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By *hloe sussex OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Larne

Hi ladies need some help anatomically I'm not the biggest girl in the world and I seem to struggle with guys of any size which is frustrating for both concerned ,what do you recommend I've tried several lubes there ok but don't always work ,any ideas to help me ?

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Patience is the key

[ copyright: Shag ]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was the same, struggled for a while.

It helps if the guy is patient and know what he is doing. Lots of lube and may be try a couple of small plugs to start with.

Or look for little guys, lol.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Being relaxed helps and that can take time

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

You need to get to know your body more with a partner or with toys x

Its a matter of relaxation and getting use to the feeling as it is strange at first xx

Buy some toys and get playing with yourself girlfriend

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By *vpamelaTV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville


"You need to get to know your body more with a partner or with toys x

Its a matter of relaxation and getting use to the feeling as it is strange at first xx

Buy some toys and get playing with yourself girlfriend "

I remember it was 10 minutes of very slow play before my first Dildo found a home. Practice with it a lot and you should be able to go up in size.

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"You need to get to know your body more with a partner or with toys x

Its a matter of relaxation and getting use to the feeling as it is strange at first xx

Buy some toys and get playing with yourself girlfriend

I remember it was 10 minutes of very slow play before my first Dildo found a home. Practice with it a lot and you should be able to go up in size. "

Yeah it takes a while I remember it did for me too and sensation is quite foreign at first.

Once you relax though....omg

.. Well its why we're on here lets be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was with a small butt plug and baby oil. Built up with time till I used an 8inch. That's my limit Relax it the key and finding your most comfortable possition x

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By *hloe sussex OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Larne

Thanks for all you input to date ladies xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relaxation and finding the right position to try it, i find on my side with legs up is a more natural position, I also use pjur analyze me as it does numb you a little, just take your time and enjoy.. think for anyone venturing into that area is always worried but there's a lot of support and advice if ever needed

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By *lare GTV/TS
over a year ago

South of Sleaford

In these situations I am usually the 'service provider'. With anyone new I am always very careful and usually let the receiver ease back onto me - slowly. Once I am fully in then I remain still until they are comfortable, thereafter just gentle movement until the receiver is relaxed or I can tell they are enjoying the sensations. It may take more than one session for everything to work properly.

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By *lare GTV/TS
over a year ago

South of Sleaford

PS the best position for that first time is 'doggy style'.

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff


"PS the best position for that first time is 'doggy style'."

Not necessarily, it depends. For example I had a meet with a rather large fella, we tried anal doggy style and he couldn't get in, I laid on my back and he went straight in.

Personally I think it can be a bit trial and error to find what works, which is OK as long as there is patience, there's nothing worse than either side going too far too quickly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being relaxed is crucial, I find it's all mind over matter you have to not think about it and just relax, try small and work up gradually.

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

As said above being relaxed is key, and someone who is patient and willing to take it slow at your pace. Also finding the right position for you, i could only manage in one position for months when i first started anal, but now am more relaxed as i know i enjoy it 99% of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give it a miss darling maybe, Anal is only practiced by a few, most find it either painfull and or unpleasant so practice other forms of sex...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"PS the best position for that first time is 'doggy style'."

I would disagree.

Best position would be her on top, lowering herself *onto* him...But, whoreses fer courses!

Whatever, patience and lube...lots of lube...when you think you have enough lube...add some more lube!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give it a miss darling maybe, Anal is only practiced by a few, most find it either painfull and or unpleasant so practice other forms of sex..."

I love you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of lube and just relax but if you dont like it dont do it as it dos hurt a little depends how big the guy is lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listen to your body darling,its giving you the best advice....

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By *hloe sussex OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Larne

I've found kinda spooning is less painful with guy behind and one leg over there thigh ,I know a lot of you are saying be patient and don't rush ,but a lot of guys can get frustrated with this ,and I know that's wrong lol

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