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By *herokee18 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Carlisle

This is something that really gets our goat, guys complain they get no meets. Then you look at their profile and voilà a cock shot profile pic or a collection of cock shots in their gallery. Have they not learnt from reading forums that cock shots do not do it for most couples. Checked our 100 last _iewed list and 24 are males with cock shot profile pics!!!

Rant over now for some deep breathing!!!

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Ah dont let it bother me. They are just venting. A site like this reflects those in life generally... those who can, those who cant and those who cant be bothered but hope if they moan enough someone will do it for them. lol

Mistress x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont complain about it

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By *ottinghamPaulMan
over a year ago

nottingham

Think guys complain through the forum hoping someone might pity them and arrange a meet.Wonder if it works lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

seen a few couples do it more to be honest

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"This is something that really gets our goat, guys complain they get no meets. Then you look at their profile and voilà a cock shot profile pic or a collection of cock shots in their gallery. Have they not learnt from reading forums that cock shots do not do it for most couples. Checked our 100 last _iewed list and 24 are males with cock shot profile pics!!!

Rant over now for some deep breathing!!! "

You said it though "most couples" i.e. not everyone likes the same so there will be couples/ females who do like to see cock shots, just like there will be people who don't think much of just seeing a "bra shot" pic on profiles!

You have what you want on your profile and isn't it up to the "single men" what they want to put on theirs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there profiles,there choice as its your choice not to look...starting threads moaning about single guys moaning is just as bad as the ones you moan about..

get a life..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is something that really gets our goat, guys complain they get no meets. Then you look at their profile and voilà a cock shot profile pic or a collection of cock shots in their gallery. Have they not learnt from reading forums that cock shots do not do it for most couples. Checked our 100 last _iewed list and 24 are males with cock shot profile pics!!!

Rant over now for some deep breathing!!!

You said it though "most couples" i.e. not everyone likes the same so there will be couples/ females who do like to see cock shots, just like there will be people who don't think much of just seeing a "bra shot" pic on profiles!

You have what you want on your profile and isn't it up to the "single men" what they want to put on theirs? "

*Nods in agreement*

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"This is something that really gets our goat, guys complain they get no meets. Then you look at their profile and voilà a cock shot profile pic or a collection of cock shots in their gallery. Have they not learnt from reading forums that cock shots do not do it for most couples. Checked our 100 last _iewed list and 24 are males with cock shot profile pics!!!

Rant over now for some deep breathing!!!

You said it though "most couples" i.e. not everyone likes the same so there will be couples/ females who do like to see cock shots, just like there will be people who don't think much of just seeing a "bra shot" pic on profiles!

You have what you want on your profile and isn't it up to the "single men" what they want to put on theirs? "

well said that (sexy) man

i for one love a good cock pic to look at so dont mind a profile with a few pics like that on it

i'm getting bored of all this single man bashing these days - they are people to you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is something that really gets our goat, guys complain they get no meets. Then you look at their profile and voilà a cock shot profile pic or a collection of cock shots in their gallery. Have they not learnt from reading forums that cock shots do not do it for most couples. Checked our 100 last _iewed list and 24 are males with cock shot profile pics!!! agree some very nice guys on fab,!!!!!

Rant over now for some deep breathing!!!

You said it though "most couples" i.e. not everyone likes the same so there will be couples/ females who do like to see cock shots, just like there will be people who don't think much of just seeing a "bra shot" pic on profiles!

You have what you want on your profile and isn't it up to the "single men" what they want to put on theirs?

well said that (sexy) man

i for one love a good cock pic to look at so dont mind a profile with a few pics like that on it

i'm getting bored of all this single man bashing these days - they are people to you know "

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Poor single men, they can never win huh

For the record, there are lots of us who do like cock pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Poor single men, they can never win huh

For the record, there are lots of us who do like cock pics."
which the original poster rephrase it

not all single men are like the 1 s there getting

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By *eavy Metal BallzMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

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By *eavy Metal BallzMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Gotta laugh, a couple moaning about single guys moaning, lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Gotta laugh, a couple moaning about single guys moaning, lol"

Maybe I should have a moan. Then, if a TV moans, we'll have the full set!!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

People are free to put what photos they like on their profile... as it's their profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Poor single men, they can never win huh

For the record, there are lots of us who do like cock pics.which the original poster rephrase it

not all single men are like the 1 s there getting

"
Here here. If we were all the same it'd be pretty boring!!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

couples moaning about guys... boring.

guys moaning about fems and couples... boring.

fems moaning about guys and couples ... boring.

not worth the typing a character/text/thread... achieves zilch... the offenders unlikely to read the posts......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive new pics from monday....cock pics,pussy pics, shaggin pics....im moaning ive no meet today tho!!!!grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"couples moaning about guys... boring.

guys moaning about fems and couples... boring.

fems moaning about guys and couples ... boring.

not worth the typing a character/text/thread... achieves zilch... the offenders unlikely to read the posts......

"
+1

really dont see the point in thease threads they should be ban

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"ive new pics from monday....cock pics,pussy pics, shaggin pics....im moaning ive no meet today tho!!!!grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr lol"

sure, down loading them from google may not help tho... the pic of a 6' blond guy doesn't sell you well Padster x

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By *iamondladyWoman
over a year ago

titsville


"This is something that really gets our goat, guys complain they get no meets. Then you look at their profile and voilà a cock shot profile pic or a collection of cock shots in their gallery. Have they not learnt from reading forums that cock shots do not do it for most couples. Checked our 100 last _iewed list and 24 are males with cock shot profile pics!!!

Rant over now for some deep breathing!!!

You said it though "most couples" i.e. not everyone likes the same so there will be couples/ females who do like to see cock shots, just like there will be people who don't think much of just seeing a "bra shot" pic on profiles!

You have what you want on your profile and isn't it up to the "single men" what they want to put on theirs? "

You maybe be right but I think most guys really think that ladies chose their men by looking at a cock pic, seriously I do. As I know most guys choose to message me because of my boob shots. Most women operate differently preferring a nice face pic and/or body shot with a witty or well written message or at least an intention of one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there profiles,there choice as its your choice not to look...starting threads moaning about single guys moaning is just as bad as the ones you moan about..

get a life.."

Agree,if you see guys profiles with just cock shots why dont you give it a miss instead of complaining on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Poor single men, they can never win huh

For the record, there are lots of us who do like cock pics."

Ditto x

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Think I may start a post complaining about people who complain about other people complaining. What do you think? Should I or would it be too complaining?

Mistress x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think I may start a post complaining about people who complain about other people complaining. What do you think? Should I or would it be too complaining?

Mistress x"
naw just be 2 many moan about it lol

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"Think I may start a post complaining about people who complain about other people complaining. What do you think? Should I or would it be too complaining?

Mistress x

naw just be 2 many moan about it lol"

There's always one

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"This is something that really gets our goat, guys complain they get no meets. Then you look at their profile and voilà a cock shot profile pic or a collection of cock shots in their gallery. Have they not learnt from reading forums that cock shots do not do it for most couples. Checked our 100 last _iewed list and 24 are males with cock shot profile pics!!!

Rant over now for some deep breathing!!! "

mine stay they work for me always have and always will by the way not complaining about not getting any meets see it works for some of us i always get offers some times too many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think I may start a post complaining about people who complain about other people complaining. What do you think? Should I or would it be too complaining?

Mistress x

naw just be 2 many moan about it lol

There's always one "
true true

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

When does Invictus' moans department reopen?

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By *herokee18 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Carlisle

Interesting most of the complains about this thread a single males.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Interesting most of the complains about this thread a single males."

Well there are more single guys on the site.. So that ratio supports it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting most of the complains about this thread a single males."
what do you expect

just couples or females only thread

i am single guy an never have any time moan about not getting a meet (it takes time not like 5mins)

its mainly couples do this

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By *etteringcplCouple
over a year ago

peterborough

im sure you dant have to look at them lol

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Don't read the threads. Job done! Z

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

i have a bum pic and a few dressed pics anyone that wants to see my cock will have to ask to see pics lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont have cock pics up i dont wank on cam i dont direct i dont beg and i dont say nasty dirty crude things im onest and if i pay a compliment then it is just that not some sad way of trying to get into a women's nicker's sadly its the guy's who do all of the above who get meet's and if i wish to moan then i will as i have good reason to but hay realy sorey if that offends u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont have cock pics up i dont wank on cam i dont direct i dont beg and i dont say nasty dirty crude things im onest and if i pay a compliment then it is just that not some sad way of trying to get into a women's nicker's sadly its the guy's who do all of the above who get meet's and if i wish to moan then i will as i have good reason to but hay realy sorey if that offends u "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought moaning could only take place on a Thursday with the correct paperwork filled out in triplicate and rubber stamped !

Btw - love cock shots but not if they are the only pic and a woman is the only face pic x

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"I thought moaning could only take place on a Thursday with the correct paperwork filled out in triplicate and rubber stamped "

Invictus handed in his notice!

Mistress x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

every section of the community moans.

couples moan about not getting bi females.

bi females moan about not getting other bi females.

single guys moan about not getting meets.

and you'll see some woman moaning about people not turning up to meets.

but is always the single guy who gets kicked because they are easy targets.

if single guys werent around youd soon find something else to moan about.

oh yes and one more thing. 90% of couples who are on cam in chatrooms as guys wanking.

pick the bones out of that one.!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like cock pics as long as it's a nice cock. Pale, shrivelled, day old chick look-alikes in scraggy nests don't do it for me!

I also like there to be other pics, as well as a coherent profile, using entire words, appropriate capital letters and correct spelling and punctuation, telling me a bit about the person and what they're into.

But hey, I'm a picky cow!

For the record guys, an interesting, well written profile and photos of a nice back and cute arse, or the curve of a shoulder and a toned arm, or the sweep of a stomach into a firm thigh will usually do much more for me than a photo of a cock. There are a few exceptions, and a couple of guys on here do have cock pics that make me dribble, but in the most part the saying 'seen one, seen 'em all' does apply.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Oh good lord they're clubbing together now!!

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By *waymanMan
over a year ago

newcastle


"i dont have cock pics up i dont wank on cam i dont direct i dont beg and i dont say nasty dirty crude things im onest and if i pay a compliment then it is just that not some sad way of trying to get into a women's nicker's sadly its the guy's who do all of the above who get meet's and if i wish to moan then i will as i have good reason to but hay realy sorey if that offends u "

Don't agitate, punctuate.

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By *igemMan
over a year ago

cheltenham


"there profiles,there choice as its your choice not to look...starting threads moaning about single guys moaning is just as bad as the ones you moan about..

get a life.."

Yes it takes all sorts, every one have different tastes, what one does not like, someone else might like, it's your choice to _iew,

Types of pics you show is part of your profile make up!

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By *im halpertMan
over a year ago

redditch


"seen a few couples do it more to be honest"
I dont know personally ANY couples who complain they dont get enough meets,if you sit on here moaning you wont,people need to get out off the sofa lol

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


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Yes it takes all sorts, every one have different tastes, what one does not like, someone else might like, it's your choice to _iew,

Types of pics you show is part of your profile make up!"

Definitely a large portion in the profile sell.. but you have to pick photographs that you think others will like, or not focus on one aspect (your cock) as people may not get the message and mentally switch off (then you've lost your victim). The order, flow and quality of images matters as much as the clarity readability and flow of your profile text. Its not a guarantee once youve done all that you'll get a meet but it may just tip the idds your way

Dont knock people who bemoan things... what they're really asking for is your help... and everyone wonders why they sometimes dont get what they so desperately look for and let's face it... outside of this community where are you going to get advice on such things...?

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"seen a few couples do it more to be honestI dont know personally ANY couples who complain they dont get enough meets,if you sit on here moaning you wont,people need to get out off the sofa lol "
i would actually 2nd that

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By *igemMan
over a year ago

cheltenham

I agree entirely, as I said your pics tell a lot about you, there is someone out there for every one, each to there own to a degree!!

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I like all this complaining just shows how well im doing on this site and im not even trying, another trick guys keep changing your avtar pic it works and you have got to have somehing sell its your shop window

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not even trying myself learn it from the past mistakes.

what is the point in moaning, it dose not get any were: I prefer to moan in bed

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock


"This is something that really gets our goat, guys complain they get no meets. Then you look at their profile and voilà a cock shot profile pic or a collection of cock shots in their gallery. Have they not learnt from reading forums that cock shots do not do it for most couples. Checked our 100 last _iewed list and 24 are males with cock shot profile pics!!!

Rant over now for some deep breathing!!! "

So out of the last 100 _iews 76% have not been cockshot profiles? Sounds like you are complainining about a minority.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive new pics from monday....cock pics,pussy pics, shaggin pics....im moaning ive no meet today tho!!!!grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr lol

sure, down loading them from google may not help tho... the pic of a 6' blond guy doesn't sell you well Padster x"

Ok stole from google but the people just wouldnt send me them lol and the 6 foot blonde guy, well that was her partner.....so there! hehe

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By *herokee18 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Carlisle

You miss the point, what is the first thing you see on a profile? the tiny pic next to the blurb.

The complaint is when you open up your recently _iewed page and are confronted by an endless stream of cock shots and they are all trying to impress with that first impression. When you are confronted by a plethora of cocks you tend to go what the hell. Pity there is no function for deleting these from that page so one can focus on those who show more imagination and effort in presenting / selling themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not your profile.

people are free to have what pictures they like because this is a adult site.

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By *UNCHBOXMan
over a year ago

folkestone


"You miss the point, what is the first thing you see on a profile? the tiny pic next to the blurb.

The complaint is when you open up your recently _iewed page and are confronted by an endless stream of cock shots and they are all trying to impress with that first impression. When you are confronted by a plethora of cocks you tend to go what the hell. Pity there is no function for deleting these from that page so one can focus on those who show more imagination and effort in presenting / selling themselves. "

Just had 4 winks and 2 friends from couples within the last week, all of which have not one photo, and vitually next to nothing in their profile. Its not just single men who cant present themselves well!

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By *herokee18 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Carlisle

Thank you all for the interaction, it has been lively and contentious at the same time. x

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By *iamondladyWoman
over a year ago

titsville


"

Yes it takes all sorts, every one have different tastes, what one does not like, someone else might like, it's your choice to _iew,

Types of pics you show is part of your profile make up!

Definitely a large portion in the profile sell.. but you have to pick photographs that you think others will like, or not focus on one aspect (your cock) as people may not get the message and mentally switch off (then you've lost your victim). The order, flow and quality of images matters as much as

the clarity readability and flow of your profile text. Its not a guarantee once youve done all that you'll get a meet but it may just tip the idds your way

Dont knock people who bemoan things... what they're really asking for is your help... and everyone wonders why they sometimes dont get what they so desperately look for and let's face it... outside of this community where are you going to get advice on such things...?

Wolf

"

I totally agree with you!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's buyers market boys!!That means you have to have something to offer.

Men must outnumber women 5 to 1 probably more of course the ladies and couples are going to pick the best suited to the profile.

The answer is don't take it personal.Life is not fair nor is the mating game.It never has been and never will be.Keep smiling,keep honest and "if you build it they will cum" or something like that

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