FabSwingers.com forum: Female sex drive

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Female here. Have recently lost my urge for sex. Is there a female equivalent to vagra and does it really work?

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

there are sugar pills in effect a placebo drugs you can buy in annsummers or even tge point shop.

herbal stuff

and there is a proper female viagra but its band in the us but its banned in Europe because it can cause heart attacks.

all of these work optimally when you feel and ultimatly belive that you will become horny from it, due to the female perception and interpretation of blood rushing to genitalia (and other mental factors).

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Does it not stop being a placebo if you tell someone it's a placebo?

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"Does it not stop being a placebo if you tell someone it's a placebo?"

can for some people. however the mind is a powerful thing. once study looking at spinal injuries had their participants asking them to perform the dummy procedures even though they know it was a placebo.

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

if you don't feel like it- don't do it. if I am stressed or other things are bothering me my sex drive changes. I'd rather have a look at my life and see what is actually going on for myself than trying medication or other stuff.

But that's me and how my body and mind work. Hope you find something that helps you!!

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By *aptivatingWoman
over a year ago

Chester

According to some research (give Winnifred B. Cutler a google) there is evidence that the less sex a woman has, the less she wants it (men are the other way around). So providing there's nothing else going on in the background, then this may well be one of those times where faking it until you make it could help you get back to normal.

If there is something that's causing you issues though, then you may need to work out what they are and how you can handle them, your GP may be able to help. If an outside ear to chat to might help, feel free to send me a message.

Good luck getting yourself sorted.

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By *hoenixflameWoman
over a year ago

Kettering

You could try Multi Maca from the Forever Living range. It's a natural based product, two tablets once a day. Not cheap, and not instantly effective like viagra unfortunately, more a longer term investment. I've been taken them for a number of years and can definitely see the benefits but can't promise the same effect will be had on others.

I hope this helps x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instead of taking herbal remedies, I'd go see your doctor instead. It can be a symptom of underlying mental or physical health issues and it's best to get that checked out if you're worried.

It's proberbly nothing, but better to be safe than sorry and shoving random untested pills down your neck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Instead of taking herbal remedies, I'd go see your doctor instead. It can be a symptom of underlying mental or physical health issues and it's best to get that checked out if you're worried.

It's proberbly nothing, but better to be safe than sorry and shoving random untested pills down your neck."

I fully agree with you, great advice.

Hope Op you are feeling Tip Top soon though. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if you don't feel like it- don't do it. if I am stressed or other things are bothering me my sex drive changes. I'd rather have a look at my life and see what is actually going on for myself than trying medication or other stuff.

But that's me and how my body and mind work. Hope you find something that helps you!!"
this......

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Instead of taking herbal remedies, I'd go see your doctor instead. It can be a symptom of underlying mental or physical health issues and it's best to get that checked out if you're worried.

It's proberbly nothing, but better to be safe than sorry and shoving random untested pills down your neck."

I agree. Sometimes health problems can cause your sex drive to just plummet. Problems in your life can do this too. If you are going to be popping pills they might as well be the right ones that are actually going to work.

Take a good honest look at what is going on in your life, you may find the cause there. Go for a check up with your GP. Even finding out that nothing is wrong can make you feel more at ease and relaxed.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Y'know, it's normal too.

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"According to some research (give Winnifred B. Cutler a google) there is evidence that the less sex a woman has, the less she wants it (men are the other way around). So providing there's nothing else going on in the background, then this may well be one of those times where faking it until you make it could help you get back to normal.

Good luck getting yourself sorted.

nooo!! never fake it... not that most us men can tell the difference anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Female here. Have recently lost my urge for sex. Is there a female equivalent to vagra and does it really work?

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I am not sure it works like that... as loss of sex drive for a woman is normally psychological rather than physical

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Whilst everyone is saying there may be underlying psychological problems - that might be fine enough, plus taking rest is great idea if you're overworked. But there is nothing better that a good diet too and if a supplement gives you that boost in essential vitamins that your body is lacking, then trying to diagnose the impossible will only lead to further worry. Maca is great and is a root extract full of nutrients even if your libido isn't low.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doc

Good Nutrition

Sexercise

Or A good Book

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or A Sexy Chauffer

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By *ovely CummingsWoman
over a year ago

Peaky Nipples

Good luck getting yourself sorted.

I can concur work these findings... The more sex i have, the more i want

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By *rMrs CumalotCouple
over a year ago

East Mids

"Female here. Have recently lost my urge for sex. Is there a female equivalent to vagra and does it really work?

Op you need to find the issue causing this low!

Attack at source

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Female here : sometimes I am so horny I wank several times a day. This last week I am not interested. The more I have the more I want but, if its not available I am soon not bothered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Female here. Have recently lost my urge for sex. Is there a female equivalent to vagra and does it really work?

Viagra does not increase your sex drive, just your hardon!

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