "Forum use & girly chat only, not meeting from this account".

S

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley


"OP surely the exact details of who or who isn't at the first meet would be sorted out over a phone call, prior to that meet?

Think about it from the other women prospective -she's walking into unknown territory, meeting unknown person, she wants to take someone along "for safety" and if your intentions are fine, then the question is: what's the problem!

Nope, the message is quite clearly from him & breakdown in no uncertain terms what HE can do with not a lot of mention from her & what she will do.

"

but she has a highly verified account? -Hmm stolen account? or she's left him -(too controlling?), and he's jacked her account.

Either-ways you can only: report, block, and move on.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I agree with you OP. Single accounts should be just that. I've had messages from ladies (woohoooo) who have said they are interested in meeting me only in another breath to say they would want their partner there

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

if you report them and they complain about being changed to a couple someone gives them advice about taking the meet as a couple off their profile anyway, that won't help.

i don't report them coz i don't look for single women so don't see them but seen in the forums loads of times people doing the above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I,m a genuine single, I,m dangling myself as bait, I wish I could hook me a nice man XXX

I've never liked being hooked, it always leads to a misadventure."

Yes that's me and I,m out to hook you, especially if you're good at cleaning x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP surely the exact details of who or who isn't at the first meet would be sorted out over a phone call, prior to that meet?

Think about it from the other women prospective -she's walking into unknown territory, meeting unknown person, she wants to take someone along "for safety" and if your intentions are fine, then the question is: what's the problem! "

Never ok with a single fem 'taking someone along for safety'. That's meeting a couple. What about my safety? The other person has nothing to do with me meeting a single fem and has no right to be there.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"OP surely the exact details of who or who isn't at the first meet would be sorted out over a phone call, prior to that meet?

Think about it from the other women prospective -she's walking into unknown territory, meeting unknown person, she wants to take someone along "for safety" and if your intentions are fine, then the question is: what's the problem! "

There's nothing stopping these people from having a couples account.

It annoys me as it gets round my couples filter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't want to meet a single man who brought a woman along. If I want to meet a couple I would have them on my looking for page.

Single accounts who only meet with someone else should be a couples account, so report them.

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By *orksCouple25Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"we call them bait accounts because so many people are looking for single females, the woman is dangled like a piece of bait when the profile is actually driven by the male partner. Particularly annoying if all of the veris are for "this lovely couple"

We report every one we come across...then have a giggle at the "don't understand why my profile has been changed to a couple" status updates while there are still capital letters in the first line of the profile saying "I DON'T MEET WITHOUT MY MAN""

Spot on this . It's a great expression 'bait account' and it's accurate. A lot of these ' single female ' accounts are used to lure in unsuspecting couples and are often set up and administered by the man and quite often its a very manipulative man too using his partner or Fab buddy for bait without her even realising what's going on ! It's more often a case of using bait accounts to hoover up photos to wank to rather than ever meeting anyone .

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley


"OP surely the exact details of who or who isn't at the first meet would be sorted out over a phone call, prior to that meet?

Think about it from the other women prospective -she's walking into unknown territory, meeting unknown person, she wants to take someone along "for safety" and if your intentions are fine, then the question is: what's the problem!

Never ok with a single fem 'taking someone along for safety'. That's meeting a couple. What about my safety? The other person has nothing to do with me meeting a single fem and has no right to be there."

What really! Even if the safety person backs away (take a walk etc) after the initial introductions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP surely the exact details of who or who isn't at the first meet would be sorted out over a phone call, prior to that meet?

Think about it from the other women prospective -she's walking into unknown territory, meeting unknown person, she wants to take someone along "for safety" and if your intentions are fine, then the question is: what's the problem!

Never ok with a single fem 'taking someone along for safety'. That's meeting a couple. What about my safety? The other person has nothing to do with me meeting a single fem and has no right to be there.

What really! Even if the safety person backs away (take a walk etc) after the initial introductions?"

No. If I wanted to meet a couple I would. Nobody else's business if I meet a single fem. Totally between them and me. In fact Id find it insulting. Always first meet in public so absolutely no reason to bring anyone else. If they do then they have their own agenda, which is a reason to not meet them.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I have a single account for single meets, as does my partner. I do feel like I should be using it for the forum more though. Neither of us use our single accounts as bait though .... I would never take my partner along to any single meets, I don't need him for safety any more than I do in 'real life' as I take stock of the risks and manage them myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we call them bait accounts because so many people are looking for single females, the woman is dangled like a piece of bait when the profile is actually driven by the male partner. Particularly annoying if all of the veris are for "this lovely couple"

We report every one we come across...then have a giggle at the "don't understand why my profile has been changed to a couple" status updates while there are still capital letters in the first line of the profile saying "I DON'T MEET WITHOUT MY MAN""

Yep, got it in one!

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By *llNatural36FWoman
over a year ago

Denbighshire

I'm a single Pringle but when I went to meet a couple I took a friend with me as it was somewhere I didn't know and the couple were so understanding and lovely.

If it's a single man/woman I'm meeting then I go alone otherwise it's firstly not fair and secondly it's like I'm not capable of doing it on my own. I didn't realise until reading this thread that it's an issue on here but not everybody posts by the rules I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you see account like this, you can always report them for not being what they say they are.

Cal

This one will be but I was trying to find out if a single account says "I will never meet alone" would admin say it should be closed down no matter how well verified or how long they've been on here.

I just see it as a way around filters tbh. Even more so when a message comes from the male of the partnership on the single fem account.

S"

But you dont have a filter against couples.

What your saying is "its ok for me to have a singles account but no one else"

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By *mmmMaybe OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Wales


"If you see account like this, you can always report them for not being what they say they are.

Cal

This one will be but I was trying to find out if a single account says "I will never meet alone" would admin say it should be closed down no matter how well verified or how long they've been on here.

I just see it as a way around filters tbh. Even more so when a message comes from the male of the partnership on the single fem account.

S

But you dont have a filter against couples.

What your saying is "its ok for me to have a singles account but no one else""

No not really if you read both this thread & our profiles properly.

The single female account contacted H on her forum & fem chat only account. Now had the message been from a couples account "they" would have got a "H is not looking to meet couples etc.etc". But it wasn't..

Also H doesn't message from her account to try and circumvent filters yo then say "Hi fancy a meet, but I only meet with hubby"..

We have no problem with couples having more than one account for whatever reason...as long as it's a legitimate one. Using a single fem account to only ever arrange meets as a couple isn't one of them

S

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

My account was once changed into a couples account because I got reported for advertising meets for myself and a fem playmate a few times, we were both single, still met as singles, we just happened to be in the same place a few times and wanted a couple of guys to come to the house.

There are some very genuine women on here that get reported and abused for actually doing nothing wrong, the way I see it is, if it's not what you're looking for, block and move on.

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By *mmmMaybe OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Wales


"I'm a single Pringle but when I went to meet a couple I took a friend with me as it was somewhere I didn't know and the couple were so understanding and lovely.

If it's a single man/woman I'm meeting then I go alone otherwise it's firstly not fair and secondly it's like I'm not capable of doing it on my own. I didn't realise until reading this thread that it's an issue on here but not everybody posts by the rules I guess "

We don't have a problem with this on a first social as we know a lot of couples do play seperatly but the male would like to make sure he's not letting his partner play with a nutter or two. After the social though you are on your own.

S

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

How about couples accounts where the male half has female that isn't playing or he's "trying to get her swinging"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about couples accounts where the male half has female that isn't playing or he's "trying to get her swinging"? "

Report. They should be a single account.

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley


"I'm a single Pringle but when I went to meet a couple I took a friend with me as it was somewhere I didn't know and the couple were so understanding and lovely.

If it's a single man/woman I'm meeting then I go alone otherwise it's firstly not fair and secondly it's like I'm not capable of doing it on my own. I didn't realise until reading this thread that it's an issue on here but not everybody posts by the rules I guess

We don't have a problem with this on a first social as we know a lot of couples do play seperatly but the male would like to make sure he's not letting his partner play with a nutter or two. After the social though you are on your own.

S"

Totally agree OP! 1st meet you can never know exactly who your actually meeting.

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By *llNatural36FWoman
over a year ago

Denbighshire


"I'm a single Pringle but when I went to meet a couple I took a friend with me as it was somewhere I didn't know and the couple were so understanding and lovely.

If it's a single man/woman I'm meeting then I go alone otherwise it's firstly not fair and secondly it's like I'm not capable of doing it on my own. I didn't realise until reading this thread that it's an issue on here but not everybody posts by the rules I guess

We don't have a problem with this on a first social as we know a lot of couples do play seperatly but the male would like to make sure he's not letting his partner play with a nutter or two. After the social though you are on your own.

S"

Completely agree, safety is a must and genuine people won't kick up a fuss about it.

After the social I'd meet them on my own no problem as it's not quite the fantasy having somebody hold my hand I'm sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe they forgot which profile they were on when they messaged?

I have a single and couples account but I only use this one for the forums and chatting because I know it would drive hubby mad getting notifications all day while I'm gassing about forum posts and hair dye lol.

If I'm interested in meeting someone all arrangements are made through the couples account so we can both see what is being said x

Im much the same with my account ... very genuine female here but I host events, like to go on the forums and have more time to chat than he does about the events coming up. Still love to meet people socially at my nights just prefer to meet and play with my other half involved x "

And of course it helps pulling in people to your club nights having a single profile eh in the end people rightly or wrongly will do whatever they feel gives them an edge...

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"How about couples accounts where the male half has female that isn't playing or he's "trying to get her swinging"?

Report. They should be a single account."

We do then block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP surely the exact details of who or who isn't at the first meet would be sorted out over a phone call, prior to that meet?

Think about it from the other women prospective -she's walking into unknown territory, meeting unknown person, she wants to take someone along "for safety" and if your intentions are fine, then the question is: what's the problem!

Never ok with a single fem 'taking someone along for safety'. That's meeting a couple. What about my safety? The other person has nothing to do with me meeting a single fem and has no right to be there.

What really! Even if the safety person backs away (take a walk etc) after the initial introductions?

No. If I wanted to meet a couple I would. Nobody else's business if I meet a single fem. Totally between them and me. In fact Id find it insulting. Always first meet in public so absolutely no reason to bring anyone else. If they do then they have their own agenda, which is a reason to not meet them. "

Exactly. Stick to your principles. If a guy turned up to me with someone else in tow, I'd get up and walk away. Meeting a single woman in the daytime for a social isn't scary for any guy.

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By *mmmMaybe OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Wales


"OP surely the exact details of who or who isn't at the first meet would be sorted out over a phone call, prior to that meet?

Think about it from the other women prospective -she's walking into unknown territory, meeting unknown person, she wants to take someone along "for safety" and if your intentions are fine, then the question is: what's the problem!

Never ok with a single fem 'taking someone along for safety'. That's meeting a couple. What about my safety? The other person has nothing to do with me meeting a single fem and has no right to be there.

What really! Even if the safety person backs away (take a walk etc) after the initial introductions?

No. If I wanted to meet a couple I would. Nobody else's business if I meet a single fem. Totally between them and me. In fact Id find it insulting. Always first meet in public so absolutely no reason to bring anyone else. If they do then they have their own agenda, which is a reason to not meet them.

Exactly. Stick to your principles. If a guy turned up to me with someone else in tow, I'd get up and walk away. Meeting a single woman in the daytime for a social isn't scary for any guy. "

Agree of a one on one meet then you should be on your own & just meet in public or a club, Singleton female meeting a couple was more the scenario we were thinking for a social chaperone..

S

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"Any single profile that says they only meet with there partner should be reported."

I can't see the problem...I am probably being thick

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By *mmmMaybe OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Any single profile that says they only meet with there partner should be reported.

I can't see the problem...I am probably being thick"

Even if the partner only wants to watch you are still in effect a couple so should have a couples profile.

;-)

S

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I understand ta

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to play devils advocate here. Maybe they have had bad experiences and an worried about it happening again. I have a single profile an this one. Maybe the girls who say the don't meet alone need reassurance not the greif that they are safe maybe offer a social meet first then a private one. There are couples profiles where it is just a man pretending to be a couple so they can get meets so don't judge all as time wasters an talk to them properly

Minx

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By *is_Collared_SubWoman
over a year ago

London


"OP surely the exact details of who or who isn't at the first meet would be sorted out over a phone call, prior to that meet?

Think about it from the other women prospective -she's walking into unknown territory, meeting unknown person, she wants to take someone along "for safety" and if your intentions are fine, then the question is: what's the problem!

Never ok with a single fem 'taking someone along for safety'. That's meeting a couple. What about my safety? The other person has nothing to do with me meeting a single fem and has no right to be there."

I have to disagree. These days I would feel very vulnerable if I met a guy for the first time on my own and went straight to the bedroom. I did this once, never again.

I've had my partner wait outside in the car as well, that was a bit better but logistically that's not a good option.

Now I only meet guys alone when I've played with them in groups. Which is explicitly stated on my profile.

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast


"How about couples accounts where the male half has female that isn't playing or he's "trying to get her swinging"? "

This has happened to us the couple we met the male has ongoing erection issues so it was not nerves as they openly told us on the second meet as he still couldn't get it up again,its every day problem for them and thats why they r swinging and we asked them why dont they get single males the answer was they don't like them and they never even tried it,so in this case do u report them cause they know the male can't get it up and they continually look for cpls when they only need the male.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see why it is a problem. Just because people are a couple, it doesn't mean they can't have their own single account. They are still individuals, not totally joined in body and mind.

If you don't like it, then simply ignore such profiles.

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By *mmmMaybe OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Wales


"I don't see why it is a problem. Just because people are a couple, it doesn't mean they can't have their own single account. They are still individuals, not totally joined in body and mind.

If you don't like it, then simply ignore such profiles. "

OK, so if you were only meeting other ladies and a guy messaged you from a single females account saying they were a couple that would be ok?

I think some are missing the point, you can have the separate accounts but you should be meeting as such, if not it's just carrot dangling or filter avoidance..isn't it?

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your all deluded if you think for one minute reporting a profile on here will achieve anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So H got a message this morning from a well veried ladies account, goes straight to her profile were this "singles" profile promptly says "I never meet without xyz & we have a couples account too"..

The message H got is from said mail on the ladies singles account.

Now I know we have plenty of fakes already but can admin advise as to why so many single ladies accounts are allowed to exist when if they are on fact real they never meet alone.

And yes H does have her own account put plastered all over it is "Forum use only, not meeting from this account"

So obviously, said messenger can't bloody read either

S"

What I don't agree with is those allegedly 'single female' profiles, where there is no info on them to say they are the female half of a couple...

So you start chatting, and you never even assume that at some point the male half (on the couples profile that she failed to mention) will contact you asking if you would be interested in meeting both...

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By *mmmMaybe OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Wales


"So H got a message this morning from a well veried ladies account, goes straight to her profile were this "singles" profile promptly says "I never meet without xyz & we have a couples account too"..

The message H got is from said mail on the ladies singles account.

Now I know we have plenty of fakes already but can admin advise as to why so many single ladies accounts are allowed to exist when if they are on fact real they never meet alone.

And yes H does have her own account put plastered all over it is "Forum use only, not meeting from this account"

So obviously, said messenger can't bloody read either

S

What I don't agree with is those allegedly 'single female' profiles, where there is no info on them to say they are the female half of a couple...

So you start chatting, and you never even assume that at some point the male half (on the couples profile that she failed to mention) will contact you asking if you would be interested in meeting both... "

Or sometimes just him, had that one too

S

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"How about couples accounts where the male half has female that isn't playing or he's "trying to get her swinging"?

This has happened to us the couple we met the male has ongoing erection issues so it was not nerves as they openly told us on the second meet as he still couldn't get it up again,its every day problem for them and thats why they r swinging and we asked them why dont they get single males the answer was they don't like them and they never even tried it,so in this case do u report them cause they know the male can't get it up and they continually look for cpls when they only need the male."

Tricky one however if this is the case they really shouldn't be looking for couples and should give single makes a try, if they haven't tried them, how do they know they don't like them?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"How about couples accounts where the male half has female that isn't playing or he's "trying to get her swinging"?

This has happened to us the couple we met the male has ongoing erection issues so it was not nerves as they openly told us on the second meet as he still couldn't get it up again,its every day problem for them and thats why they r swinging and we asked them why dont they get single males the answer was they don't like them and they never even tried it,so in this case do u report them cause they know the male can't get it up and they continually look for cpls when they only need the male.

Tricky one however if this is the case they really shouldn't be looking for couples and should give single makes a try, if they haven't tried them, how do they know they don't like them?"

Seems a bit unfair to the female half of the couple they are meeting to be honest

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over a year ago


"I don't see why it is a problem. Just because people are a couple, it doesn't mean they can't have their own single account. They are still individuals, not totally joined in body and mind.

If you don't like it, then simply ignore such profiles.

OK, so if you were only meeting other ladies and a guy messaged you from a single females account saying they were a couple that would be ok?

I think some are missing the point, you can have the separate accounts but you should be meeting as such, if not it's just carrot dangling or filter avoidance..isn't it?

S"

I would just ignore and move on, what does it matter. If they are a site supporter too and paying their fee, then surely that's a bonus in itself for the site.

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By *mmmMaybe OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Wales


"How about couples accounts where the male half has female that isn't playing or he's "trying to get her swinging"?

This has happened to us the couple we met the male has ongoing erection issues so it was not nerves as they openly told us on the second meet as he still couldn't get it up again,its every day problem for them and thats why they r swinging and we asked them why dont they get single males the answer was they don't like them and they never even tried it,so in this case do u report them cause they know the male can't get it up and they continually look for cpls when they only need the male.

Tricky one however if this is the case they really shouldn't be looking for couples and should give single makes a try, if they haven't tried them, how do they know they don't like them?

Seems a bit unfair to the female half of the couple they are meeting to be honest"

Only unfair bit is that they didn't tell you prior to meeting, should have given you the option to meet really.

S

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over a year ago

There's a song in that somewhere, one, a one two three four .....

AAAAAAND I'LLLLLL NEVERRRRRR MEEEEEEAT ALOOOOOOOOONE!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the remark that singles who say they never meet alone should have a couples account. However, I can also understand that a couple may be happy playing separately, with maybe a first social involving both of them and then solo from then on or perhaps an even less rigid situation where things may slip from separate play to threesomes and too and fro depending on people's mood.

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