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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I usually have a blank profile but I decided to write something and see what reaction it gets.

How does it sound? What shall I add/change?

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By *ade_of_StarsCouple
over a year ago

Whitburn


"So I usually have a blank profile but I decided to write something and see what reaction it gets.

How does it sound? What shall I add/change?"

Looks perfectly reasonable but you have can accom can travel on your profile but the text says no home play x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

makes a change from you giving the advice

it reads ok to me but after your comment on a thread yesterday about getting over 300 messages to an empty profile, id say be prepared to be inundated...especially now you have also expanded the sort of people you want to meet...

I do think you will soon give up on the abuse though....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So I usually have a blank profile but I decided to write something and see what reaction it gets.

How does it sound? What shall I add/change?

Looks perfectly reasonable but you have can accom can travel on your profile but the text says no home play x "

I can accommodate but choose not to with new people. Shall I remove it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"makes a change from you giving the advice

it reads ok to me but after your comment on a thread yesterday about getting over 300 messages to an empty profile, id say be prepared to be inundated...especially now you have also expanded the sort of people you want to meet...

I do think you will soon give up on the abuse though.... "

Lol let's see how long it is before I cave and delete it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I usually have a blank profile but I decided to write something and see what reaction it gets.

How does it sound? What shall I add/change?

Looks perfectly reasonable but you have can accom can travel on your profile but the text says no home play x

I can accommodate but choose not to with new people. Shall I remove it?"

my profile has a similar comment on it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not too much and to the point!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not too much and to the point!! "

Thank you

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

The only problem we can see is the big numbers on the left where it says distance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The only problem we can see is the big numbers on the left where it says distance."

Oh haha good one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually, I'd offer the same advice that I would offer a single guy. Add some more detail about you, what you like, what you want to bring to a meet etc etc. But as a single lady, and from what I can see...a very sexy looking one, you could have 'fill in later' and you'll be knee deep in cock offers.

That said, a little more info would do no harm.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Usually, I'd offer the same advice that I would offer a single guy. Add some more detail about you, what you like, what you want to bring to a meet etc etc. But as a single lady, and from what I can see...a very sexy looking one, you could have 'fill in later' and you'll be knee deep in cock offers.

That said, a little more info would do no harm. "

What else do u suggest?

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

I like it, clear precise

Ground rules

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Straight to the point, I like it. Perhaps a few more pics

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I find it quite meh. But seeing as you're primarily interested in meeting people at clubs and parties and not one on ones, I don't see it needing more adding to it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find it quite meh. But seeing as you're primarily interested in meeting people at clubs and parties and not one on ones, I don't see it needing more adding to it."

So what would improve in your opinion?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Straight to the point, I like it. Perhaps a few more pics "

Added just for you

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By *rs Mia WallaceWoman
over a year ago

Bathwyche

I think it's great.

(though I could be bias as I advocate the straight forward approach!)

I wouldn't have you down as curvy though....slim/athletic?!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I find it quite meh. But seeing as you're primarily interested in meeting people at clubs and parties and not one on ones, I don't see it needing more adding to it.

So what would improve in your opinion? "

What type of people you're attracted to? Is it anything goes sexually as long as it's a club or a party? I think for what you're looking for it'll work well (you don't really need much text) - maybe a few more photos?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it's great.

(though I could be bias as I advocate the straight forward approach!)

I wouldn't have you down as curvy though....slim/athletic?!

"

Thank you but defo not slim or athletic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think pretty clear and fair

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find it quite meh. But seeing as you're primarily interested in meeting people at clubs and parties and not one on ones, I don't see it needing more adding to it.

So what would improve in your opinion?

What type of people you're attracted to? Is it anything goes sexually as long as it's a club or a party? I think for what you're looking for it'll work well (you don't really need much text) - maybe a few more photos? "

Yea I held off on more specifics as I thought I was sounding a bit demanding as it was. Will consider. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks fine to me, mine sounds a bit negative!!

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


"The only problem we can see is the big numbers on the left where it says distance.

Oh haha good one "

Happens a lot when you live this far south

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it sounds fine, it's to the point

I've had in the past the equivalent to war & peace on my profile text, likes / dislikes etc etc which then left me frustrated when I received messages from people who obviously hadn't read it.

Now I have fuck all, people still don't read it but it doesn't bother me..:

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Reads great, apart from the heightism

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By *inchyorksMan
over a year ago

huddersfield


"So I usually have a blank profile but I decided to write something and see what reaction it gets.

How does it sound? What shall I add/change?"

Its rubbish, because i am only 5'8!!!!!!! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I usually have a blank profile but I decided to write something and see what reaction it gets.

How does it sound? What shall I add/change?"

Looks spot on op, you have clearly stated what your looking for.... wether people read your profile is a different matter ! Apart from all that sit on my face

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Straight to the point, I like it. Perhaps a few more pics

Added just for you "

Much better

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By *obwithkiltMan
over a year ago

Belton

great profile, short sweet and to the point....i'm 5'11" in the right light

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a good profile with nice pictures but personally I'd change the last two paragraph.

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

cant understand why you would have a blank profile ..did it get u any meets

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I like it. An observation ... I don't think it is blunt but even if others do, it doesn't warrant an apology.

Great photos as well.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"So I usually have a blank profile but I decided to write something and see what reaction it gets.

How does it sound? What shall I add/change?

Looks perfectly reasonable but you have can accom can travel on your profile but the text says no home play x

I can accommodate but choose not to with new people. Shall I remove it?"

Probably best to keep it as can't accommodate to avoid confusion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It needs cock pics.

All the best profiles have lots and lots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This line should be at the beginning.Just to ease the way for the softies who don't like straight talking..... I will apologise for my 'tone' in advance. I'm blunt.. to say the least.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a great profile...your picture alone will have enough of a sausage party effect ...but you want to attract a certain kind of man....

The vast majority don't absorb the content of profiles...most don't read mine ...but the right ones will

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Only two problems:

1: Make clear you don't like beards and boobs on the same person

2: It doesn't have that smiley yellow face at the side that says 'you are friends'

Apart from that geat

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By *ternal OptimistMan
over a year ago

London

I'd change the 'subject to verbal abuse' to get ignored

Your giving the weirdos an opening to have a conversation or message with you, if you say you will ignore, more likely to move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only two problems:

1: Make clear you don't like beards and boobs on the same person

2: It doesn't have that smiley yellow face at the side that says 'you are friends'

Apart from that geat "

When you attend some of the venues I've attended you sometimes get to see a beard on the same person as boobs

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