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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I got to clubs and play ect but trying to get more meets I send long chatty messages but get very little return

Always read people's profiles before messaging

Any tips from women and couples on how to up my results

Thanks in advance

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By *utieandalecCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Ok, here goes:

1. Look at what people are looking for. Only message if you feel you genuinely meet their criteria.

2. Don't suggest anything sexual in your first mail. Everyone's here for the same reason, don't worry.

3. Say something that makes it obvious you've read the profile.

4. Send a face pic and a full body pic.

5. Don't send a cock pic.

6. Use good spelling, punctuation and grammar.

7. Don't use c&p messages.

Hope that helps!

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By *ulu99Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

We delete messages with poor grammar and spelling. An odd mistake is ok, but when there are lots of errors it's just not attractive.

Single word messages = delete.

Cock pics = delete, unless accompanied by face and body pics.

No profile pic + no verification/ photo id = delete.

Even as a couple solely looking for a bi man we are inundated with messages (mostly from men claiming to be straight on their profiles).

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By *utieandalecCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire


"We delete messages with poor grammar and spelling. An odd mistake is ok, but when there are lots of errors it's just not attractive.

Single word messages = delete.

Cock pics = delete, unless accompanied by face and body pics.

No profile pic + no verification/ photo id = delete.

Even as a couple solely looking for a bi man we are inundated with messages (mostly from men claiming to be straight on their profiles)."

Exactly the same for us. We look for people to stimulate us in all ways and if you can't construct a coherent sentence that doesn't bode well.

Ditto as a couple looking (occasionally) for bi guys; it's amazing how many chaps claim to be bi when they think they might get a meet.

There's probably an ironic typo here somewhere...

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By *ulu99Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Ha! Yeah, I triple checked my post for errors too. No good preaching about proper English if you fuck it up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe your just a minger!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The gramma but I get but being dislexic spell check doesn't always help you out lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe your just a minger! "

I would send some photos but it won't let me as I am out your age range lol

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By *utieandalecCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire


"Maybe your just a minger! "

Harsh! The OP looks in decent shape. Needs more full body pics and a hand re-writing the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe your just a minger!

I would send some photos but it won't let me as I am out your age range lol"

''Twas just kidding Hun.

I'm sure you're beautiful , your profile looked decent enough.

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By *itsnbobsyCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We just don't want cock pics in public save it for private viewing....temptation pics are much sexier

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