FabSwingers.com forum: Advise please

By *ouplenewmk OP Couple
over a year ago

milton keynes

Hi I'm after some advise. So we are new to this site and the world off swinging. The thing is I'm happy to play as a group and want both men to play with both girls. But at the mo I want to return to my own male partner for intercourse. Does this put people off or are most people ok with this. Kissing playing and oral are all fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's perfectly reasonable. You set your own boundaries and find people who will play within them.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

You'll be fine .. just do what pleases you ..

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Plenty of couples play like that - soft swing. If you haven't already make it clear on your profile or before things go to far in play

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By *hell and jWoman
over a year ago

Worksop

Your in charge x your rules xx

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By *ouplenewmk OP Couple
over a year ago

milton keynes

Thankyou I was just worried it put people off I guess. There is just some things I don't want to share lol

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By *anielpiercedMan
over a year ago

by the seaside

"Hi I'm after some advise. So we are new to this site and the world off swinging. The thing is I'm happy to play as a group and want both men to play with both girls. But at the mo I want to return to my own male partner for intercourse. Does this put people off or are most people ok with this. Kissing playing and oral are all fine. "

You guys set your own rules and boundaries, make it clear in your profile what you are after and people will know what to expect.

A lot of couples play like this so not too unusual

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Thankyou I was just worried it put people off I guess. There is just some things I don't want to share lol "

No it's quite common

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We are the same and have never had a problem in the club playing this way. Have fun xx

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By *ouplenewmk OP Couple
over a year ago

milton keynes

Ok that's good. We are off to jaydees tonight and didn't want it to put people off x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're not prepared to be gagged, bound, blindfolded and gangbangef you're really not entering in to the spirit of swinging ...... and the same applies to your wife! ??

Your body. Your rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's fin, just be up front about it

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Like everyone else said your bodies your rules

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By *eachgooseCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We are also relatively new and do both soft and full swap, some of the soft swaps we have had have been so much better, there's loads of soft swap couples out there, but like everyone says stick to your rules and chat to whoever you are going to play with before, and enjoy

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Thankyou I was just worried it put people off I guess. There is just some things I don't want to share lol "

If it does put some people off it simply means you're not compatible. Swinging doesn't mean you have to do what other people want, it's about finding people who want the same things as you. You will come across people who don't understand that and I advise you to stay away from them.

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By *ouplenewmk OP Couple
over a year ago

milton keynes

Thankyou. I thought was just me being over fussy x

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