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"Women like oral in different ways so what works with one may not another. Trial and error. Have fun with it " This ,not everyone will enjoy it the same. | |||
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"My advice is this....be careful as one slip of the tongue and your in the shit lol" And that also is extremely horny. | |||
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"I'm never sure whether I am doing oral right on a woman. I do it to her as I enjoy it being done to me, and then be guided by her responses. Something so very erotic about licking a pussy, and if I know the woman is enjoying it, then that turns me in immensely." Perhaps it's best if you had an independent assessor. I'll bring my clipboard (and a waterproof mac in case). Sock (who in no way has that "seeing women together" fantasy thing) | |||
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"I'm never sure whether I am doing oral right on a woman. I do it to her as I enjoy it being done to me, and then be guided by her responses. Something so very erotic about licking a pussy, and if I know the woman is enjoying it, then that turns me in immensely. Perhaps it's best if you had an independent assessor. I'll bring my clipboard (and a waterproof mac in case). Sock (who in no way has that "seeing women together" fantasy thing)" and mark out from a scale of 1-100 lol. | |||
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"I'm never sure whether I am doing oral right on a woman. I do it to her as I enjoy it being done to me, and then be guided by her responses. Something so very erotic about licking a pussy, and if I know the woman is enjoying it, then that turns me in immensely. Perhaps it's best if you had an independent assessor. I'll bring my clipboard (and a waterproof mac in case). Sock (who in no way has that "seeing women together" fantasy thing)" Men don't fantasise about that do they ? | |||
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"I'm never sure whether I am doing oral right on a woman. I do it to her as I enjoy it being done to me, and then be guided by her responses. Something so very erotic about licking a pussy, and if I know the woman is enjoying it, then that turns me in immensely. Perhaps it's best if you had an independent assessor. I'll bring my clipboard (and a waterproof mac in case). Sock (who in no way has that "seeing women together" fantasy thing) and mark out from a scale of 1-100 lol." I'd be off the scale boys | |||
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"I'm never sure whether I am doing oral right on a woman. I do it to her as I enjoy it being done to me, and then be guided by her responses. Something so very erotic about licking a pussy, and if I know the woman is enjoying it, then that turns me in immensely. Perhaps it's best if you had an independent assessor. I'll bring my clipboard (and a waterproof mac in case). Sock (who in no way has that "seeing women together" fantasy thing) and mark out from a scale of 1-100 lol. I'd be off the scale boys " *snaps pencil on clipboard* (movie cliche #273) | |||
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"I'm never sure whether I am doing oral right on a woman. I do it to her as I enjoy it being done to me, and then be guided by her responses. Something so very erotic about licking a pussy, and if I know the woman is enjoying it, then that turns me in immensely. Perhaps it's best if you had an independent assessor. I'll bring my clipboard (and a waterproof mac in case). Sock (who in no way has that "seeing women together" fantasy thing) and mark out from a scale of 1-100 lol. I'd be off the scale boys *snaps pencil on clipboard* (movie cliche #273)" and that was how the start of fabs verry first profesinal porno movie started. | |||
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"I'm never sure whether I am doing oral right on a woman. I do it to her as I enjoy it being done to me, and then be guided by her responses. Something so very erotic about licking a pussy, and if I know the woman is enjoying it, then that turns me in immensely. Perhaps it's best if you had an independent assessor. I'll bring my clipboard (and a waterproof mac in case). Sock (who in no way has that "seeing women together" fantasy thing) and mark out from a scale of 1-100 lol. I'd be off the scale boys *snaps pencil on clipboard* (movie cliche #273) and that was how the start of fabs verry first profesinal porno movie started." I deserve to be in the remake. This is not helping the OP with his query btw. Sorry! | |||
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"I'm never sure whether I am doing oral right on a woman. I do it to her as I enjoy it being done to me, and then be guided by her responses. Something so very erotic about licking a pussy, and if I know the woman is enjoying it, then that turns me in immensely. Perhaps it's best if you had an independent assessor. I'll bring my clipboard (and a waterproof mac in case). Sock (who in no way has that "seeing women together" fantasy thing) and mark out from a scale of 1-100 lol. I'd be off the scale boys *snaps pencil on clipboard* (movie cliche #273) and that was how the start of fabs verry first profesinal porno movie started." I'll need to think of a pornstar name...... | |||
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"I'm never sure whether I am doing oral right on a woman. I do it to her as I enjoy it being done to me, and then be guided by her responses. Something so very erotic about licking a pussy, and if I know the woman is enjoying it, then that turns me in immensely. Perhaps it's best if you had an independent assessor. I'll bring my clipboard (and a waterproof mac in case). Sock (who in no way has that "seeing women together" fantasy thing) and mark out from a scale of 1-100 lol. I'd be off the scale boys *snaps pencil on clipboard* (movie cliche #273) and that was how the start of fabs verry first profesinal porno movie started. I deserve to be in the remake. This is not helping the OP with his query btw. Sorry! " Oh yes, apologies. We should start our own thread. | |||
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"some women (me included) couldn't care less for it" Same here | |||
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"Women like oral in different ways so what works with one may not another. Trial and error. Have fun with it " This....every lady is different. There is no one, magical technique to make every woman have a wonderful time from oral. What I tend to do, assuming she wants to receive oral in the first place and after some snogging or touching to get her moist, is start with gentle licks and flicks of my tongue on her clitoris. I listen to her breathing, her vocalisations...watch her body, feel her...is she pushing into me or pushing my head closer? Does it seem like she might like me to apply more tongue pressure? This goes on for some time and I will try several different ways to pleasure a lady...monitoring her reaction to see what she enjoys. It's also true that any given lady might like different techniques depending on where she is in her monthly cycle. Enthusiasm and willingness to follow her lead, to give the lady what works for her....are the keys, in my book. | |||
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"Op have you tried doing the alphabet when performing oral ie write it with your tongue" This sounds fun and could actually work well. | |||
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"follow the ladies reactions - i do as each is different - same when giving a hand and mouth job to a fella - " what she said | |||
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"I'm never sure whether I am doing oral right on a woman. I do it to her as I enjoy it being done to me, and then be guided by her responses. Something so very erotic about licking a pussy, and if I know the woman is enjoying it, then that turns me in immensely. Perhaps it's best if you had an independent assessor. I'll bring my clipboard (and a waterproof mac in case). Sock (who in no way has that "seeing women together" fantasy thing) and mark out from a scale of 1-100 lol. I'd be off the scale boys *snaps pencil on clipboard* (movie cliche #273) and that was how the start of fabs verry first profesinal porno movie started. I deserve to be in the remake. This is not helping the OP with his query btw. Sorry! Oh yes, apologies. We should start our own thread." on it! and I think Karnal Delights would make a great name for ypu minx. | |||
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"I love pleasuring sexial partners and love licking out.(I know many men don't) however their is a major part of me that gets the getting that maybe I am not doing it right. I know not every women likes it. Any advice? " As some have already said, every woman is different so there is no universal guide. My advice is to ask the woman how she likes it, but in any case start soft and easy. Secondly, know when to stop. Many women get super sensitive after orgasm and the last thing they want is more oral. | |||
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" Many women get super sensitive after orgasm and the last thing they want is more oral." It's fine to ask a lady if she'd like more after she's had an orgasm from oral. I certainly find that most women prefer a little break, perhaps involving gentle fingering for a couple of minutes or very gentle licking, before returning attention to her clit. Sometimes I stop direct stimulation for a bit and just caress and stroke her inner thighs , gently kiss her mons...before returning to gentle licking after a short while. | |||
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"And don't forget that some women will like a different technique depending on their mood. Not helping much are we." Nope lol. OP there is no one technique which can be applied. Women are individual human beings and every one likes something different. Some don't like receiving oral at all. | |||
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"I love oral sex but when meeting off here you don't know your sex partners body or their likes and dislikes, I find communication is the key, if a guy is down on me and doing things in a way that won't get me off I politely tell them to try doing things I do like, most guys are happy with that and all has ended well but some guy's have got really offended in the fact I've suggested they don't know what they are doing so it can be a little awkward " I think that's right - communication is important. I think a possible dilemma for guys is that if the woman seems to be enjoying it and responding, it's really hard to stop, as it feels like you're letting her down if you do. That led to some seemingly endless bouts years ago. I kinda wish she'd said - "Sock, you're amazing, but very it for a bit". | |||
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"And don't forget that some women will like a different technique depending on their mood. Not helping much are we. Nope lol. OP there is no one technique which can be applied. Women are individual human beings and every one likes something different. Some don't like receiving oral at all." your more helpful Than you think. | |||
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"I think it not only what the lady likes but also what you have been gifted with in order to do it. Some people have long pointed tongues and some like me wide ones. I can't be sure but to give the best pleasure would need to be tied to the tools you have at your disposal" Maybe I have unusual tongue muscle but I can make mine long and pointed or wide at will. A play partner recently made comments about my "lizard tongue and ability to breathe through your ears" lol Devotees of Kestrels may have seen me performing under water cunnilingus.... | |||
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"I think it not only what the lady likes but also what you have been gifted with in order to do it. Some people have long pointed tongues and some like me wide ones. I can't be sure but to give the best pleasure would need to be tied to the tools you have at your disposal Maybe I have unusual tongue muscle but I can make mine long and pointed or wide at will. A play partner recently made comments about my "lizard tongue and ability to breathe through your ears" lol Devotees of Kestrels may have seen me performing under water cunnilingus...." Jacque Cousteau pioneered this. Or was it underwater conservation. One of the two. | |||
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"I think it not only what the lady likes but also what you have been gifted with in order to do it. Some people have long pointed tongues and some like me wide ones. I can't be sure but to give the best pleasure would need to be tied to the tools you have at your disposal Maybe I have unusual tongue muscle but I can make mine long and pointed or wide at will. A play partner recently made comments about my "lizard tongue and ability to breathe through your ears" lol Devotees of Kestrels may have seen me performing under water cunnilingus...." No but I'd like to see that! | |||
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"I think it not only what the lady likes but also what you have been gifted with in order to do it. Some people have long pointed tongues and some like me wide ones. I can't be sure but to give the best pleasure would need to be tied to the tools you have at your disposal Maybe I have unusual tongue muscle but I can make mine long and pointed or wide at will. A play partner recently made comments about my "lizard tongue and ability to breathe through your ears" lol Devotees of Kestrels may have seen me performing under water cunnilingus.... No but I'd like to see that! " As the weather warms up, I am more likely to attend | |||
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"I think it not only what the lady likes but also what you have been gifted with in order to do it. Some people have long pointed tongues and some like me wide ones. I can't be sure but to give the best pleasure would need to be tied to the tools you have at your disposal Maybe I have unusual tongue muscle but I can make mine long and pointed or wide at will. A play partner recently made comments about my "lizard tongue and ability to breathe through your ears" lol Devotees of Kestrels may have seen me performing under water cunnilingus.... No but I'd like to see that! As the weather warms up, I am more likely to attend " Ah you wuss. I'm obviously well 'ard going right through winter | |||
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"I think it not only what the lady likes but also what you have been gifted with in order to do it. Some people have long pointed tongues and some like me wide ones. I can't be sure but to give the best pleasure would need to be tied to the tools you have at your disposal Maybe I have unusual tongue muscle but I can make mine long and pointed or wide at will. A play partner recently made comments about my "lizard tongue and ability to breathe through your ears" lol Devotees of Kestrels may have seen me performing under water cunnilingus.... No but I'd like to see that! As the weather warms up, I am more likely to attend Ah you wuss. I'm obviously well 'ard going right through winter " A couple of weeks ago I was at the 2500 metre summit of Mt Etna in a t shirt... I go to Kestrels with the wife and she dislikes the cold. But happy to demonstrate cunnilingus under water or on dry land...if I find a willing partner. | |||
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"I think it not only what the lady likes but also what you have been gifted with in order to do it. Some people have long pointed tongues and some like me wide ones. I can't be sure but to give the best pleasure would need to be tied to the tools you have at your disposal Maybe I have unusual tongue muscle but I can make mine long and pointed or wide at will. A play partner recently made comments about my "lizard tongue and ability to breathe through your ears" lol Devotees of Kestrels may have seen me performing under water cunnilingus.... No but I'd like to see that! As the weather warms up, I am more likely to attend Ah you wuss. I'm obviously well 'ard going right through winter A couple of weeks ago I was at the 2500 metre summit of Mt Etna in a t shirt... I go to Kestrels with the wife and she dislikes the cold. But happy to demonstrate cunnilingus under water or on dry land...if I find a willing partner." I love a good pussyworshipper- just need to find my mojo for men...hopefully it'll be back soon | |||
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" I love a good pussyworshipper- just need to find my mojo for men...hopefully it'll be back soon " I love worshipping pussy....and am patient | |||
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"some women (me included) couldn't care less for it, so just meet them as they have no expectations " Agreed I don't care | |||
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"I love pleasuring sexial partners and love licking out.(I know many men don't) however their is a major part of me that gets the getting that maybe I am not doing it right. I know not every women likes it. Any advice? If you're doing it right, you'll know and won't have to ask " Spot on. | |||
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"follow the ladies reactions - i do as each is different - same when giving a hand and mouth job to a fella - " | |||
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"I love pleasuring sexial partners and love licking out.(I know many men don't) however their is a major part of me that gets the getting that maybe I am not doing it right. I know not every women likes it. Any advice? " there is an app that you can get, you lick your phone screen and it gives you instruction! | |||
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"I love pleasuring sexial partners and love licking out.(I know many men don't) however their is a major part of me that gets the getting that maybe I am not doing it right. I know not every women likes it. Any advice? If you're doing it right, you'll know and won't have to ask Spot on." And if you're doing it right...then for gods sake don't stop...even if your mouth feels like it's going to die | |||
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"My advice is this....be careful as one slip of the tongue and your in the shit lol And that also is extremely horny." . Indeed it is . Can't beat alternating between both pleasure holes. Mmmmmmmmm | |||
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"I love pleasuring sexial partners and love licking out.(I know many men don't) however their is a major part of me that gets the getting that maybe I am not doing it right. I know not every women likes it. Any advice? If you're doing it right, you'll know and won't have to ask Spot on. And if you're doing it right...then for gods sake don't stop...even if your mouth feels like it's going to die " Yes, if you're doing it right, don't stop ! lol. If a guy's doing it right to me , then I can gush quite quickly but then at other times it can take the guy quite a while to get me to gush so patience and technique goes a long way... practise makes perfect | |||
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