FabSwingers.com forum: Date advice

By *eppo OP Man
over a year ago

London Colney

Taking an old friend out tonight and want to get her excited / turned on without being too blatant

Any ideas / thoughts

I know there's chemistry between us but just looking for a few ideas to subtlety ramp the chemistry up without out her realising I am etc

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Why don't you want her to realise?

Most women will be very well aware of what you're trying to do. Just be honest with her or it becomes a little bit creepy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you only taking her out so you can get your leg over..

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

"Why don't you want her to realise?

Most women will be very well aware of what you're trying to do. Just be honest with her or it becomes a little bit creepy."

not all of them. I've been told someone is flirting with me and I didn't realise

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Why don't you want her to realise?

Most women will be very well aware of what you're trying to do. Just be honest with her or it becomes a little bit creepy.

not all of them. I've been told someone is flirting with me and I didn't realise

Flirting is one thing, trying to get her excited or turned on is something else in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just enjoy the evening and see where it takes you,you never know she may well be taking you out!!! and knows exactly how to get you excited.

Women usually do

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By *eppo OP Man
over a year ago

London Colney

"Just enjoy the evening and see where it takes you,you never know she may well be taking you out!!! and knows exactly how to get you excited.

Women usually do"

Very true !!

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By *eppo OP Man
over a year ago

London Colney

Thanks for replies guys

Much appreciated !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be nice....mostly nice...with an edge.

It's what most women want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why don't you want her to realise?

Most women will be very well aware of what you're trying to do. Just be honest with her or it becomes a little bit creepy.

not all of them. I've been told someone is flirting with me and I didn't realise

I've missed many an opportunity because I didn't realise someone was flirting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice.. Just be yourself.

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By *eppo OP Man
over a year ago

London Colney

"Be nice....mostly nice...with an edge.

It's what most women want."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing is she probably already knows if you are going to get lucky tonight or not.

Ginger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why the deception? Are you not confident in your abilities to seduce without manipulation?

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By *eppo OP Man
over a year ago

London Colney

I was just interested in how people make 'moves' etc

I just don't want to come on too strong to her

Subtly let her know I'm attracted to her etc

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Subtly let her know I'm attracted to her etc "

Isn't the clue in that you're going on a date?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honest answer is I don't think you *can* artificially ramp up the chemistry, it's either there or it isn't. Eye contact is a big thing for me, and for most women I'd imagine. It's nice to feel you're actually being properly listened to. Relax, have a good time, enjoy each others company and don't plan any further than that would be my advice.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Just go, flirt and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be yourself she is on a date with you so she likes you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How did it go ????

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