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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was wondering if anyone can help,I'm lacking confidence when I dress in sexy clothing because of my body, I don't think I look sexy can anyone help me and tell me what you think by looking at my profile pics or tell me if i could improve on anything please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bang tidy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look fantastic Mrs! Honestly you shouldn't worry about your profile or pictures because you sound great and your pictures are sexy x

Take care

L

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow stunning

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"I was wondering if anyone can help,I'm lacking confidence when I dress in sexy clothing because of my body, I don't think I look sexy can anyone help me and tell me what you think by looking at my profile pics or tell me if i could improve on anything please "
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I believe sexy is an attitude more than what you look like. If you feel sexy you act sexy.

Your outfits are very nice and look good on you.

Wear what you feel great in

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By *iss InnocenceWoman
over a year ago

Coventry/Bristol

Great pic's hunny, loving the boobs and boots xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was wondering if anyone can help,I'm lacking confidence when I dress in sexy clothing because of my body, I don't think I look sexy can anyone help me and tell me what you think by looking at my profile pics or tell me if i could improve on anything please "

Went through your pics and was seriously impressed with how gorgeous you are. You have no need to lack in confidence as you look incredible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great pic's hunny, loving the boobs and boots xx"

In love with your arse it's seriously hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting comments above.

I can't honestly tell as you don't have a single picture to see what your like when dressed sexy, it's all a miss mash of body parts .

Maybe try and take a couple of full length pics ? Ultimately just be happy and enjoy the body you've got

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

I would like to show you my sincere opinion privately, but I can't message you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would like to show you my sincere opinion privately, but I can't message you. "

Sorry we only talk and play with couples , just wanted to say love your pics love a bloke in a nice suit, Andrea x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was wondering if anyone can help,I'm lacking confidence when I dress in sexy clothing because of my body, I don't think I look sexy can anyone help me and tell me what you think by looking at my profile pics or tell me if i could improve on anything please "

I've (Mrs) just had a look through your pics and I think you look fab and shouldn't feel self conscious about how you look.

And the irony of this comment is I feel exactly the same way about myself as you do, would say I'm of similar size and was actually thinking of doing a similar thing.

We really are our own worst enemies at times.

L x

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name


"I would like to show you my sincere opinion privately, but I can't message you.

Sorry we only talk and play with couples , just wanted to say love your pics love a bloke in a nice suit, Andrea x"

I didn't intend to flirt. I just wanted to give you some suggestions discreetly.

Anyway, thank you for your compliments

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would like to show you my sincere opinion privately, but I can't message you.

Sorry we only talk and play with couples , just wanted to say love your pics love a bloke in a nice suit, Andrea x

I didn't intend to flirt. I just wanted to give you some suggestions discreetly.

Anyway, thank you for your compliments "

Thankyou ive pm you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was wondering if anyone can help,I'm lacking confidence when I dress in sexy clothing because of my body, I don't think I look sexy can anyone help me and tell me what you think by looking at my profile pics or tell me if i could improve on anything please

I've (Mrs) just had a look through your pics and I think you look fab and shouldn't feel self conscious about yourself

And the irony of this comment is I feel exactly the same way about myself as you do, would say I'm of similar size and was actually thinking of doing a similar thing.

We really are our own worst enemies at times.

L x"

Thankyou your pics are great too and your so right were our worst enemy Andrea x

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name


"I would like to show you my sincere opinion privately, but I can't message you.

Sorry we only talk and play with couples , just wanted to say love your pics love a bloke in a nice suit, Andrea x

I didn't intend to flirt. I just wanted to give you some suggestions discreetly.

Anyway, thank you for your compliments

Thankyou ive pm you x"

I write you with advice and you block me after. Good move... But I told you, I didn't want to flirt. You are not my type...

I guess your main problem are not the mirrors at all...

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

We all have times we lack self confidence. I find it easy to post pictures on here but I'd feel constantly on edge in a club and all my confidence would go. Even on nights out with friends I have the little voice in my head that drags me down.

I have no real advice to offer other than stick to what makes you feel good. No point choosing things to please others if you are forgetting yourself in the process.

Also remember it's the internet and opinions of strangers on here shouldn't be having any influence on how you feel. Its all just make believe behind a screen.

Lastly I would say as a couple you have one up. Someone who loves you always. Through good and bad. Take some comfort from that. Its something I can only dream of xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You got nothing to be worried about your gorgeous x

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

If they dont like u for u then there not worth your time or effort

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we all feel like this at some point. But you look great in your pictures! Maybe something has happened to knock your confidence xx

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By *ayde BlanchardTV/TS
over a year ago

lancashire

You look great and its never about what you think were all guilty of not liking what we see. But you look amazing x

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By *ickeyandmouseCouple
over a year ago

nr Alicante

Is this Mr or Mrs asking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well...starting from the standpoint that you are a larger lady and have the tummy issues that many after childbirth have...is that a vertical caesarian scar I see? ...it is a matter of choosing the right clothing to flatter your good bits and camouflage the wobbly bits. Larger busted women look best in V cut tops showing cleavage and yet bringing the shape in...you should also avoid things that cut you off so to speak at the midriff...so choose baby dolls or negligee type clothing...in the summer there are many beautiful longline tops designed to "cover up" swimsuits. These are plentiful and inexpensive. ..and easily removed.

Everyone has their preferences...nobody is naive enough to think your body is faultless...to pander to this thought is insulting as it is clearly something you are aware of...it's why you are asking.

Men are not as critical of ladies figures as you might think and some have a preference for the full figure.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well...starting from the standpoint that you are a larger lady and have the tummy issues that many after childbirth have...is that a vertical caesarian scar I see? ...it is a matter of choosing the right clothing to flatter your good bits and camouflage the wobbly bits. Larger busted women look best in V cut tops showing cleavage and yet bringing the shape in...you should also avoid things that cut you off so to speak at the midriff...so choose baby dolls or negligee type clothing...in the summer there are many beautiful longline tops designed to "cover up" swimsuits. These are plentiful and inexpensive. ..and easily removed.

Everyone has their preferences...nobody is naive enough to think your body is faultless...to pander to this thought is insulting as it is clearly something you are aware of...it's why you are asking.

Men are not as critical of ladies figures as you might think and some have a preference for the full figure. "

Hi thankyou for your comments the scar is from a bowel resection ive got crohns disease but i have had 3 children x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is this Mr or Mrs asking?"

Hi this is Mrs asking x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honey you have a voluptuous woman's body, the thing would be to embrace who and what you are and find someone who likes that, not compare yourself to stereotypes... I personally don't like skinny girls and hate false boobs, plus its more fun tying up a big girl, although you do need more rope

Be yourself...

Peace and love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Learn to love yourself for who you are, and don't be bothered about what strangers on an internet site think. Sexiness and confidence comes from within, if your mind feels that way then that's a good start. You're lucky in that you have a man who appreciates you for the woman you are.

Embrace yourself and enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look hot! I know what you mean though, I really struggle with confidence in the bedroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Learn to love yourself for who you are, and don't be bothered about what strangers on an internet site think. Sexiness and confidence comes from within, if your mind feels that way then that's a good start. You're lucky in that you have a man who appreciates you for the woman you are.

Embrace yourself and enjoy."

This!

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