FabSwingers.com forum: My lack of confidence on my size.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So, I know it's about how you use it and not the size.

My girth is fine and I have a nice curve towards my stomach but I'm certainly below average. And I've never had any issues that I know of from previous sexual partners about my size. Apart from my ex who teased me a bit. But that being said. I'm always super nervous when I start dating someone new because I see so many guys on here with really big penis's and I feel a little under developed. I suppose.

Do you prefer a big penis or a smaller more average size penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most of the women that I know care more about personality and facial features mate, and besides people come in all shapes and sizes anyway so don't let it get you down

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

This question has been asked plenty of times before and the answer is that different women like different things.

And a lot are scared of the monster cocks.

Personally I don't care about size as long as the guy is not a cock himself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are really attractive so I wouldn't let it bother you.

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

I prefer average size. Too big just hurts though I do like some pain if someone is huge it gets beyond pleasure

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

"This question has been asked plenty of times before and the answer is that different women like different things.

And a lot are scared of the monster cocks.

Personally I don't care about size as long as the guy is not a cock himself

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This question has been asked plenty of times before and the answer is that different women like different things.

And a lot are scared of the monster cocks.

Personally I don't care about size as long as the guy is not a cock himself

Well said

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

And OP I'd meet you just to run my fingers through your hair

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I prefer average attached to a man who doesn't focus on his penis as the main source of my pleasure.

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

OP as long as you hit the right spot and are a polite non pushy guy, the size of your manhood is not an issue.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anytime

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By * inch DanMan
over a year ago

Chinnor

Be grateful for what you have and stop worrying and doubting, it'll only make you self conscious and worried about what women think and that'll knock confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont worry about things you cant change - we got what god gave us

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

"dont worry about things you cant change - we got what god gave us"

I like what god gave you

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

op cock shyness is more common than you think. one study in the naughties put the figure of men wanting at least an extra length of 2 inches and girth of an inch more at around 80%.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"I prefer average attached to a man who doesn't focus on his penis as the main source of my pleasure. "

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By *aurenkaWoman
over a year ago

London

OP - watch this and feel better

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6mZxzJDb2nE

Just jokeing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's all about personality and attraction. I would far rather an average cock with a great personality than a big cock and the personality of a brick. You're rather blessed in the looks department so be confident about your body. Confidence is sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks just about right

Don't let it knock your confidence

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By *LUKCouple
over a year ago

Loughborough

It's your cock, learn the love it.

It's the size it is and it's not changing any time soon.

Think of all the good times you two have had together, and better times that lay ahead. Enjoy those times to their fullest.

A confident guy with an average sized cock who knows how to use it is far more desirable than an unsure, insecure guy with a massive chopper.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Men are generally more obsessed with cock size than women this and the countless other threads on the subject started predominantly by men prove that

Personally I couldn't give a rats are if you got 1inch or 10 I'm more interested in the person attached to it. If he's unconfident with what he's got or uses his cock as his only selling point I won't be interested, both are unattractive qualities to me and guess what they aren't physical qualities there a lesson there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd ride you!!!

Your ex is a bitch. Hope you feel better. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This question has been asked plenty of times before and the answer is that different women like different things.

And a lot are scared of the monster cocks.

Personally I don't care about size as long as the guy is not a cock himself

Agree

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By *abcouple11Couple
over a year ago

Truro

This part is not the main point:

How many ladies you will meet will have a "wizard's sleeve" between their thighs??!!!

Even if she did, you could get your fingers (entire fist?) into action, have a laugh and agree that it's been great but you are probably not meant to be for ever and ever...

The main point:

The lady / ladies will be impressed if you like them - read that as present yourself with a solid erection and demonstrate yourself willing to use it.

Concentrate on whether you find the lady attractive, and if you do, provide for her and her needs...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" So, I know it's about how you use it and not the size.

Do you prefer a big penis or a smaller more average size penis "

From my previous experience it's not about size. It's genuinely about the way you use it. Be confident in yourself and your confidence will make you shine.

Yes people love huge cock - whatever, that's their preference but that doesn't mean that you're not good enough.

Stop looking down at yourself for what you haven't got and embrace what you have!

Mrs X

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By *mber GamblerCouple
over a year ago

rugby

I prefer average, but girth is better than long. Rather have a small girthie cock than an average girth long one. And big ones just hurt. I don't want one.

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