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"I've been asked to join a cuckold couple and end by cumming in the mrs pussy, how can I make sure all is safe as I'm used to safe sex? Is it rude to ask to see test results?" no its not rude its called playing safe | |||
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"I've been asked to join a cuckold couple and end by cumming in the mrs pussy, how can I make sure all is safe as I'm used to safe sex? Is it rude to ask to see test results?" If they want bareback, I'd say you are perfectly within you're rights to ask. You've no idea who else they've done this with. Bare in mind though, some infections can take a month or two to show up on a test. | |||
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"I've been asked to join a cuckold couple and end by cumming in the mrs pussy, how can I make sure all is safe as I'm used to safe sex? Is it rude to ask to see test results?" Don't do it. If they'll do it with a perfect stranger then how many times have they done it before? Even with negative results HIV doesn't always become apparent for 4-6 weeks. Hep B is the worst and very easy to contract. If you're swinging its advisable to be vaccinated against it. Unless you have a regular partner who you can trust why would you risk your life? | |||
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"one thing me and a guy were thinking is to ask the guy to fuck me but then pull out and cum all over my pussy, not inside me. you could still have safer plastic bag sex then." Is this tongue in cheek? That is just as dangerous and you can still catch sti's from doing this??? | |||
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"Ask them if they're OK with you cumming in a turkey baster, then they can squirt it up there!" See, there's always a solution! | |||
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"I always ask. it's perfectly fine to mate. I have my results sent to my phone so it has the date on it. I like bb but also take responsibility for myself and others by making sure I'm tested and clear. it does mean though that you have to trust the word of the person you're bb with." You aren't 'taking responsibilty' or making anyone safe by doing that. You can be passing on HIV for the next 3 months or how ever often you get tested. If you want to do it, that's your choice, but you can't make out it's all safe because you got tested. | |||
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"I've been asked to join a cuckold couple and end by cumming in the mrs pussy, how can I make sure all is safe as I'm used to safe sex? Is it rude to ask to see test results?" Your body, your rules | |||
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"I've been asked to join a cuckold couple and end by cumming in the mrs pussy, how can I make sure all is safe as I'm used to safe sex? Is it rude to ask to see test results?" if you not happy don't do it simples | |||
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"I wouldn't do it but, people do and they enjoy it. You'd have to remove "safe sex" from your profile interests though so that other are aware of the possible risks." He wouldn't have to remove safe sex from his profile any more than you have to do rimming and fisting on every meet... If he's also willing to play safe then listing it as an interest isn't being dishonest. | |||
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"I wouldn't do it but, people do and they enjoy it. You'd have to remove "safe sex" from your profile interests though so that other are aware of the possible risks." It all depends on your definition of safe sex Our definition is we don't use condoms but we do care about who we meet and are always careful where and with whom! We don't go to people's houses and only meet in public well lit places. Where does it say when you sign up to fab that safe sex = condoms only? We've come to realise that people put what they want others to read on their profiles, which is completely not how it should be. | |||
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"I've been asked to join a cuckold couple and end by cumming in the mrs pussy, how can I make sure all is safe as I'm used to safe sex? Is it rude to ask to see test results?" Do you personally think its worth the risk to you ?? If not dont do it and play safe and find a couple who dont want unsafe sex with strangers. | |||
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"I never get test results on a piece of paper. In my case i get a phone call to let me know." or a text I do that umbrella home kit do.it all urself then send it off checks for everything | |||
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"I never get test results on a piece of paper. In my case i get a phone call to let me know. or a text I do that umbrella home kit do.it all urself then send it off checks for everything" Do you send a blood sample? | |||
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"I never get test results on a piece of paper. In my case i get a phone call to let me know. or a text I do that umbrella home kit do.it all urself then send it off checks for everything" We have just had ours and we have to call the automated service to get ours. We are very lucky in Bournemouth we have a fab service, we get the full service. Just had our hepatitis injections too. And everyone who gives oral should have a Gonorrhoea mouth swab done as it lurks in the back of the throat and doesn't show up in the blood tests | |||
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"I never get test results on a piece of paper. In my case i get a phone call to let me know. or a text I do that umbrella home kit do.it all urself then send it off checks for everything Do you send a blood sample?" Yeah | |||
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"Just do it! There's tablets For most things! Noone says "don't go to the shops, you might catch flu!" " Anti retrovirals for HIV have horrible side effects and you're usually on them for life. Hep B is a long debilitating disease and a horrible death. .... just saying. | |||
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"I've been asked to join a cuckold couple and end by cumming in the mrs pussy, how can I make sure all is safe as I'm used to safe sex? Is it rude to ask to see test results?" No, it's not rude to ask, if you're thinking of BB. Be fully informed about the pros and cons, not forgetting the risk of pregnancy! Yes, there is medication to treat a lot of these infections, but some are for life. And yes, you could cross the road tomorrow and get hit by a bus, but it's all to do with limiting your risk at the end of the day. It's your decision whether to accept or walk away. We wouldn't do BB and have walked away from a couple whom we got on with fairly well, because they insisted on BB. | |||
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"I never get test results on a piece of paper. In my case i get a phone call to let me know. or a text I do that umbrella home kit do.it all urself then send it off checks for everything We have just had ours and we have to call the automated service to get ours. We are very lucky in Bournemouth we have a fab service, we get the full service. Just had our hepatitis injections too. And everyone who gives oral should have a Gonorrhoea mouth swab done as it lurks in the back of the throat and doesn't show up in the blood tests" | |||
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"I've been asked to join a cuckold couple and end by cumming in the mrs pussy, how can I make sure all is safe as I'm used to safe sex? Is it rude to ask to see test results?" You can't. To put it simply. If you want ro do it youll have to wait about 2-3 weeks after and get tested up to 6 weeks for hiv tests | |||
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"I had to go to dodgy country and be vaccinated against HepB. When I went back over a year later for a gum/sti test the HepB immunity did not show. So they gave it me again. Some months later the Sti test failed to find hepB immunity so they tried again. It still failed. Dave" If my hepb vaccine test fails again this time gotta go to the doc for the doubble strength one | |||
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"I wouldn't do it but, people do and they enjoy it. You'd have to remove "safe sex" from your profile interests though so that other are aware of the possible risks. It all depends on your definition of safe sex Our definition is we don't use condoms but we do care about who we meet and are always careful where and with whom! We don't go to people's houses and only meet in public well lit places. Where does it say when you sign up to fab that safe sex = condoms only? We've come to realise that people put what they want others to read on their profiles, which is completely not how it should be." I'm fairly confident that the generally accepted definition of 'safe sex' is not 'meet in public well lit places'. As I'm sure are you. | |||
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"I never get test results on a piece of paper. In my case i get a phone call to let me know. or a text I do that umbrella home kit do.it all urself then send it off checks for everything Do you send a blood sample? Yeah " Oh that's good! I haven't seen one of those kits, where might i order one? | |||
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"just out of interest.how many out there actually caught std from going with just a fabber .or a swingers club ?" +1 for Fabber. | |||
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"just out of interest.how many out there actually caught std from going with just a fabber .or a swingers club ?" I'm sure they'll all freely admit it on here Ruby | |||
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"just out of interest.how many out there actually caught std from going with just a fabber .or a swingers club ? I'm sure they'll all freely admit it on here Ruby" one woman did once then deleted her account. i've seen 2 other topics where people have admitted to having STDs. and one where a guy had crabs and could he do anything about it as he had a meet that night, this topics got deleted. | |||
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"just out of interest.how many out there actually caught std from going with just a fabber .or a swingers club ?" You really think many if anyone is going to admit it here? | |||
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"I wouldn't do it but, people do and they enjoy it. You'd have to remove "safe sex" from your profile interests though so that other are aware of the possible risks. It all depends on your definition of safe sex Our definition is we don't use condoms but we do care about who we meet and are always careful where and with whom! We don't go to people's houses and only meet in public well lit places. Where does it say when you sign up to fab that safe sex = condoms only? We've come to realise that people put what they want others to read on their profiles, which is completely not how it should be. I'm fairly confident that the generally accepted definition of 'safe sex' is not 'meet in public well lit places'. As I'm sure are you." Yes we do but in fab land it seems to mean lots of things | |||
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"Yes, ask for a test but tbh if you don't trust them then don't do it. There is a lot to be said for how you feel about the meet abd whether you think there is a risk.. Be honest with yourself. Its what I do and worked so far xx" Sorry, but how you feel about the meet is minimal in this instance. Use that to spot fakes, unfortunately gut instinct can't detect STIs. | |||
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"I wouldn't do it but, people do and they enjoy it. You'd have to remove "safe sex" from your profile interests though so that other are aware of the possible risks. It all depends on your definition of safe sex Our definition is we don't use condoms but we do care about who we meet and are always careful where and with whom! We don't go to people's houses and only meet in public well lit places. Where does it say when you sign up to fab that safe sex = condoms only? We've come to realise that people put what they want others to read on their profiles, which is completely not how it should be. I'm fairly confident that the generally accepted definition of 'safe sex' is not 'meet in public well lit places'. As I'm sure are you. Yes we do but in fab land it seems to mean lots of things " Can't argue with that ! | |||
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"I've been asked to join a cuckold couple and end by cumming in the mrs pussy, how can I make sure all is safe as I'm used to safe sex? Is it rude to ask to see test results? If they want bareback, I'd say you are perfectly within you're rights to ask. You've no idea who else they've done this with. Bare in mind though, some infections can take a month or two to show up on a test." Also obvious; results are only valid until next sexual activity always best to build trust, friendship & respect first, if regular activity of one night stands then protection clearly must be used | |||
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"Yes, ask for a test but tbh if you don't trust them then don't do it. There is a lot to be said for how you feel about the meet abd whether you think there is a risk.. Be honest with yourself. Its what I do and worked so far xx Sorry, but how you feel about the meet is minimal in this instance. Use that to spot fakes, unfortunately gut instinct can't detect STIs. " No it can't but it can help to decide if you are getting the truth when asking vital questions that can indicate if they are likely to be clean or not...... | |||
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"Just do it! There's tablets For most things! Noone says "don't go to the shops, you might catch flu!" Anti retrovirals for HIV have horrible side effects and you're usually on them for life. Hep B is a long debilitating disease and a horrible death. .... just saying. " As far as I know it's Hep C that results in death not Hep B | |||
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"I never get test results on a piece of paper. In my case i get a phone call to let me know." Yep me too...the GUM clinic here does not offer written results or texts. I have the option to receive a phone call telling me all is well, or no communication unless they find something. OP if this bothers you then you will only feel less comfy during the meet. Bareback is far more risky than condoms, and unless you know the couple are not seeing anyone else you have no idea who else has been in there. Only you know if that is a risk you're willing to take. It is fine to ask for test results and fine to decline their invitation. | |||
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"It's worrying that lots of people say that you are only safe if the test was done immediately before. Unfortunately this is wrong. HIV can take up to 3 months to show on a test. During that time it is infectious to partners. Bare that in mind when people claim they are are safe and know what they are doing." The test would also be meaninless for all stds unless they abstained fkr at least 2 weeks before | |||
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"just out of interest.how many out there actually caught std from going with just a fabber .or a swingers club ? You really think many if anyone is going to admit it here? " ha we posted this as a comment to see the reaction we know the ans for shore. :no one:thats why clubs are full every week .some for safe sex .some for whatever they want .personal choice .you dont go into the kitchen when out for a meal and see if its all clean and tidy before you eat .you dont breath test your taxi driver on the way home .so just play in you own field [whatever it is]and have fab fun | |||
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"just out of interest.how many out there actually caught std from going with just a fabber .or a swingers club ? You really think many if anyone is going to admit it here? ha we posted this as a comment to see the reaction we know the ans for shore. :no one:thats why clubs are full every week .some for safe sex .some for whatever they want .personal choice .you dont go into the kitchen when out for a meal and see if its all clean and tidy before you eat .you dont breath test your taxi driver on the way home .so just play in you own field [whatever it is]and have fab fun " That's so true | |||
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"just out of interest.how many out there actually caught std from going with just a fabber .or a swingers club ? You really think many if anyone is going to admit it here? ha we posted this as a comment to see the reaction we know the ans for shore. :no one:thats why clubs are full every week .some for safe sex .some for whatever they want .personal choice .you dont go into the kitchen when out for a meal and see if its all clean and tidy before you eat .you dont breath test your taxi driver on the way home .so just play in you own field [whatever it is]and have fab fun " | |||
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"I've been asked to join a cuckold couple and end by cumming in the mrs pussy, how can I make sure all is safe as I'm used to safe sex? Is it rude to ask to see test results?" Just give it a good sniff before you plunge in....check it isn't green....you should be fine! | |||
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"one thing me and a guy were thinking is to ask the guy to fuck me but then pull out and cum all over my pussy, not inside me. you could still have safer plastic bag sex then." And you think you're playing safe without possibly catching STIs? Think again about what you just posted! | |||
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"one thing me and a guy were thinking is to ask the guy to fuck me but then pull out and cum all over my pussy, not inside me. you could still have safer plastic bag sex then. And you think you're playing safe without possibly catching STIs? Think again about what you just posted! " firstly i never said it was safe for me, but there's no extra risk for the guy. in fact, if you know anything about me, i don't really fuck anyone with a condom coz it does nothing for me 1 on 1 -i pretty much only do soft play with anyone off here. i could use them if there was more than one guy, especially if we was doing a cuckold scenario. and a guy i was gonna cuckold wanted to lick cum out of me, so i thought of that idea instead. he still gets his cum, i still get licked after being fucked. | |||
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"Just do it! There's tablets For most things! Noone says "don't go to the shops, you might catch flu!" " Seriously???? | |||
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"I've been asked to join a cuckold couple and end by cumming in the mrs pussy, how can I make sure all is safe as I'm used to safe sex? Is it rude to ask to see test results?" Perhaps by asking the question you are having doubts of doing it. Go with your gut feeling. Is someone elses wants n needs more important than yours and your own health? | |||
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"I've been asked to join a cuckold couple and end by cumming in the mrs pussy, how can I make sure all is safe as I'm used to safe sex? Is it rude to ask to see test results?" Are you that desperate for sex that your willing to put your health at risk Surely there are other couples who you can have sex with who use protection | |||
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"I've been asked to join a cuckold couple and end by cumming in the mrs pussy, how can I make sure all is safe as I'm used to safe sex? Is it rude to ask to see test results?" Not rude but many clinics don't give results on paper and a few only give results in person | |||
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