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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For some advice.

I think we're all aware how difficult it can be to find 'unicorns'.

My husband and I are very interested in experiencing a MFF. We're both educated, respectful and are looking for down to earth, fun women to get to know.

It's proving to be a difficult task. Should we just stick to clubs? Could our profile be improved?

We would appreciate any constructive advice.

Thank you, Mrs A. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good profile and good photos. Perhaps it is just an age thing with you being the bottom end of the fab age range.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good profile and good photos. Perhaps it is just an age thing with you being the bottom end of the fab age range. "

Thank you. Perhaps - who knows

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Socials and clubs on nights when they allow singles in to play. Festivals and events in the scene and lots and lots of persistance and patience.

I don't see anything on your profile that needs adjusting it's just time and wether you decide you are prepared to keep persevering lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't see anything wrong with your profile. Patience is the key just keep looking and maybe try out a few clubs, parties and socials.

Best of luck

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By *picyminxWoman
over a year ago

Huntingdon

Couples that Ive ended up playing with have always been couples I have met in clubs, built a rapport with over time and then just gone with the flow. I always found it awkward meeting couples I didnt know and playing straight away, unless the banter was so good that I couldnt resist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it just soft swap you seek?

Isn't clear?

If so.. as a single fem.. that would put me off.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Maybe get some veris, to put ladies at ease too. You've done several posts about intending going to clubs, but that would be a great way to meet people x

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

The whole "unicorns are rare" is a myth.

If you chase labels you will find it hard.

We've never played with a "single bi female"... but we have played with loads of friends who, it just so happens, are female, single and bi.

Go out, make friends, enjoy socialising and stop trying so hard.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it just soft swap you seek?

Isn't clear?

If so.. as a single fem.. that would put me off. "

Good point - thanks. We're looking for full sex (whatever that is called in swinger talk)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is fine, tbh I tend to only meet couples in clubs now (i dont put bi on my profile on here)

What is good to know is if you are fully bi, I've had messages where women just want me to go down on them and that isnt really fair on me so its why I play in clubs with people who are fully bi and want to go all the way.. so to speak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello, you're in our local feed so I've seen your profile before. I must tell you, if you're after meeting a single woman you have to be proactive about it. The "get in touch if you fancy it" is too much of a slow burner approach! You have to do some chasing! Search for those that interest you and try to engage with them, see how it goes. Whichever of you has the better game or is more confident can be in charge of this.

On a lesser note, it may be helpful to mention what your plan is re. accommodation, do you aim to meet at clubs, are you happy to go to hotels, or what?

You look&sound good, get yourselves into gear and you'll have good results

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was a single female, I'd be wanting some valid proof that I'm talking to a female on thje other end..and not the possibility of a fantasizing male half,or allegedly could be fake.It would help when also the female half states she will talk fem 2 fem on the phone(numbers dont even need to be swapped nowadays?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the single females we have played with we have met in clubs. Even as a couple speaking to another couple online isn't clear who you are speaking to and if both halves of the couple are as interested as the other. I think clubs give the opening for people to see you're both genuine and into it.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Might have better luck in a zoo

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all your fantastic advice lovelies! Much appreciated xx

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By *eal Deal PartiesWoman
over a year ago

x

Most of the sexy unicorns I kno are over 40

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Most of the sexy unicorns I kno are over 40"

One can narrow that down to either 44 or 47

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My mum is 47 Not sure how I feel about that haha

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Your profile's great! To the point and shows your personality. Good range of photos too!

We'll second what others have said about visiting clubs. Fab's a bit of a mine field when it comes to fake profiles so people tend to be wary of them when they're seeking women only. In clubs and socials you meet the real person behind them so it's a much safer bet.

Maybe post up a meet event when you're planning on going to a club to see who's interested. Even if ladies don't respond, they may be going to the club as well and could seek you out.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile and photos are appealing. I'm sure you will find a willing female eventually. In the meantime try going to a club or a social event and get yourselves known on the scene.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry naive what os a unicorn?

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By *reamweaversCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Come up North. Mrs Dreamweaver has a profile and might be interested xx

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales


"Sorry naive what os a unicorn?"

It's a term for a single bisexual female who will play with both halves of a couple. They're called unicorns because they're so rare they're not thought to exist

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By *aeganaWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

We do exist haha ive only.met and played with one couple tho as you get so many fakes and timewasters but still meet that couple till today so keep persisting and u will find what your looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ardeus task So I was right then!!!! In my adventure trying to find a Jane. (Unicorn)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We certainly do exist

But busy lives keep our kink calendars pretty full!

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

Would love a lady to join us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would love a lady to join us "
how's the unicorn hunt pannin out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah the mythical unicorn......

We think clubs are definitely the way to go

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Ah the mythical unicorn......

We think clubs are definitely the way to go "

They think unlos is the way to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You see theres lots of couple in here looking for women.

Why dont you all get together ?

Job sorted

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"You see theres lots of couple in here looking for women.

Why dont you all get together ?

Job sorted "

That would be a group of couples....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You see theres lots of couple in here looking for women.

Why dont you all get together ?

Job sorted

That would be a group of couples...."

Yes with lots of women.

You could all take it in turns

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"You see theres lots of couple in here looking for women.

Why dont you all get together ?

Job sorted

That would be a group of couples....

Yes with lots of women.

You could all take it in turns "

Most people generally play in the format of their fab status. Some couples play separate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah the mythical unicorn......

We think clubs are definitely the way to go

They think unlos is the way to go "

I would like to think that is because they were so successful that they have now moved on to gryphons

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