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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi im coming to the end of a long treatment for bowel cancer , during which time i have stayed on fab and took part in forums and generally chatted to one or two, how do i start to meet again and would my scars put u off ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No scars wouldn't put me off

Hope your recovery goes well

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thank you

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

If someone find's you attractive they won't be put off by a few scars. Try just going for a few socials first maybe,good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

sounds a good idea x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having had surgery for cancer last year - i have no visible scars nevertheless it took a long while before I wanted to meet someone for sex. It also changed my perspective about who I want to have sex with. We are all damaged inside or outside - so just take it easy, step by step and just enjoy what the world has to offer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yes defo inside and out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yours scars would not put me off meeting you but looking at your profile would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yours scars would not put me off meeting you but looking at your profile would "

Commenting on someone's profile is against the forum rules unless they ask for profile advice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

why ? is profile that bad ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

any tips on how to make profile better wud be appreciated x

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Yours scars would not put me off meeting you but looking at your profile would

Commenting on someone's profile is against the forum rules unless they ask for profile advice. "

Or if it is relevant to the OP, which this is. He did also ask whether his scars would put someone off.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"any tips on how to make profile better wud be appreciated x"

Personally I wouldn't mention your illness, I would add something about you and expand on what you are looking for

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok thanks but had one person message me saying lack of verifications will mean people think im a timewaster so thought that wud explain a little

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Not everyone will think like that. Obviously you don't have to take it off but as this is fantasy for us we wouldn't want to know about peoples illness

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yep understand ur point thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why ? is profile that bad ? "

Yes it is. Well for me it is. Only looked at a few of your pics. I am old enough to know what a cock looks like. Then the text is uninteresting. To be blunt mostvwill not care about your illness or divorce, it's tells me nothing about you.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"why ? is profile that bad ?

Yes it is. Well for me it is. Only looked at a few of your pics. I am old enough to know what a cock looks like. Then the text is uninteresting. To be blunt mostvwill not care about your illness or divorce, it's tells me nothing about you. "

No need to be rude ,hi op maybe expand your profile txt a little about your interests etc.Also people may be put off by lots of cock shots, so maybe put them private and add other pics ie torso .

Scars won't be a problem for a lot of people.

Good luck

Miss

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks ??x

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