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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What should we do with a wink, what does it imply?

Because of a bad experience with a couple about 8 years ago we have only been meeting single guys and the odd female but now we decided to try meeting couples again.

We have changed our profile to show also looking for couples now and had a fair few winks.

What does a wink actually mean, like the profile, intrested or?

And what do you normally do back, wink or message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you like them either wink back or message them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It shows interest as far as I know...if I like who winked, then I wink back n see if they message me, once they know I am intetested too

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

I don't personally look at winks, if someone's interested I'd prefer an actual message

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't personally look at winks, if someone's interested I'd prefer an actual message "

Well we do but could miss out on meeting some real nice people

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By *Tall.Dorky.HandsomishMan
over a year ago

Halesowen


"It shows interest as far as I know...if I like who winked, then I wink back n see if they message me, once they know I am intetested too "

I'll agree with that. I use winks and like getting them, I see it as an invitation to message. If a profile says not to wink and message instead I'll message. Sometimes I do both

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you like them either wink back or message them "

Thanks


"It shows interest as far as I know...if I like who winked, then I wink back n see if they message me, once they know I am intetested too "

Thanks, looks like we have some winking to do, never used it before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I was going to try the wink you thing but looks like we're blocked

Not often we do wink by we do look at the profiles that wink us.

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london

Think it shows interest without looking pushy, I like getting em

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I was going to try the wink you thing but looks like we're blocked

Not often we do wink by we do look at the profiles that wink us. "

How odd, Says we blocked you 8 months ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I like the look of somebody and their profile I'll send them a wink (unless they've said they don't look at/ like them), then if they wink back I'll take that as they're interested too and send a message.

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

If they wink we message back if like what we see and read in there profile if they dont message back we know there not intrested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't personally look at winks, if someone's interested I'd prefer an actual message "

This

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By *limDickinsMan
over a year ago

Kent/London

The amount of pressure people put on making your initial message stand out makes me reluctant to message first most of the time, so I mostly wink anyone who I'm interested in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah i think it shows interest without being pushy.if people are interested they wink back.opens up for a conversation.i think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We usually message back. Unless it's a single man and then we generally ignore them.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

We bulk delete them if they were really interested they'd message we do the same with friend requests

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By *t8880Couple
over a year ago

Staffs

We like them, if we wink someone and get a wink back we will messasge as to use its an wasy way of showing interest. However prefer just meeting people n clubs

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