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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have had one or two replies back that say 'sorry but your'e not my/our cup of tea'. Now while i appreciate peoples honesty i am beginning to wonder if i will ever have my first meet off here! Anyone amy advice? I have been as honest as i cam on my profile bit i can't transform into Brad Pitt can i?! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No public pics won't help. Neither will your issue with wearing condoms.

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen


"No public pics won't help. Neither will your issue with wearing condoms."

Just what I was about to say

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Well, you are on a year, no meet veris. Bi and only want bareback. No photos on profile. Text starts off negative.

All these are 'no thanks' for many. Put effort in to the profile and who knows, but some aspects will always be a 'no' for lots of people.

MrB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can we ask why u can't wear condoms. Latex free.. extra large... extra small... extra thin..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bare back and and interested in gangbangs that will be a no for many on here

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

There is someone for everyone here. However, unable to use condoms will put many off. Bullshit excuse.

Your profile text makes you come across as a whiny miserable git. I'm sure you aren't so I next some personality into it.

And yesh, some public photos.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP most people who ask for advice like you are generally told the same thing about having a good selection of public pictures and a good profile text. You can do a search of the forums to find loads of advice.

One thing to bear in mind though is no matter how good your profile is, the fact you "can't use condoms" means you will struggle.

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen


"Bare back and and interested in gangbangs that will be a no for many on here"

And dogging.....

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By *layfulserfMan
over a year ago

Northolt


"I have had one or two replies back that say 'sorry but your'e not my/our cup of tea'. Now while i appreciate peoples honesty i am beginning to wonder if i will ever have my first meet off here! Anyone amy advice? I have been as honest as i cam on my profile bit i can't transform into Brad Pitt can i?! lol"

Hi Andy

Your profile is all about what you want and not what you can give.

You need to either explain why condoms are an issue or seek better makes that are maybe latex free or thinner etc.

Some of what you say sounds a little judgemental... you dont mind tats (but others might) and you dont like personal peircings (not even earings or nose studs?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why cant you use condoms?

why, if you are of a larger build, don't you show what you look like in photos?

why choose the name of a children's programme for a user name?

get rid of the paragraph and try bullet points?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have a problem with condoms with losing your erection then try masturbating with them on...get a big box of them and practice...just a matter of re-education.

Otherwise...with the massive range of condoms out there including latex free and some fabulous Japanese ultra thin ones...sorry but you're going to struggle.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

OP I think a more positive profile would give you more chance of success.

Sally

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all for some very honest replies. Points made have been noted!

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By *aroleBaskinWoman
over a year ago

somewhere down the rabbit hole, Aberdeen

Good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The ?? is meant to b a smiley face!

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Thank you all for some very honest replies. Points made have been noted!"

The condom sentence has been deleted. Can you use them now, or will that be brought up when chatting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you all for some very honest replies. Points made have been noted!

The condom sentence has been deleted. Can you use them now, or will that be brought up when chatting?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put a face pic up..

If folk like you they will message you or reply to your message.

That simple

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Going to have to learn or just stick to oral and touching!

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