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"I'm looking to start meeting couples as I've yet to experience this despite getting offers to meet. Put that down to being a bit nervous as rather than one person to please I would have two people to please. I'm sure I'd be fine though. My question is what advice would couples or anyone have when meeting a couple? x " As a couple who meet t girls, I have to say, don't make any assumptions, like the one that you have to please both people. There are three equal parties in this, there should not be any pressure | |||
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"I'm looking to start meeting couples as I've yet to experience this despite getting offers to meet. Put that down to being a bit nervous as rather than one person to please I would have two people to please. I'm sure I'd be fine though. My question is what advice would couples or anyone have when meeting a couple? x As a couple who meet t girls, I have to say, don't make any assumptions, like the one that you have to please both people. There are three equal parties in this, there should not be any pressure " I guess your right and I shouldn't think that. If and when I meet a couple I'd want everyone to be equally involved. | |||
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"You shouldn't go into it thinking you have to do all the work no. You should all be there for each other. Steer clear of the ones who are like "Wife wants to see me with a Tgirl", as you'll just end up being a fetishized plaything. Shame you're not closer to us really. " Thanks and I won't be doing. I do ask couples who have messaged if all will be equally involved as I wouldn't just meet the male half. It is a shame I'm not closer to you but you never know. | |||
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"We don't always both play as we don't have the same tastes in play partners .... this doesn't mean we fetishize anyone" Guess in a way this is one on my fears. If I met a couple I'd want both fully involved and wouldn't consider meeting just the male or female half. I've met people that see me as a fetish and it's not a nice feeling. One of the reasons I don't meet often directly through here. I just want to be treated as a person, a girl. | |||
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"You shouldn't go into it thinking you have to do all the work no. You should all be there for each other. Steer clear of the ones who are like "Wife wants to see me with a Tgirl", as you'll just end up being a fetishized plaything. " This mainly. I kind of assume I'm the unicorn in the mix so they are excited for me to be there. I look to play with the male mainly. If she wants to join in that's fine too. | |||
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"You shouldn't go into it thinking you have to do all the work no. You should all be there for each other. Steer clear of the ones who are like "Wife wants to see me with a Tgirl", as you'll just Shame you're not closer to us really. " I'm closer to you. Pm me if interested | |||
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"Its an awkward one for sure, I bet its not on reality but my lack of play wuth couples has had me getting nervous abouy it too so I share you're thought. Good to hear from some couples that hsve xperience too x" I'm sure everything will go well when I do meet a couple. Just finding the right genuine couple and a good time and place and I'll be fine. x | |||
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"You shouldn't go into it thinking you have to do all the work no. You should all be there for each other. Steer clear of the ones who are like "Wife wants to see me with a Tgirl", as you'll just end up being a fetishized plaything. This mainly. I kind of assume I'm the unicorn in the mix so they are excited for me to be there. I look to play with the male mainly. If she wants to join in that's fine too. " Hate to break it to you but I think the general idea in meeting a couple. Well there's supposed to be two of them you might as well have just met a bloke! | |||
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