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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know it's personal preference, but in your opinion what's best for a first meet?

Meeting in a pub for drinks before heading off for some fun, or just getting straight in with some fun at either parties flat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to do a drink at a pub local to whoever's accommodating. It's safer for both parties and it's a good neutral space to ease nerves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the people involved. What prior communications. Perhaps what their verifications say of them? I've done both ways....

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We meet socially only first, no exceptions. As you say it's personal preference

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By *urchoicenowCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

We tend to meet at a club, simply because if you don't click them the babysitter isn't wasted

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By *JcouplemidlandsCouple
over a year ago

Peak District

We like to meet in a pub for a drink and a chat first, we find it makes things much more comfortable x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go with the flow.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

A first meet for me will always be a social somewhere mutual.

A meet meet would be at their place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotel bar, followed by hotel room if all goes well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done both.....usually get a good feel for one another from messaging.....but just go with the flow

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Depends how confident you are and how confident you are in your judgement. I would say pub if you are new to it as people can easily manipulate pictures. It gives you an easy drink and back home or a you look nothing like what you sent, bye-bye.

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By *ackhammer87Man
over a year ago

Walsall


"I like to do a drink at a pub local to whoever's accommodating. It's safer for both parties and it's a good neutral space to ease nerves."

Totally agree with this xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually meet somewhere publicly first, often a hotel bar then go from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know it's personal preference, but in your opinion what's best for a first meet?

Meeting in a pub for drinks before heading off for some fun, or just getting straight in with some fun at either parties flat?

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Meet for a social a public place. A drink/coffee or a bite to eat is good.

Make sure you state that its a no pressure meeting to see how things go with no guarantee of anything more.

Dont feel pressurised into doing anything more than getting to know someone and take things at a pace you're comfortable with.

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