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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

how I get wife to swing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have your tried asking her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be open with your wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy her some rope

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By *oger ThatMan
over a year ago

essex

I was open, she now thinks i'm a weird pervert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Show her that your on here. She will fuck then. FUCK OFF. Lol

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By *andK78Couple
over a year ago

Thame

Start really gently, invite her out for a drink one night. Tell her she looks lovey before you leave. When you get there pay her lots of attention, chat more than usual and suggest that a guy in the bar keeps checking her out. If she is warm to the idea encourage her to give him the c'mon. Take her home and have great sex. Build on this very slowly until she really enjoys the attention and sex after. Maybe she will be more open to flirting with other people and eventually you could suggest another person could join you. She may not like the idea ever, she may even see sex as a chore. Do you have a good sex life already? Regular?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I approached the subject with my wife. However it seems like it's a non starter with her!

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By *andK78Couple
over a year ago

Thame


"I approached the subject with my wife. However it seems like it's a non starter with her! "

That's a shame. Maybe ask to go to clubs on your own if you she doesn't want to join you.

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By *ornyone30Man
over a year ago

ABERDEEN

I broached it with my wife too but to no avail. To be fair I don't think she is overly interested in any sex these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi, is coming from the wife,,,, i,l try this, is this how you started

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ive thought of taking her to a sex club

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By *lasgownewbies6266Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Have you told her what you want out of it my Mrs was worried that I was looking to get with other women i pointed out wasn't intrested then introduced mmf fantasy into our love making took a long time but have had 1 meet and hopefully more

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we do mmf fantasy with her vibrator

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By *lasgownewbies6266Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Just take time don't push to hard

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By *andK78Couple
over a year ago

Thame


"we do mmf fantasy with her vibrator"

If this is a turn on then encouraging her to flash and flirt with guys in bars is a possibility. Small steps..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was open, she now thinks i'm a weird pervert "
......pmsl ...yes that happens......get a new wife lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Show her that your on here. She will fuck then. FUCK OFF. Lol"
...pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've asked this several times before, there is no magic wand that will turn her into a swinger, you are going to have to raise the subject with her if you ever want to take it from fantasy to reality.

One of your previous posts mentioned that her ex tried it and it didn't go well, if she finds out about your profile your chances will quickly be reduced to a big a fat zero.

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By * SCARED x STIFF xCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

Download the tv show playboy swing, watch it together and discuss, it dispels a lot of the myths about swinging, and remember that you may have been researching the possibility of swinging for a while but she most likely knows nothing about it and everybody is scared of the unknown aren't they?

Get a book to read together, Google the swinger manual , it's a good read

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By *over me with CumCouple
over a year ago

Spalding


"how I get wife to swing"

Are you sure she's not already on here?

Have you looked?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell her about fab lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take her the park and ask if she fancies swinging, give her a push and tell her to swing her legs backwards and forwards if she enjoys it ask if she fancies swinging for really and she can put her legs in the air while playing. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how I get wife to swing"

Force her. Insist she has to be bi too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how I get wife to swing

Force her. Insist she has to be bi too "

exactly,,,, a world of your own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how I get wife to swing

Force her. Insist she has to be bi too "
such mischief

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does she know you are bi?

That you like TVs...?

Maybe that could be a starting point?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she doesn't want to do it, don't try and make her.

H x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm trying the same. Slowly..choosing my moments..being light hearted about it..etc. Good luck

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

All you need is pampass grass & a hot tub

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By *eviant and BemusedCouple
over a year ago

Burton

Trying to coerce someone into swinging is creepy as fuck. Be honest. Accept her answer. Don't be a manipulative fuckwit. Easy.

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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago

taunton


"how I get wife to swing

Force her. Insist she has to be bi too "

Hahaha sounds about the norm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try mentioning it when she's feeling horny, or when you talk about fantasies.

If she refuses point black, you have to accept her decision. Then you need to decide whether you can live your life sacrificing what you really want, or whether to take the option of going out and finding what it is you need for yourself.

Ask her how she would feel about you swinging without her?

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By *tevedanMan
over a year ago

London

Just ask her, and explain that is fine for her to say no. It is not fair for her to stop you getting what you want out of life. I had the same problem with my wife, but eventually we fixed it by allowing me the freedom to go places by myself.

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