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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi i have my profile on here and i try to be as honest as possible on it but am i going to far with my words as it seems it scares people off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My usual objection.....won't show photos, no capital letters, spelling terrible.

As a new wrinkle, he does not actually want to swing.....on a swinging site.

Call me picky, but as you have asked, I would suspect that is the reason!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can vouch for the above. make sure your capitals are in place...grammar is perfect and for god sake, do not forget your full stops! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shoot. Forgot my capital after the first full stop. It's a pain when 'word' actually helps you with these parts of punctuation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not entirely sure that most of us are looking for a 'shy guy' whilst swinging to be honest.

But fair play, if that's you and you are being honest I'm sure you'll find someone eventually... there must be some 'shy girls' on here.

Good luck x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I'm not entirely sure that most of us are looking for a 'shy guy' whilst swinging to be honest.

But fair play, if that's you and you are being honest I'm sure you'll find someone eventually... there must be some 'shy girls' on here.

Good luck x"

I'm shy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not entirely sure that most of us are looking for a 'shy guy' whilst swinging to be honest.

But fair play, if that's you and you are being honest I'm sure you'll find someone eventually... there must be some 'shy girls' on here.

Good luck x

I'm shy. "

I'm not convinced tbh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ok i have taken on board your comments and i am ashamed as a former teacher to be picked up on my grammer lol.

many thanks for your feedback and can i ask a small favour is it better now?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I'm not entirely sure that most of us are looking for a 'shy guy' whilst swinging to be honest.

But fair play, if that's you and you are being honest I'm sure you'll find someone eventually... there must be some 'shy girls' on here.

Good luck x

I'm shy.

I'm not convinced tbh "

Well once I get to know people I am pretty wanton, but its the getting to know people bit I hate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From your profile I'm not sure what you're looking for. It reads like you're looking for a platonic friend, which I do find strange.

Most are here for nsa fun: playing bessie mates with a married man is a can of worms I'd not want to open.

If I'm reading it wrong I apologise.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its changed again one day i will get this profile right

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Looks ok to me, stick a pic up on your avatar and you are all set

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just read your profile, where do you keep your fit fresh air?

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In a jam jar?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps you could spell too the correct way on the forum post !

A Pedant!

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"ok i have taken on board your comments and i am ashamed as a former teacher to be picked up on my grammer lol.

many thanks for your feedback and can i ask a small favour is it better now?

"

Your mean grammar? lol sorry

Mistress x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is turning out to be harder than a teaching qualification.

but thank you for all the comments and i will do my best to correct the mistakes as i go.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Can we have less of the spelling police please, you will put people off posting if people keep nit picking at their spelling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry, dvd and sofa?!! Sounds like a profile on Match.com. Sounds to me like you're looking for a girlfriend!

As I said: can of worms!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say, although criticising spelling and grammar are a little picky, there do seem to be a lot of mistakes in your text..... I am a militant dislecsic (why is the word so hard to spell?). I don’t see why how you spell words is more important than what words you say, but it does seem to be important to some people. Hey ho, run your profile through ‘word’ and re-paste it onto the site to prevent any problems. Simples.

I don’t think that it’s necessary to put a face pic on your profile (You mention you had a teaching qualification, which is valid enough excuse not to) but I would put some detail about why you are not able to accommodate. When sending mails, though, it is often advisable to send a face pic, wear some shades or something if you are worried about being ID’d.

Also, and this might be the killer comment, this is a swinging site rather than an adult contact site, if you want to find a fuck buddy, you might try a different site. Swinging is a lot of things and whatever it isn't, one night stands are often part of it. Almost all of us are after ‘a few’ partners at the least (if not an endless procession) and even if quality is more important than quantity few of that ‘brigade’ will settle for one partner to the exclusion of all others (why not just stay married and vanilla….)

All this is meant in a constructive way and I hope it is taken as such, fellah, I do hope you find what you are looking for…..

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Sorry, dvd and sofa?!! Sounds like a profile on Match.com. Sounds to me like you're looking for a girlfriend!

As I said: can of worms!"

I am guessing I am not reading the same one

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Can we have less of the spelling police please, you will put people off posting if people keep nit picking at their spelling."

Just to be clear, I meant can we have less picking about peoples spellings on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry, dvd and sofa?!! Sounds like a profile on Match.com. Sounds to me like you're looking for a girlfriend!

As I said: can of worms!

I am guessing I am not reading the same one "

Kudos to the OP, he's changed it!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Ah thought I was going mad then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hey i do listen to advice and act on it most times and once again thanks for the advice

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