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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm going through it at the mo and our crappy doctors service is frustrating me.

Every time I have sex with my husband I get really bad thrush. One bonk and that's it until I've had doctor prescribed help. Argh!!!

Is this normal for a lady with erratic hormone levels?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never had any trouble with thrush when I was going through the menopause..

in fact you probably don't want to hear this but I sailed through it with the minimal of bother..

and now I am through the other side my sex drive is through the roof...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going through it at the mo and our crappy doctors service is frustrating me.

Every time I have sex with my husband I get really bad thrush. One bonk and that's it until I've had doctor prescribed help. Argh!!!

Is this normal for a lady with erratic hormone levels? "

Just asking but you are getting treatment for you're hubby as well yes?

If not you are just going to get it passed to you again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm going through it at the mo and our crappy doctors service is frustrating me.

Every time I have sex with my husband I get really bad thrush. One bonk and that's it until I've had doctor prescribed help. Argh!!!

Is this normal for a lady with erratic hormone levels?

Just asking but you are getting treatment for you're hubby as well yes?

If not you are just going to get it passed to you again "

He hasn't got thrush though. He's also just had an all clear from the clinic. The last time he played with someone other than me was well before Christmas so the test covers three months without any play outside of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your GP might prescribe a course of tablets. Have you tried probiotics especially designed for vaginal use by the way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

or you could try looking into herbal remedies..many menopausal women prefer to use alternative treatments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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He hasn't got thrush though. He's also just had an all clear from the clinic. The last time he played with someone other than me was well before Christmas so the test covers three months without any play outside of us. "

You have to treat both you and him, or it'll just keep coming back. It's most likely nothing to do with the menopause - I had the same problem with a partner in my early 20s.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"I'm going through it at the mo and our crappy doctors service is frustrating me.

Every time I have sex with my husband I get really bad thrush. One bonk and that's it until I've had doctor prescribed help. Argh!!!

Is this normal for a lady with erratic hormone levels?

Just asking but you are getting treatment for you're hubby as well yes?

If not you are just going to get it passed to you again

He hasn't got thrush though. He's also just had an all clear from the clinic. The last time he played with someone other than me was well before Christmas so the test covers three months without any play outside of us. "

Thrush is not routinely teased for and he could be totally asymptomatic. If it's happening every time you have sex, he needs treating and that can be done with OTC meds.

If you are susceptible to it, it may be worth making an appointment with your GP as repeated thrush is a possible indicator for diabetes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'll have a chat with hubby later about getting treated even though he has no symptoms.

I just wish it wasn't so bloody hard to see or even speak to the doctor.

They do telephone appointments here and the signal around us is rubbish. I'm in with clients when they call or I simply don't get a call because of lack of signal.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

See your pharmacist first, they can usually advise or ask the surgery to get a GP or nurse to call you.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

Just give hubby a tube of Clotrimazole - Canesten cream, it can't hurt. I make hubby use it when ever I get a Thrush flare up, which fingers crossed, has been a few years.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Are you using estrogen cream or any sort of estrogen replacement? Thrush loves it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had any problems but since change have been wet all the time. Dr said that's a plus for me cos lots of women dry up and find sex painful. Also sex drive has been great.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well there's a turn up for the books.

Hubby just came home from work, having stopped at tesco pharmacy for advice.

He has canistan cream to treat himself as the pharmacist said he is probably infected even without symptoms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both of you should try taking Fluconazole. Available over the counter. It is probably worth taking weekly for a month. Thrush spreads throughout your system including your bowel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't have any trouble with thrush but I did have some other problems relating to the change - I found the website www.menopausematters.co.uk very useful

My doctor was useless!

One ray of hope - the change seems to bring lots of us a higher sex drive!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both of you should try taking Fluconazole. Available over the counter. It is probably worth taking weekly for a month. Thrush spreads throughout your system including your bowel. "

I would definitely try the fluconazole tablet for both of you. It's cheaper to buy it from Amazon because at my chemist it's £6.99 for one tablet . The cream is okay but only deals with the outside symptoms not what's going on inside!

Also avoid soaps, soaking in the bath and wear cotton pants, these should also help. Good luck op, hope it clears up quickly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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He hasn't got thrush though. He's also just had an all clear from the clinic. The last time he played with someone other than me was well before Christmas so the test covers three months without any play outside of us.

You have to treat both you and him, or it'll just keep coming back. It's most likely nothing to do with the menopause - I had the same problem with a partner in my early 20s."

Your partner may not show symptoms but he still definitely needs treatment.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I had this for several months and, for me I was an undiagnosed type II diabetic. Go and see your GP if it keeps returning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had thrush almost non stop while trying to get my hormone balance right after my hysterectomy. The usual tablets didn't seem to be having much effect. I've recently started estrogen vaginal tablets as well as my HRT patch and it seems to be helping.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also cut down on sugar/yeast products x

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Have you looked at your lifestyle, do you use bubble bath or vaginal deodorant or even some soaps can irritate the vagina enough for thrush to take hold.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does your husband have thrush on his cock, I used to keep catching it off my husband's cock. X

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