FabSwingers.com forum: clear preferences

By *oxes OP Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

ok so for some uknown reason the last thread got closed by a moderator, but I am looking for advice as to wheather my preferences of What I like are clear as I (verry few may I add) geting m2m's from people Im not looking for.

thread one: Indicated that I needed to make my preferences clearer.

thread two: about updated profile (got closed by the mods)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not block everyone from messaging, and only message the people you want to meet?

Job done.

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By *oxes OP Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"Why not block everyone from messaging, and only message the people you want to meet?

Job done. "

I do sometimes when its the odd bi or gay man who clearly don't understand the message that no means no.

you know the type "wanna ur cock suck"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block everyone from messaging me.

Thats because im antisocial

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By *oxes OP Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"I block everyone from messaging me.

Thats because im antisocial

haha jesus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block everyone from messaging me.

Thats because im antisocial

haha jesus"

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Why reopen a topic the mods didn't think was right?

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By *oxes OP Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"Why reopen a topic the mods didn't think was right?

because I want to know in order to create the best most clearest profile I can.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Lots of comments in the first thread to work on.

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By *oxes OP Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"Lots of comments in the first thread to work on."

it's a shame it got closed down before more feedback could be gathered.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Lots of comments in the first thread to work on.

it's a shame it got closed down before more feedback could be gathered."

Have you used the feedback that was given before it was closed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of comments in the first thread to work on.

it's a shame it got closed down before more feedback could be gathered."

How much feedback do you want? The more you get, the more you change your profile to suit what someone says. All of a sudden, you're profile stops reflecting who you are. Instead it becomes a series of sound bites of what you think people want to hear.

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By *oxes OP Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"Lots of comments in the first thread to work on.

it's a shame it got closed down before more feedback could be gathered.

never thought of it like that before.

your right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can block the people you aren't looking for.

You don't state your sexual preferences, you're asking people to message you to find out. It's all a bit vague.

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