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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So my ex has recently returned to Fab. He messaged me not knowing it was me. I revealed my identity and was immediately blocked...which is only what I would expect...that's not the issue.

Since then (24hours ago) I've had quite a few messages from people saying that they've heard about me and I'm not genuine, then these people have blocked me....

Is this a crazy coincidence or am I being targeted?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's entirely possible.

I wouldn't be losing any sleep over it though. There's 1000's of people on here to choose from.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's entirely possible.

I wouldn't be losing any sleep over it though. There's 1000's of people on here to choose from. "

I'm just pissed off about it...xxx

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Just block and report OP

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By *ougar_n_TILFCouple
over a year ago

Burton on Trent


"So my ex has recently returned to Fab. He messaged me not knowing it was me. I revealed my identity and was immediately blocked...which is only what I would expect...that's not the issue.

Since then (24hours ago) I've had quite a few messages from people saying that they've heard about me and I'm not genuine, then these people have blocked me....

Is this a crazy coincidence or am I being targeted?"

The people who've messaged you saying that you're not genuine, would you have met any of them anyway?

If the answer is no then don't let it worry you. If the answer is yes then still don't let it worry you as 3 verifications from 3 different people speaks volumes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's entirely possible.

I wouldn't be losing any sleep over it though. There's 1000's of people on here to choose from.

I'm just pissed off about it...xxx"

Just tell them, there is a genuine jealous twat on here spreading rumours. Fool them for believing jealous rumours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In hindsight, perhaps it was a mistake, to disclose to ex, that it was you. Might've been better off just deleting and blocking, without comment.

Easy to say, but just carry on doing your own thing, and ignore the childish crap from others. Those types always fuck themselves up in other ways. Karma

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a tinge of jealousy there or childish on there behalf.

Either ignore or play them at there own game.

Reason there your ex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So he spreads crap coz he ain't getting anything near what he had with you ,as a single guy here it's hard work ...so because it's harder for him he makes it harder for you ....sounds like the ex is over you honey ..how unlucky is that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So he spreads crap coz he ain't getting anything near what he had with you ,as a single guy here it's hard work ...so because it's harder for him he makes it harder for you ....sounds like the ex is over you honey ..how unlucky is that "

Sorry isn't over you ..my bad

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Maybe block on newbies from contacting you? Don't know if this means they can see your profile though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a huge amount of jealousy on this site, and it sounds like you're in the firing line. I would just block and move on. I certainly wouldn't let anything people say to you cause you any upset.

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock

Report and block.

These people aren't worth worrying about (easier said than done, I know!) and wouldn't be worth you meeting them, if they believe in jealous lies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm wondering if your ex put up a status naming and shaming you, which because he has blocked you you won't be able to see the status. It'll blow over, but sounds very unpleasant whatever or whoever has caused this. I do sympathise, that would upset me too.

Mrs

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By *rueone71Man
over a year ago

Hiding in the Barnes

Some looser. I wouldn't bother..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take it with a pinch if salt..rise above the haters it can only hurt u if you let it...fuck em all I say...stay strong op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably all in your mind.

Lots of paranoia on sites like this.

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