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hopefully you'd want kids and not just be doing this for a fetish also. | |||
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"A guy is in a relationship with another man's partner and bring up his child? Is that what you're asking?" a guy is in a relationship with someone who is pregnant to someone else. like it's not his kid, possibly the breeding fantasy people go on about on here at times -except it's a reality in this case i'm on about. i know a guy on here was into that ages ago, not heard anything about it from anyone in a long time though. | |||
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"A guy is in a relationship with another man's partner and bring up his child? Is that what you're asking? a guy is in a relationship with someone who is pregnant to someone else. like it's not his kid, possibly the breeding fantasy people go on about on here at times -except it's a reality in this case i'm on about. i know a guy on here was into that ages ago, not heard anything about it from anyone in a long time though." So the three people deliberately set it up or it happens by chance? | |||
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"A guy is in a relationship with another man's partner and bring up his child? Is that what you're asking? a guy is in a relationship with someone who is pregnant to someone else. like it's not his kid, possibly the breeding fantasy people go on about on here at times -except it's a reality in this case i'm on about. i know a guy on here was into that ages ago, not heard anything about it from anyone in a long time though. So the three people deliberately set it up or it happens by chance?" mainly it's about the cuckold and cuckoldress and if a guy would want this. maybe the guy who got her pregnant is off the scene or not relationship material so they don't tell him, or they all purposely do this and he is involved with his kid also. i think it might be too personal a thing to ask people on a forums really. | |||
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"A guy is in a relationship with another man's partner and bring up his child? Is that what you're asking? a guy is in a relationship with someone who is pregnant to someone else. like it's not his kid, possibly the breeding fantasy people go on about on here at times -except it's a reality in this case i'm on about. i know a guy on here was into that ages ago, not heard anything about it from anyone in a long time though. So the three people deliberately set it up or it happens by chance? mainly it's about the cuckold and cuckoldress and if a guy would want this. maybe the guy who got her pregnant is off the scene or not relationship material so they don't tell him, or they all purposely do this and he is involved with his kid also. i think it might be too personal a thing to ask people on a forums really." Ok. Got it, thanks. | |||
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"Dan Savage, the sex advice columnist discussed this once. What he told the person interested in doing this was that it is ok to engage in any sort of sexual activity as long as that activity is consensual between all those involved. (Provided they are of legal age) But in this situation there is also an unborn child involved, who will then be a child and later an adult, raised within such a situation. By definition their involvement is not-consensual and therefore such activity is simply not acceptable as a sexual practice. " kind of makes sense. but here i am talking about a child that would be very much wanted. you're just adding to your family and blood isn't always an indicator that you will feel loved. family is so much more than blood/genetic sharing of DNA, i think so anyway. | |||
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"Dan Savage, the sex advice columnist discussed this once. What he told the person interested in doing this was that it is ok to engage in any sort of sexual activity as long as that activity is consensual between all those involved. (Provided they are of legal age) But in this situation there is also an unborn child involved, who will then be a child and later an adult, raised within such a situation. By definition their involvement is not-consensual and therefore such activity is simply not acceptable as a sexual practice. kind of makes sense. but here i am talking about a child that would be very much wanted. you're just adding to your family and blood isn't always an indicator that you will feel loved. family is so much more than blood/genetic sharing of DNA, i think so anyway." you're talking about it in a cuckold context though not the context of another man stepping in after the child's conceived or a guy donating sperm as an altruistic gesture. Does the fact that a child is very much wanted mean that however you go about conceiving it is ok? Is having a baby ever "just" adding to your family? | |||
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"Dan Savage, the sex advice columnist discussed this once. What he told the person interested in doing this was that it is ok to engage in any sort of sexual activity as long as that activity is consensual between all those involved. (Provided they are of legal age) But in this situation there is also an unborn child involved, who will then be a child and later an adult, raised within such a situation. By definition their involvement is not-consensual and therefore such activity is simply not acceptable as a sexual practice. kind of makes sense. but here i am talking about a child that would be very much wanted. you're just adding to your family and blood isn't always an indicator that you will feel loved. family is so much more than blood/genetic sharing of DNA, i think so anyway. you're talking about it in a cuckold context though not the context of another man stepping in after the child's conceived or a guy donating sperm as an altruistic gesture. Does the fact that a child is very much wanted mean that however you go about conceiving it is ok? Is having a baby ever "just" adding to your family?" even someone marrying one of your family should mean adding to your family, anyone you welcome into it is adding to it, adoption too (just means making someone legally a part of your family), becoming really good friends as well could count. that's my thoughts on family. although i am talking about this as a 'fetish' pregnancy, the baby is still wanted. just part of that pregnancy is cuckolding a guy to the point where he knows his gf/wife is having someone elses child and the couple planned this. i do think it's ok to have a baby, so long as you take responsibility for it afterwards. kind of interesting to think about really as so many guys do walk off from their kids as it is socially acceptable for them to now, nobody forces marriage any more (i'm happy they don't also). not so for women yet, although they do do that, it is still looked down on. | |||
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"Dan Savage, the sex advice columnist discussed this once. What he told the person interested in doing this was that it is ok to engage in any sort of sexual activity as long as that activity is consensual between all those involved. (Provided they are of legal age) But in this situation there is also an unborn child involved, who will then be a child and later an adult, raised within such a situation. By definition their involvement is not-consensual and therefore such activity is simply not acceptable as a sexual practice. kind of makes sense. but here i am talking about a child that would be very much wanted. you're just adding to your family and blood isn't always an indicator that you will feel loved. family is so much more than blood/genetic sharing of DNA, i think so anyway. you're talking about it in a cuckold context though not the context of another man stepping in after the child's conceived or a guy donating sperm as an altruistic gesture. Does the fact that a child is very much wanted mean that however you go about conceiving it is ok? Is having a baby ever "just" adding to your family? even someone marrying one of your family should mean adding to your family, anyone you welcome into it is adding to it, adoption too (just means making someone legally a part of your family), becoming really good friends as well could count. that's my thoughts on family. although i am talking about this as a 'fetish' pregnancy, the baby is still wanted. just part of that pregnancy is cuckolding a guy to the point where he knows his gf/wife is having someone elses child and the couple planned this. i do think it's ok to have a baby, so long as you take responsibility for it afterwards. kind of interesting to think about really as so many guys do walk off from their kids as it is socially acceptable for them to now, nobody forces marriage any more (i'm happy they don't also). not so for women yet, although they do do that, it is still looked down on." I agree with parts of what you say but I could never agree with or condone a "fetish pregnancy". The end doesn't always justify the means. I know that many kids are conceived in less than satisfactory circumstances and I agree that in the end being loved is the main thing. Is it socially acceptable for guys to walk off from their children? Its a massive subject and I don't think there are any right or wrong answers | |||
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"Dan Savage, the sex advice columnist discussed this once. What he told the person interested in doing this was that it is ok to engage in any sort of sexual activity as long as that activity is consensual between all those involved. (Provided they are of legal age) But in this situation there is also an unborn child involved, who will then be a child and later an adult, raised within such a situation. By definition their involvement is not-consensual and therefore such activity is simply not acceptable as a sexual practice. kind of makes sense. but here i am talking about a child that would be very much wanted. you're just adding to your family and blood isn't always an indicator that you will feel loved. family is so much more than blood/genetic sharing of DNA, i think so anyway. you're talking about it in a cuckold context though not the context of another man stepping in after the child's conceived or a guy donating sperm as an altruistic gesture. Does the fact that a child is very much wanted mean that however you go about conceiving it is ok? Is having a baby ever "just" adding to your family? even someone marrying one of your family should mean adding to your family, anyone you welcome into it is adding to it, adoption too (just means making someone legally a part of your family), becoming really good friends as well could count. that's my thoughts on family. although i am talking about this as a 'fetish' pregnancy, the baby is still wanted. just part of that pregnancy is cuckolding a guy to the point where he knows his gf/wife is having someone elses child and the couple planned this. i do think it's ok to have a baby, so long as you take responsibility for it afterwards. kind of interesting to think about really as so many guys do walk off from their kids as it is socially acceptable for them to now, nobody forces marriage any more (i'm happy they don't also). not so for women yet, although they do do that, it is still looked down on. I agree with parts of what you say but I could never agree with or condone a "fetish pregnancy". The end doesn't always justify the means. I know that many kids are conceived in less than satisfactory circumstances and I agree that in the end being loved is the main thing. Is it socially acceptable for guys to walk off from their children? Its a massive subject and I don't think there are any right or wrong answers " definitely socially acceptable, no-one blinks an eye when guys walk off and leave women pregnant or to bring up their kids alone. we have lots of support for that too. i don't think it's the norm, but is very popular, sadly for these kids. i know my oldest struggled with his dad not 'wanting' him. kind of glad it's acceptable really, i'd hate for society to make him think he was abnormal for that when his dad is the one who has something wrong with him. although the pregnancy would be fetish related, it's just like a normal pregnancy in every other way. and a normal family, that's really what i think. my ex is only a step dad to my oldest 2 but he treats them as if they're his. he is a very special guy, but never been cuckolded. | |||
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"I see what you mean about it being socially acceptable for the father to walk away and not the mother. I suppose I don't find it acceptable but that's different. I understand that everything about the pregnancy and upbringing would be normal except that one thing but its a step too far for me. " i'm guessing most people don't fidn it acceptable, especially if it's your child involved in that, but at least single parents and their children aren't stigmatised for that any more and that's good. oh and by fetish pregnancy, i don't really mean it's a pregnancy that is sexy for the baby being someone elses, i guess i used that word as cuckold is a fetish mainly. thanks for your thoughts and discussion here.  | |||
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"It's a much better way of conceiving, a beta cuckold has the chance to raise the offspring of an alpha male, and the cuckoldress can choose which male to breed with. As long as the child is part of a family unit and the relationship is solid, there is nothing wrong with it in my humble opinion.." good points there. a man who you desire for a partner might not be who you want genetically for your child. | |||
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