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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey all I been trying to get to know people and meet people but I feel like no one wants to meet me I been truefull about myself about having autism and asking in the right way but sofar notting

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By *BW SnowbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow

It's not only you. I get messages but when it comes to meeting I get ignored. Sadly although this is a swinging site there are too many on here that don't actually know what that means. They think they can mess people around, just get kicks from wind ups Perving on your pics etc. Or the ones that message as they come out of a club because they haven't pulled - they want a booty call

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

you should never get ignored you have very beautiful body I would meet you

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I have the opposite problem, the men seem to just want a quick fuck with minimum effort, so yes plenty of messages but not from people who show any respect, therefore I go without as I don't want to meet people like that

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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and i get both of the above.

it might not be down to your autism, could be other things. most guys struggle on here and are not autist.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I feel like I get no where and like everyone else getting the luck

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By *OOM696969Man
over a year ago

BRIDLINGTON

Plenty of effort being put in recently for very little response.

A few yes I would like to meet replies, then nothing!..

its not only you chin up

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP most single men struggle on here. The biggest problem you have is purely the very large proportion of men on here. A few people may be put off by you having autism but I don't think it is that much of a problem.

You could tweak your profile a bit and try some new pictures. I would definitely recommend removing some of your cock pics - too many is a turn off to a lot of people.

The more successful men on here don't just rely on messaging people. They go to organised social events (there is a forum for this), they visit clubs and get involved in the chatrooms and forums on here. The secret for a lot of guys is to just get yourself known amongst the swinging community. Once people find out you're a nice guy who is reliable and will turn up as arranged etc things should improve.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thank you for the info would love to watch you box sometime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The secret to being successful is to not try to be successful.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just redone my profile what you think

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock


"I just redone my profile what you think"

You appear friendly guy and have some nice public photos. Maybe add some more details about what you like to try and how you would like to make people feel, without being to explicit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi there...do you have high functioning autism or aspergers?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I not sure on that I because I was given high when I was growing up and not sure what I come under now am 25

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not you !

Its me !

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By *BW SnowbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow


"you should never get ignored you have very beautiful body I would meet you "

Bless you, thanks. Autism should not be a block, my daughter had aspergers and never had a problem getting guys. Many liked her quirky nature. You'll be fine. Find a friend to go to a club with, that'll help x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be nice....they come to you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thank you everyone for the head up and for helping me sort out my profile to make it more advertising

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

is anyone going to the social that adamandlee are doing

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