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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it just me that's bewildered at how hard it is to get meets or even a conversation going on here.....

even if u take your time and send someone a proper thought out message still you get no reply.. not even a simple no thanks... so I changed my pic to a face pic so it makes up for lack of verifications so u can see it me but still no joy... after all how'd u get verified as genuine if nobody will meet u without verifications... hard tough game it is but I'll stick it out but any advice would be welcome, thank u x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a tough game and the numbers are against you but like anything in life if you put the effort in you usually get the rewards.

By putting your face pic up you've already marked yourself out ahead of the silhouettes and cock pics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

VEry tough game to crack it doesn't help I live in such a small town...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile sounds immature for a 30 year old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"VEry tough game to crack it doesn't help I live in such a small town... "

Make sure there are very few holes in your net and cast your net wider. Maybe fish in different waters with different bait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you have permission from the woman/ women you fucked to use their cunt pics?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"I'm not fussy" in any context won't do you any favours. I'd suggest you reword this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's that common expectation and misconception that members on here are an easy fuck.

High expectations = high disappointment

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Really? How so brother, any advice is good advice as iv already changed it once cause I didn't think it was very good before :/

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you have permission from the woman/ women you fucked to use their cunt pics?"

I do yes. She knows and is fine with it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's that common expectation and misconception that members on here are an easy fuck.

High expectations = high disappointment"

No not at all I have respect I don't see anybody as an easy fuxk.... everybody has their own goal I respect that also their decision to speak and fuck with who they like

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""I'm not fussy" in any context won't do you any favours. I'd suggest you reword this "

Ah yeah agreed I shall remove that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you have permission from the woman/ women you fucked to use their cunt pics?

I do yes. She knows and is fine with it "

Cool x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank u for ur replies and advice tho I'll take it on board and alter things accordingly... also I'm no rush life's good if I meet anyone so be it if not cool it's all about the whole experience and building the confidence and network of friends for me... cheers guys

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Do you have permission from the woman/ women you fucked to use their cunt pics?

I do yes. She knows and is fine with it "

And you think straight women will find it attractive?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you have permission from the woman/ women you fucked to use their cunt pics?

I do yes. She knows and is fine with it

Cool x"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you have permission from the woman/ women you fucked to use their cunt pics?

I do yes. She knows and is fine with it

And you think straight women will find it attractive?"

Never even considered it tbh but majority of em have full sex pictures in their pics but I'll be honest I didn't think about it, good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank u for ur replies and advice tho I'll take it on board and alter things accordingly... also I'm no rush life's good if I meet anyone so be it if not cool it's all about the whole experience and building the confidence and network of friends for me... cheers guys "

Hang around the forums, you might get chatting to someone. It works for some. Laid back men seem to do well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me that's bewildered at how hard it is to get meets or even a conversation going on here.....

even if u take your time and send someone a proper thought out message still you get no reply.. not even a simple no thanks... so I changed my pic to a face pic so it makes up for lack of verifications so u can see it me but still no joy... after all how'd u get verified as genuine if nobody will meet u without verifications... hard tough game it is but I'll stick it out but any advice would be welcome, thank u x"
You will get the same advice go a club or social, you do that and get over 60 veris off babes and you message on here and still no joy most of the time. It is 1 of the hardest games I've played and I play golf.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thank u for ur replies and advice tho I'll take it on board and alter things accordingly... also I'm no rush life's good if I meet anyone so be it if not cool it's all about the whole experience and building the confidence and network of friends for me... cheers guys

Hang around the forums, you might get chatting to someone. It works for some. Laid back men seem to do well. "

Good to know cos I'd fall over if I was any more laid back haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it just me that's bewildered at how hard it is to get meets or even a conversation going on here.....

even if u take your time and send someone a proper thought out message still you get no reply.. not even a simple no thanks... so I changed my pic to a face pic so it makes up for lack of verifications so u can see it me but still no joy... after all how'd u get verified as genuine if nobody will meet u without verifications... hard tough game it is but I'll stick it out but any advice would be welcome, thank u x You will get the same advice go a club or social, you do that and get over 60 veris off babes and you message on here and still no joy most of the time. It is 1 of the hardest games I've played and I play golf."

I'll look into the club thing but i always left it alone because I just presumed it was more a couples thing and rather u than me matey I can't hit a ball straight for toffee

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

Look at it this way, you have only been on here for 8 weeks, it can take ages to get a meet!

It comes down to how you make yourself stand out against the numerous other guys, all wanting the same thing!

Ditch the cock shots to Private; you've got the face pics in, good for you.

Get into the Forums, go to clubs, go to Socials, it's all about being noticed! There are a lot of people on here from where you are located.

Actually, there's a Hull social this Friday and I know of people from the South Bank & Lincs who could be there!

In short, you get out results by what you put in; it does work, but you just have to give it time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me that's bewildered at how hard it is to get meets or even a conversation going on here.....

even if u take your time and send someone a proper thought out message still you get no reply.. not even a simple no thanks... so I changed my pic to a face pic so it makes up for lack of verifications so u can see it me but still no joy... after all how'd u get verified as genuine if nobody will meet u without verifications... hard tough game it is but I'll stick it out but any advice would be welcome, thank u x You will get the same advice go a club or social, you do that and get over 60 veris off babes and you message on here and still no joy most of the time. It is 1 of the hardest games I've played and I play golf.

I'll look into the club thing but i always left it alone because I just presumed it was more a couples thing and rather u than me matey I can't hit a ball straight for toffee "
Easy to obtain a Veri you see. No not necessarily depending on the nights you go you can have a great time. Can have sex with multiple women in 1 night. Messaged women on here before had no response and then played with them in a club also so don't take it to heart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you have permission from the woman/ women you fucked to use their cunt pics?

I do yes. She knows and is fine with it

And you think straight women will find it attractive?

Never even considered it tbh but majority of em have full sex pictures in their pics but I'll be honest I didn't think about it, good point "

This because they are trying to attract men...who usually like play pics...alot of women tend not to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want your profile to appeal to women why do you refer to them as guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wasn't aware of this?! Why didn't someone post this sooner!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Look at it this way, you have only been on here for 8 weeks, it can take ages to get a meet!

It comes down to how you make yourself stand out against the numerous other guys, all wanting the same thing!

Ditch the cock shots to Private; you've got the face pics in, good for you.

Get into the Forums, go to clubs, go to Socials, it's all about being noticed! There are a lot of people on here from where you are located.

Actually, there's a Hull social this Friday and I know of people from the South Bank & Lincs who could be there!

In short, you get out results by what you put in; it does work, but you just have to give it time!

"

Sound advice man thank u and I'll check the hull socials out I'll get more info just workin at the minute so time is scarce

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you want your profile to appeal to women why do you refer to them as guys? "

In case couples are readings...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wasn't aware of this?! Why didn't someone post this sooner! "

Haha

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By *s HartWoman
over a year ago

Hartlepool

Definitely ditch the 'not too fussy' line as someone else has said.

Everyone wants to feel that the person is contacting you because you are attracted to them in some way, even if it's just for a quickie.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Definitely ditch the 'not too fussy' line as someone else has said.

Everyone wants to feel that the person is contacting you because you are attracted to them in some way, even if it's just for a quickie.

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Hiya thank u iv been through it and altered a few things including the not fussy bit it seems a lot better now

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I'd consider a few more tweaks, such as dropping the text speak and your profile currently reads more about what you want and not what you can offer, so perhaps give some consideration to that.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

single guy , just goto a club a couple of times, get fab members there to verify you as genuine, post some nice pics not filth, write a short polite profile with your new verifications showing and see how it rolls .

Sit back smoke the cuban .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd consider a few more tweaks, such as dropping the text speak and your profile currently reads more about what you want and not what you can offer, so perhaps give some consideration to that.

Good luck "

Ah yeah that's good sound advice man I'll sort it soon just workin right now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"single guy , just goto a club a couple of times, get fab members there to verify you as genuine, post some nice pics not filth, write a short polite profile with your new verifications showing and see how it rolls .

Sit back smoke the cuban .

"

Ah thank u that's the way forwar I think, been speaking to a couple of people about the clubs and parties it interests me just time Can be tight as I work long daft hours..... I do try to make sure any ruder pics have a touch of art or class about them I don't like seedy looking pictures they gotta be nice but I do need to get better face pics I'll admit that but most of pics have other people in them so I don't want to post them.. thank u too

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Do you have permission from the woman/ women you fucked to use their cunt pics?

I do yes. She knows and is fine with it

And you think straight women will find it attractive?"

It doesn't float my boat as a bi woman. I'm not sure why admin allow pics showing people who clearly aren't the profile owner.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

It would be interesting to know the stats from meeting verifications. I wonder if they could display the odds of a meet for single men.

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