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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Me and my partner have been swinging on and off for 5 years and we feel we arre doing something wrong. yea we know were not gonna be everyones cup of tea but it seems like were not anyones type at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me and my partner have been swinging on and off for 5 years and we feel we arre doing something wrong. yea we know were not gonna be everyones cup of tea but it seems like were not anyones type at all"

Switch your profile to looking for sinble guys too.

Bingo

Problem solved

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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How are you not anyone's type when you have veris?

OP, what are you looking for?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Were looking for bi females and straight mf couples and couples with bi female.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

but we dont want to meet single males

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you think you're doing something wrong?

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By *ovely CummingsWoman
over a year ago

Peaky Nipples


"Me and my partner have been swinging on and off for 5 years and we feel we arre doing something wrong. yea we know were not gonna be everyones cup of tea but it seems like were not anyones type at all"

7 weeks on the site and you've had 8 meets.... That really doesn't look like someone that is doing anything 'wrong'

Not sure what your expectations are..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Were looking for bi females and straight mf couples and couples with bi female."

Good luck with that.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Me and my partner have been swinging on and off for 5 years and we feel we arre doing something wrong. yea we know were not gonna be everyones cup of tea but it seems like were not anyones type at all"

You've had more meets in a few weeks than lots of us.

It must be working

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

there not all meets most of them is webcam based.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've had 8 'meet in person' verifications in 7 weeks. I don't see why you feel you aren't people's types?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking at the veri's it looks as though they haven't progressed further than socials within a club. You just need to give it time, no matter how many times we go to a club we never expect to play with others just go with flow and enjoy yourselves, when more is meant to happen it will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you're doing ok too. I don't really understand why you think there's a problem. Did something specific happen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you tell me what you are doing wrong because I think I need to do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me and my partner have been swinging on and off for 5 years and we feel we arre doing something wrong. yea we know were not gonna be everyones cup of tea but it seems like were not anyones type at all

7 weeks on the site and you've had 8 meets.... That really doesn't look like someone that is doing anything 'wrong'

Not sure what your expectations are..? "

Blimey. If you're not doing good, we need to leave fab immediately!

All good things come to those who wait (for the right people)

Mrs X

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock


"Were looking for bi females and straight mf couples and couples with bi female."

Maybe make this more clearer on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think you're doing ok too. I don't really understand why you think there's a problem. Did something specific happen? "

Well the main knock back me and brian are getting is they dont like BBW's. I wouldnt mind but i check peoples profiles to see if they specifically dont want wanna meet couples with the larger lady. The worst reply we got back was ''we dont do fatties'' and the most comical one was apparently i look like miss piggy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you're doing ok too. I don't really understand why you think there's a problem. Did something specific happen?

Well the main knock back me and brian are getting is they dont like BBW's. I wouldnt mind but i check peoples profiles to see if they specifically dont want wanna meet couples with the larger lady. The worst reply we got back was ''we dont do fatties'' and the most comical one was apparently i look like miss piggy lol"

That is awful. So sorry someone said that to you. Im a bbw as well and never had a comment like that. We tend to meet couples and im quite fussy on who we meet. Weve met on single guy so far but i kind of know him away from fab so i knew he wouldnt reject me for being a bbw. Look for other couples that are similar to yourselves. I wont meet a couple if the female is much skinner than me for example. It does take time. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you're doing ok too. I don't really understand why you think there's a problem. Did something specific happen?

Well the main knock back me and brian are getting is they dont like BBW's. I wouldnt mind but i check peoples profiles to see if they specifically dont want wanna meet couples with the larger lady. The worst reply we got back was ''we dont do fatties'' and the most comical one was apparently i look like miss piggy lol"

Wish that was the worst message I receive.

People that say derogatory comments aren't worth the time of day. Laugh about the and move on.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"I think you're doing ok too. I don't really understand why you think there's a problem. Did something specific happen?

Well the main knock back me and brian are getting is they dont like BBW's. I wouldnt mind but i check peoples profiles to see if they specifically dont want wanna meet couples with the larger lady. The worst reply we got back was ''we dont do fatties'' and the most comical one was apparently i look like miss piggy lol"

I'd recommend the same thing to you that we recommend to everyone else. Get yourself down the club.

There's a FABULOUS party held at Chameleons in Darlaston every two months. I guarantee that you will be well appreciated there...

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By *isdirtygirlCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there


"I think you're doing ok too. I don't really understand why you think there's a problem. Did something specific happen?

Well the main knock back me and brian are getting is they dont like BBW's. I wouldnt mind but i check peoples profiles to see if they specifically dont want wanna meet couples with the larger lady. The worst reply we got back was ''we dont do fatties'' and the most comical one was apparently i look like miss piggy lol"

Being a porky fucker I understand. Its possibly even harder for a bloke with my build as I doubt many couples would want to play with us - I have normal sized legs and arse with a beer keg for a belly and I'm not hung like a swamp donkey to make up for it. It doesnt bug me in as much as I love watching DG with guys. It would however seriously piss me off if someone was rude to me like that. OP you look like a lovely couple. Just block the ignorant nuggets and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you're doing ok too. I don't really understand why you think there's a problem. Did something specific happen?

Well the main knock back me and brian are getting is they dont like BBW's. I wouldnt mind but i check peoples profiles to see if they specifically dont want wanna meet couples with the larger lady. The worst reply we got back was ''we dont do fatties'' and the most comical one was apparently i look like miss piggy lol"

I never understand the need to be rude. No response is adequate as a "no thanks". Think of it a a filter, you wouldn't like to meet these rude people anyway. You need a thick skin here bird. It's important not to take it seriously. It's great fun if you choose to stay with it, and you do learn as you go along. There's more nice people here than rude ones I've found.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you're doing ok too. I don't really understand why you think there's a problem. Did something specific happen?

Well the main knock back me and brian are getting is they dont like BBW's. I wouldnt mind but i check peoples profiles to see if they specifically dont want wanna meet couples with the larger lady. The worst reply we got back was ''we dont do fatties'' and the most comical one was apparently i look like miss piggy lol

I never understand the need to be rude. No response is adequate as a "no thanks". Think of it a a filter, you wouldn't like to meet these rude people anyway. You need a thick skin here bird. It's important not to take it seriously. It's great fun if you choose to stay with it, and you do learn as you go along. There's more nice people here than rude ones I've found. "

Oh and I meant to say I'm quite chubby too!

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