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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Should I just delete it and start again? I figured being upfront about my "endowment" would be the right thing to do, to avoid disappointment and all, but I wonder if it's just putting people off altogether? Is it the rest of the profile that's the real problem? I'm new to all this and any advice would be greatly appreciated!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

It's the lack of a profile that will be the issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there isn't much there but what there is is straight to the point...

I'm guessing the fact you cant accommodate would be a problem too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont know why people ask for their profile to be checked surely if you put what you are and what you are looking for and let others decide its much easier

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Definitely the lack of a decent profile OP - and your pics are hardly inspiring to be honest.

Try and think of your profile as a shop window and ask yourself if you'd go into your shop to find out more based on your profile and pics.

I'd remove any negativity about size etc too - it comes across almost like you're trying to put people off, although do understand what you mean about trying to be upfront and honest.

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock


"Should I just delete it and start again? I figured being upfront about my "endowment" would be the right thing to do, to avoid disappointment and all, but I wonder if it's just putting people off altogether? Is it the rest of the profile that's the real problem? I'm new to all this and any advice would be greatly appreciated!"

Just several lines and a couple cock pics, aren't really enough to generate interest. Add some more body shots (they don't all have to be nude) to give people an idea, and add some more text to sell yourself.

It could also be that you're a smoker, too, as many prefer not to meet smokers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks folks. I'll have to give some thought about how to better present myself, more/better profile text shouldn't be a problem as really it's always been my personality that sells me more than my looks anyway! And yeah, the pictures are bad, especially those being the only two. The accomodation issue can't be helped right now, and the thought of stopping smoking makes me itch for a cigarette if I'm honest

But thank you all, it's a slummy looking shop window that I'll seek to improve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So your cock isn't your best feature. No worries. But why oh why would you sell yourself using what is not your best feature? That would be like me putting up a picture of my fat tummy and saying 'just thought I'd be up front that I've got a fat tummy'. Sell yourself using with your best features. Those who like your best features will turn a blind eye to your no so good features. But if you wave the not so good features in their face before you've even impressed them with what they might find attractive about you, then you really can't be surprised that they aren't interested. The key to success on Fab is about selling yourself. A picture of a small penis won't sell you.

Mrs

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Is your size a 'thing' for you OP? What with the username etc I can't help but think it might be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is your size a 'thing' for you OP? What with the username etc I can't help but think it might be."

Sure, it's been a proven deal breaker in the past, hard not to be self conscious once you've been humiliated a few times.

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By *rHornyGentMan
over a year ago

South East London


"So your cock isn't your best feature. No worries. But why oh why would you sell yourself using what is not your best feature? That would be like me putting up a picture of my fat tummy and saying 'just thought I'd be up front that I've got a fat tummy'. Sell yourself using with your best features. Those who like your best features will turn a blind eye to your no so good features. But if you wave the not so good features in their face before you've even impressed them with what they might find attractive about you, then you really can't be surprised that they aren't interested. The key to success on Fab is about selling yourself. A picture of a small penis won't sell you.

Mrs "

Hey Mrs Classy. If you have a fat tummy then I'm hairless

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By *amahafsieMan
over a year ago

bristol

Is there a way to alter a singles profile to a couple ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So your cock isn't your best feature. No worries. But why oh why would you sell yourself using what is not your best feature? That would be like me putting up a picture of my fat tummy and saying 'just thought I'd be up front that I've got a fat tummy'. Sell yourself using with your best features. Those who like your best features will turn a blind eye to your no so good features. But if you wave the not so good features in their face before you've even impressed them with what they might find attractive about you, then you really can't be surprised that they aren't interested. The key to success on Fab is about selling yourself. A picture of a small penis won't sell you.

Mrs

Hey Mrs Classy. If you have a fat tummy then I'm hairless "

Well then I've achieved what I wanted to achieve. I could put a completely different batch of photos up and not get nearly the same amount of attention. Which is what I'm trying to say to the OP - display pictures that make him looking appealing and avoid showing pictures that don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've being on here awhile now and had a few meets but havent got anything since and i was wondering is it my Profile thats putting people off .. I was wondering could anyone give me abit of advice please would really appericate it thanks

Happy Fabing

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Is there a way to alter a singles profile to a couple ?"

Maybe start your own thread rather than asking on someone else's. I would suggest you contact admin, perhaps they can help you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there a way to alter a singles profile to a couple ?"

Find a women??

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