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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know this thread pops up a hundred times a day. I really don't want to sound like i'm whining either

I sincerely would like some advice on how i can even get a reply here now adays.

I try and be respectfuL, have a few pics and consider myself normal, sane and able to hold a convo.

Are my lack of veris killing me?

I haven't had a meet in years and haven't had many positive replies at all on this profile.

Any advice would be appreciated, feel free to pm me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your user name could be better a bit more about you and what your looking for and better quality photos. Also instead of sitting behind your phone thinking that this site will provide you with meets get out to clubs and socials. Socialise with other swingers you will get verifications and people tend to write what kind of guy your like in verifications witch will all help on here. Most people on here don't just gets meets from here it takes more of a effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm positive you can take better pics hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a quick look at your profile. Some better pics (full body shots dressed and semi dressed) and more in your actual profile text. For me anyone who has to refer to themselves as hung,bbc,vwe etc, it instantly makes me click off. If all you have to offer is a big cock then I lose interest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I really do think getting to some socials would help me too.

Thanks for the advice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm starting to think that too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Tha ks i will take that on board. Was thinking a re write was in order too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have met with people from here years ago but i lived ina different coty so not sure my veris would be relevant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No matter how good your profile is, being a smoker who can't/won't accommodate will always restrict those who are interested to be honest. The face pic is a bonus, maybe say a bit more about what you're offering, what your type is etc.

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By *c-ukMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

The best way to get messages is to become a woman.. Drastic I know but sure fire solution..

Once your a woman and you have the messages you can then leave them unread for days, not reply or just plain block the user for having the temerity to message you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the input

I was gonna remove smoker as i only smoke an ecig but i thought it would be dishonest as im still addicted and could slip up at anytime

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The best way to get messages is to become a woman.. Drastic I know but sure fire solution..

Once your a woman and you have the messages you can then leave them unread for days, not reply or just plain block the user for having the temerity to message you. "

Lol tbh every unsolicited message i have had from a fem turned out to be a dude or at least i was sure they were

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the input

I was gonna remove smoker as i only smoke an ecig but i thought it would be dishonest as im still addicted and could slip up at anytime"

Absolutely stay honest, it's seriously annoying when people light up on socials when they've listed as a non smoker....if people don't want to meet a smoker, then they don't want to meet a smoker! I'd put on your profile about only having e cigs though.

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Have a look at Boss lady and bitch profile for parties in Hull.

Sally

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

If you can, get to a club, meet people (you don't have to have nooky), get them to verify you which is a start at least. We, for instance, won't meet or even think about meeting people who aren't verified and we think we're in the majority on fabs for that.

Good luck

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