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"Hi all, Single male, 38, sharp, decent chap. Thinking of quest in coming weeks. Nervous. Any blokes out there wanna be wing man? Ill be your vice versa. Even any girls. Social first. M " These single guys taking friends with them etc I don't understand it. Why would you want to bring competition with you. You want to be 1 of the only single guys, couples and single ladies are intimidated by groups of men also. It is a selfish thing being a single guy at the club, talk to staff or other single guys there if lonely but you don't need wingmen honestly. | |||
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"Hi all, Single male, 38, sharp, decent chap. Thinking of quest in coming weeks. Nervous. Any blokes out there wanna be wing man? Ill be your vice versa. Even any girls. Social first. M These single guys taking friends with them etc I don't understand it. Why would you want to bring competition with you. You want to be 1 of the only single guys, couples and single ladies are intimidated by groups of men also. It is a selfish thing being a single guy at the club, talk to staff or other single guys there if lonely but you don't need wingmen honestly." as a woman I disagree there and a woman only feels intimidated by behaviour of said men. Actually if two guys are comfy around each other as friends its a good thing. And as long as they don't sit and just talk to each other then dont see a problem.. but then I like my extra men in pairs or more. | |||
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"Hi all, Single male, 38, sharp, decent chap. Thinking of quest in coming weeks. Nervous. Any blokes out there wanna be wing man? Ill be your vice versa. Even any girls. Social first. M These single guys taking friends with them etc I don't understand it. Why would you want to bring competition with you. You want to be 1 of the only single guys, couples and single ladies are intimidated by groups of men also. It is a selfish thing being a single guy at the club, talk to staff or other single guys there if lonely but you don't need wingmen honestly. as a woman I disagree there and a woman only feels intimidated by behaviour of said men. Actually if two guys are comfy around each other as friends its a good thing. And as long as they don't sit and just talk to each other then dont see a problem.. but then I like my extra men in pairs or more. " Maybe it dors depend on the night you attend e.g. greedy girl event it wouldn't make much difference but normal nights it does. You have to be like a lone wolf and just blend in. | |||
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"Hi all, Single male, 38, sharp, decent chap. Thinking of quest in coming weeks. Nervous. Any blokes out there wanna be wing man? Ill be your vice versa. Even any girls. Social first. M These single guys taking friends with them etc I don't understand it. Why would you want to bring competition with you. You want to be 1 of the only single guys, couples and single ladies are intimidated by groups of men also. It is a selfish thing being a single guy at the club, talk to staff or other single guys there if lonely but you don't need wingmen honestly. as a woman I disagree there and a woman only feels intimidated by behaviour of said men. Actually if two guys are comfy around each other as friends its a good thing. And as long as they don't sit and just talk to each other then dont see a problem.. but then I like my extra men in pairs or more. Maybe it dors depend on the night you attend e.g. greedy girl event it wouldn't make much difference but normal nights it does. You have to be like a lone wolf and just blend in." I don't agree and we go to clubs all over. It wouldn't matter. Showed plenty of guys and their mates around clubs and seems to be good. And after all no one would be saying dont take a friend if it was a girl | |||
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"Hi all, Single male, 38, sharp, decent chap. Thinking of quest in coming weeks. Nervous. Any blokes out there wanna be wing man? Ill be your vice versa. Even any girls. Social first. M These single guys taking friends with them etc I don't understand it. Why would you want to bring competition with you. You want to be 1 of the only single guys, couples and single ladies are intimidated by groups of men also. It is a selfish thing being a single guy at the club, talk to staff or other single guys there if lonely but you don't need wingmen honestly. as a woman I disagree there and a woman only feels intimidated by behaviour of said men. Actually if two guys are comfy around each other as friends its a good thing. And as long as they don't sit and just talk to each other then dont see a problem.. but then I like my extra men in pairs or more. Maybe it dors depend on the night you attend e.g. greedy girl event it wouldn't make much difference but normal nights it does. You have to be like a lone wolf and just blend in. I don't agree and we go to clubs all over. It wouldn't matter. Showed plenty of guys and their mates around clubs and seems to be good. And after all no one would be saying dont take a friend if it was a girl" Well some if the most successful single guys I've met don't take male friends with them believe me. Some clubs don't let you enter in groups of men either. I'm far too selfish because if a single lady or couple are only looking for 1 guy I want it to be me not my friend that would piss me right off. | |||
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"I'm fine if someone wants to take a qing man to a club for several reasons. First (and most important to me), I love MMF. Second, it prevents men from roaming around pissing people off or being a zombie wanker, because they have someone to talk to if they're not successful. I go to clubs with a female mate for that reason - if we're not shagging guys we can have a chat, instead of sitting there looking like Betty No Mates. A single bloke is always going to look a bit forlorn, whereas a couple of blokes might have a better chance of having a good time." A few single women so different but not men. It is a terrible idea! | |||
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"Hi all, Single male, 38, sharp, decent chap. Thinking of quest in coming weeks. Nervous. Any blokes out there wanna be wing man? Ill be your vice versa. Even any girls. Social first. M These single guys taking friends with them etc I don't understand it. Why would you want to bring competition with you. You want to be 1 of the only single guys, couples and single ladies are intimidated by groups of men also. It is a selfish thing being a single guy at the club, talk to staff or other single guys there if lonely but you don't need wingmen honestly. as a woman I disagree there and a woman only feels intimidated by behaviour of said men. Actually if two guys are comfy around each other as friends its a good thing. And as long as they don't sit and just talk to each other then dont see a problem.. but then I like my extra men in pairs or more. " The more the merrier  | |||
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"I'm fine if someone wants to take a qing man to a club for several reasons. First (and most important to me), I love MMF. Second, it prevents men from roaming around pissing people off or being a zombie wanker, because they have someone to talk to if they're not successful. I go to clubs with a female mate for that reason - if we're not shagging guys we can have a chat, instead of sitting there looking like Betty No Mates. A single bloke is always going to look a bit forlorn, whereas a couple of blokes might have a better chance of having a good time."  | |||
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"Interesting replies. My motivation is more innocent than than that. Basically looking for morale support rather than inviting competition. Male but preferably female. " These women have a biased opinion. Go on your own or try get a lady don't take other men. You will look independent on your own and depending on the club you go too you could look gay going with a guy as well. | |||
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"I'm fine if someone wants to take a qing man to a club for several reasons. First (and most important to me), I love MMF. Second, it prevents men from roaming around pissing people off or being a zombie wanker, because they have someone to talk to if they're not successful. I go to clubs with a female mate for that reason - if we're not shagging guys we can have a chat, instead of sitting there looking like Betty No Mates. A single bloke is always going to look a bit forlorn, whereas a couple of blokes might have a better chance of having a good time. A few single women so different but not men. It is a terrible idea! " In your opinion. We're giving our opinions. The OP can then make a decision. If he goes with a mate and it doesn't work out he'll know better. And vice versa. | |||
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"I'm fine if someone wants to take a qing man to a club for several reasons. First (and most important to me), I love MMF. Second, it prevents men from roaming around pissing people off or being a zombie wanker, because they have someone to talk to if they're not successful. I go to clubs with a female mate for that reason - if we're not shagging guys we can have a chat, instead of sitting there looking like Betty No Mates. A single bloke is always going to look a bit forlorn, whereas a couple of blokes might have a better chance of having a good time. A few single women so different but not men. It is a terrible idea! In your opinion. We're giving our opinions. The OP can then make a decision. If he goes with a mate and it doesn't work out he'll know better. And vice versa." Yes I know that but I have more understanding as a single guy and I know my advice is more helpful to the op.  | |||
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"I'm fine if someone wants to take a qing man to a club for several reasons. First (and most important to me), I love MMF. Second, it prevents men from roaming around pissing people off or being a zombie wanker, because they have someone to talk to if they're not successful. I go to clubs with a female mate for that reason - if we're not shagging guys we can have a chat, instead of sitting there looking like Betty No Mates. A single bloke is always going to look a bit forlorn, whereas a couple of blokes might have a better chance of having a good time. A few single women so different but not men. It is a terrible idea! In your opinion. We're giving our opinions. The OP can then make a decision. If he goes with a mate and it doesn't work out he'll know better. And vice versa. Yes I know that but I have more understanding as a single guy and I know my advice is more helpful to the op. "Fair enough. I'm giving the view of the OPs chosen target. | |||
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" Fair enough. I'm giving the view of the OPs chosen target." Game. Set. Match. | |||
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" Fair enough. I'm giving the view of the OPs chosen target. Game. Set. Match. " Not about scoring points it's about helping the op. I'm just guessing the women who are disagreeing haven't encountered a successful single male that's all. | |||
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"Hi all, Single male, 38, sharp, decent chap. Thinking of quest in coming weeks. Nervous. Any blokes out there wanna be wing man? Ill be your vice versa. Even any girls. Social first. M " Hey, bro! I know exactly where you're coming from! Leeds is a little off my radar at the moment but I know of a great bi-monthly party in the West Midlands where I can introduce you to some well behaved (and not so well behaved) boys and girls! Let me know when you're about to dust off your suitcase!
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" Fair enough. I'm giving the view of the OPs chosen target. Game. Set. Match. Not about scoring points it's about helping the op. I'm just guessing the women who are disagreeing haven't encountered a successful single male that's all." erm.. many many of them thanks.. and Mr was a successful single on here when we met | |||
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