FabSwingers.com forum: meeting members from home town

By *uriousplumpgirl OP Woman
over a year ago

Inverclyde/paisley

What do the members, think about meeting any other members maybe from their own town, or do you avoid your own town and like to travel to meet?

just wondering, what the thoughts are?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would like to meet someone locally but think a lot of folk dnt .

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

I would run a mile. And have done.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind meeting locally and I don't mind travelling fair distances either. All depends on the person/people I'm meeting

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

"What do the members, think about meeting any other members maybe from their own town, or do you avoid your own town and like to travel to meet?

just wondering, what the thoughts are?

messaged one cpl near me---no reply they just blocked me

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

we have met several very local people, it's certainly not a problem for us.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eclan_and_AimeeCouple
over a year ago

dunblane, stirling

"messaged one cpl near me---no reply they just blocked me

maybe they recognised you? lol

we have met people quite local to us as we dont think that you really any more likely to bump into them than someone who lives 30miles away.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am happy to meet local people - and so what if you bump into them! A knowing smile over the vegetables in tescos just adds to the fun lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What kind of vegetables ?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that should be a whole new thread! lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i only meet people who are local...its the only way it works for me!!

so far been all good!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

"What do the members, think about meeting any other members maybe from their own town, ........... "

Depends where your town is. Glasgow folks meeting Glasgow folks is one thing but if your town is, say, Auchterarder or Aberfeldy it might be a wee bit tooooooooo close to home.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nearer the better id say . adds to the fun

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer not to meet people who live in town, it's just too small for that!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wWell on another site we have discovered a cpl who live in the village half a mile down the road and it only has 8 houses, would not be hard to find out who they are lol. We have had social contact with a cpl who we met at a club and they are in they next town and he knows pauls dad, so would not bother us at all

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Dont fancy bumping into someone ive shagged the week before while slobbing it over to tesco lol, but then again a local one would be ok as a booty call

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope

would nevber play on my doorstep its dangerous ground

me thinks

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no....I try to meet not only out of town, but out of county if possible!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to put a few miles between us and the people we meet. We do always offer to go to them rather than them travel to us. Only fair.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ickedWWoman
over a year ago

Chester

I meet locals, not had a problem so far, and its great for a short notice meet up too, jump in the car and 10mins 20mins and you're there....

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"nope

would nevber play on my doorstep its dangerous ground

me thinks "
come and play on my doorstep then babe x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aledCouple
over a year ago

newcastle

just gota be careful we think, ppl sometimes are on here for a joke

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a localish couple once, Mrs Two2 met them and their kids and their parents a couple of weeks later coming out of a localish supermarket.........red faces all round so never again

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *lirties4uCouple
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I work in the public eye, so would not be happy meeting locally. Mr F would!

Don't want someone seeing me at work and wandering over for a chat!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often meet locals...

They are doing the same so why not lol... Makes it better, short notice becomes reality with ease and when it works long term can say without doubts has benifits and so far.. no negatives!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Meeting someone from home town?? In my case.. London?? Whats that then? Anyone within the M25 motorway? Doesn't happen.

Only times I know it to happen has been at parties - and half of those outside London (ie, Darlaston).

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we try to meet a couplew who is relatively local, either in our own town or nearby ,as we feel being local makes it less hassle to meet, as not a lot of mileage involved, and we like to meet more than once, in fact we think thsat although first meets are always fun and exciting, its nice to be able to meet from time to time with said couple and experiemnt more, trust more, and become friends too.

but, we do find that most people nearby dont really want to meet, or just ignore our message..most of the people we meet are from quite a distance.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have only ever bumped into one person I have played with , was out on lunch and I knew it was her, she gave me a blank look and walked on! charming!!!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *imfromGlasgowMan
over a year ago

er...guess

That's the right thing to do. She could have no idea who you might be with - perhaps someone about to step out of a shop or draw up at the kerb. Better safe than sorry.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a bloke from work mail me ( he doesnt know its me), i nearly passed out with shock, especially as he is a short fat bloke who clearly gets dresed in the dark! It wouldnt bother me meeting someone from my town, save on petrol and giving directions

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

local for me is Glasgow so pretty big place, i have however got a few message where people have clocked me but they can't talk if they are on here too! just fun if u are trying to introduce to friends who don't know lol xxx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have met and will meet ppl local to us cant beat going to a meet within walking distance lol...we have no bother thou with who knows alot of our friends know and family so prob makes it easier lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i started in this scene by going to a dogging site near me and to be honest, was just too lazy to travel any further on the off chance there might be some action! Have only met a few from my town, but do have my fuck buddy 5 minutes away!

I guess I don't mind shitting on my own doorstep!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wed love to meet people nearby but dont seem to manage it, they all clam up..

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

On the other side of the coin, we have jumped into a jacuzzi in a club 60 miles away and found ourselves next to one of Katee's old student nurses. So playing away from your home town is no guarantee that you won't meet an aquaintance either.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

Should also have added to that last post. I also found out a new guy in my department also swings, how? Cos I saw a pic of him and his wife on here! We are now friends and met up for drinks, who knows, we may even decide to have fun together in the future.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet local people but realise its not the done thing for some folk

But i think it depends on and individuals level of privacy and on a personal level we dont mind who knows or who finds out what we do

Thing is most people on here are on here for the same reason as everyone else and like the poster above you cant always know that you wont bump into people at clubs etc

xxx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

i meet people locally as well as a short distance away

it doesn't bother me even if we bump into each other down shops etc as long as when we've met we set boundaries for such occasions.

plus it can be handy if you have an uncontrolable urge that needs satisfying rapidly lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To the OP, what are you're thoughts on it??

I actually prefer to meet people from outside my home town.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met a couple from about 10 mins away from me and they both had public jobs I even saw her in her work and I just carried on doing what I was doing and ignored her as this was her wish when we spoke about me having seen her in town.

However I would never meet anyone from my town cos its tooooooooo fecking small - population 10 men 5 women 7 kids and 4 dogs

and I would never want to have the red face when Im up at the school collecting my kids.

Mainly cos not every one can keep a secret and there are people I wouldnt want to know we are on here

Shona

x x x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *isterPepperMan
over a year ago

Central Swindon

Never really got what the whole avoiding people one might have met thing is all about on a swinging site. For the sake of argument, you bump into a colleague. You haven't anything to be embarrassed about, after all, said colleague is here for the same reason you are. The way I see it from there you have three options: feel ashamed, even though you've nothing to be ashamed of, bonk 'em, or if you're worried that may make things awkward, just use your respective experiences as "water cooler" conversation. This may be naïve of me, but I think I would go for option 2 or 3, based solely on the other party's gender.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *isterPepperMan
over a year ago

Central Swindon

"Mainly cos not every one can keep a secret"
This I can understand.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a bloke from work mail me ( he doesnt know its me)"
,

Oh He knows! Has done since you joined. He has Just been too diplomatic to say anything until now

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooops!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no way, our town is way to small, we would probably bump into them just by leaving the front door

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I 'dress down for my job and no one at work (for either of us) knows what we do.

If you look at our verifications, we seem to be doing quite well thank you!

We have met quite a few people local and had no trouble at al. Even when we have met them at the shops. Our parties seem to be popular too.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread