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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

it's about time i went to one I think

I am thinking September

been to 'gentlemens health spa's' but never to a mixed club

what do i have to do 'up front' ? and whats the etiquette once inside ?

i hope it's not like a sauna where everyone seems to skit round heads down, avoiding eye contact (other than furtively) and giving dirty looks to everyone who dares to hold a conversation or worse of all have a laugh

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Have u been to chams before..if so its just the same but better

If not...general club rules...ask to play,no means no and dont harras the couples.

i loved the bi night,and chams is my fave club,friendly,fun and fab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have u been to chams before..if so its just the same but better

If not...general club rules...ask to play,no means no and dont harras the couples.

i loved the bi night,and chams is my fave club,friendly,fun and fab. "

'ask' to play ?

that's gonna be a new 1 on me club wise

at the sauna it seems to be all done by glances, smiles and furtive looks lol

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Have u been to chams before..if so its just the same but better

If not...general club rules...ask to play,no means no and dont harras the couples.

i loved the bi night,and chams is my fave club,friendly,fun and fab.

'ask' to play ?

that's gonna be a new 1 on me club wise

at the sauna it seems to be all done by glances, smiles and furtive looks lol"

Not sure how saunas work...byt here is Auntie Jem's quick quide to clubs...

Most have a bar area, where u can chit chat,get to know ppl, socialise.Tho the smoking area is fab for this too.

Play takes place in the playrooms..aptly enough.Yu might click with someone down stairs...if so head up and have fun.

Or,and this is where MANNERS matter..you may go for a wander and see some fun going on you want to join in with.

The best thing to do is ask....DO NOT STICK YOUR COCK IN SOMEONES FACE!(different rules may apply on greedy girls nights )

A tap on the arm or shoulder may be acceptable,i dont mind this,others find it pushy.If it is a couple feel free to ask one if it is ok to join in if their partner is "ahem" occupied.

Remember no means no,

If you play with a couple or woman do not follow them around for the rest of the night and DO NOT tell other blokes xxxx is a right goer,as happened to me at chams

There are 2 sorts of clubs..i call them towel clubs(like chams) and clubby clubs(townhouse).

At chams u strip when u arrive and all men wear a towel.Women tend to go for something more sexy.

i dont know the general ettiquete between men,but i know the cinema is always full on bi nights!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i go to chams most mondays, its my fave night to be honest, it dont get to busy, theres enough to make it a good night but not to many that you cant find a room or get in jacuzzi all night

Its very friendly and relaxed, people do tend to talk and mix well more so on a monday than other nights i have found, ive never had any problems there at all

Most of the bi male action goes on im lockable rooms tho for some reason, you dont see much male on male action in the open, evertime ive had a 3sum etc with bi males it always seems to be in private

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have u been to chams before..if so its just the same but better

If not...general club rules...ask to play,no means no and dont harras the couples.

i loved the bi night,and chams is my fave club,friendly,fun and fab.

'ask' to play ?

that's gonna be a new 1 on me club wise

at the sauna it seems to be all done by glances, smiles and furtive looks lol

Not sure how saunas work...byt here is Auntie Jem's quick quide to clubs...

Most have a bar area, where u can chit chat,get to know ppl, socialise.Tho the smoking area is fab for this too.

Play takes place in the playrooms..aptly enough.Yu might click with someone down stairs...if so head up and have fun.

Or,and this is where MANNERS matter..you may go for a wander and see some fun going on you want to join in with.

The best thing to do is ask....DO NOT STICK YOUR COCK IN SOMEONES FACE!(different rules may apply on greedy girls nights )

A tap on the arm or shoulder may be acceptable,i dont mind this,others find it pushy.If it is a couple feel free to ask one if it is ok to join in if their partner is "ahem" occupied.

Remember no means no,

If you play with a couple or woman do not follow them around for the rest of the night and DO NOT tell other blokes xxxx is a right goer,as happened to me at chams

There are 2 sorts of clubs..i call them towel clubs(like chams) and clubby clubs(townhouse).

At chams u strip when u arrive and all men wear a towel.Women tend to go for something more sexy.

i dont know the general ettiquete between men,but i know the cinema is always full on bi nights!"

THANK YOU

I am not a pushy person anyway.

Would generally wait to be asked or let the other person make the 1st move - hopefully that won't be a downfall !

And I don't smoke but now you have mentioned the advantages of the smokers room, I might invest in some candy cigarettes before travelling down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have u been to chams before..if so its just the same but better

If not...general club rules...ask to play,no means no and dont harras the couples.

i loved the bi night,and chams is my fave club,friendly,fun and fab.

'ask' to play ?

that's gonna be a new 1 on me club wise

at the sauna it seems to be all done by glances, smiles and furtive looks lol"

depends what room you use, some rooms it seems to be more acceptable to just join in and others it dont, i find most people who go in the round room tend to just want a orgy and get on with it, you can tell by peoples body language if they interested or not, if your in a open room i personally would suggest just lightly touching and seeing the responce, personally if im in the middle of playing i dont want some guy tapping me on the shoulder and asking if he can join in but everyones different so you just need to play it by ear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are huge fans of the bi night there don't know if you'd remeber but i pm'd ya recomending it a few months back

its a really friendly bunch i honestly think you would love it

gis a shout when you know when and if we are free we will trot along n show you round if you fancy it show ya who to avoid like that odd woman that goes think she is called naughtynymphos or something like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

definitely a night i would like to get my arse to. Is it just the evening? If so what time does it become "bi night?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've heard that the dynamic is quite different on bi night. Still need to get my act together and get up there for one. This year it will happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"definitely a night i would like to get my arse to. Is it just the evening? If so what time does it become "bi night?""

all monday is bi it opens 2pm till 1am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we are huge fans of the bi night there don't know if you'd remeber but i pm'd ya recomending it a few months back

its a really friendly bunch i honestly think you would love it

gis a shout when you know when and if we are free we will trot along n show you round if you fancy it show ya who to avoid like that odd woman that goes think she is called naughtynymphos or something like that

"

well thats just charming that is

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"we are huge fans of the bi night there don't know if you'd remeber but i pm'd ya recomending it a few months back

its a really friendly bunch i honestly think you would love it

gis a shout when you know when and if we are free we will trot along n show you round if you fancy it show ya who to avoid like that odd woman that goes think she is called naughtynymphos or something like that

"

yes i remember - hence my curiosity burning thru into action

am thinking some time in september probably the 12th

pain in the bum it being on a monday cos it's my busiest work day & can rarely 'escape' early

however, i'm off that week with little to do mon-wed so what better way than to spend a day of it than meeting some new people

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

I assume you`re a member of Chams ... Very difficult for a single guy to get membership due to a huge waiting list. You may be able to get a restricted Mondays only membership however. It`s essential to ring the club first before you go to confirm you`d be able to join.

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