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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you have to attend all the socials or the club's to get along on here. I prefer the more intimate meets but it seems that's not what people are after. Any help appreciated

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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no you don't.

socials aren't really for sex anyway, so there'd be no need to feel like you'd be performing in front of others.

they are just one way of meeting new people who might be up for sex with you. 1 to 1 socials or group ones, don't think sex will happen with these.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah so I have heard but that's not my thing. But it's all people say

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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it's highly unlikely you'll find people offering to service you for free on here.

that's just how swinging is.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"Do you have to attend all the socials or the club's to get along on here. I prefer the more intimate meets but it seems that's not what people are after. Any help appreciated "

Think of it as the equivalent to an employment fair where you hand out your cv to potential employers. Obviously less formal but more fun!

If you can be interesting OUTSIDE of the bedroom then...

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By *iReyWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire East

I find a lot of people on here treat this site as a garuntee to get fucked. It's a swinging site, simply having working genitals arnt enough for a lot of people. If you're after a quick fuck garunteed try a site dedicated to that kind of thing or an escorts, in the meantime look up the definition of swinging and adjust your approach. I know if I get messages here or on my couples profile from someone who doesn't even bother to try and get to know me won't get a reply, I don't want to feel like a prostitute who doesn't get paid.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"I find a lot of people on here treat this site as a garuntee to get fucked. It's a swinging site, simply having working genitals arnt enough for a lot of people. If you're after a quick fuck garunteed try a site dedicated to that kind of thing or an escorts, in the meantime look up the definition of swinging and adjust your approach. I know if I get messages here or on my couples profile from someone who doesn't even bother to try and get to know me won't get a reply, I don't want to feel like a prostitute who doesn't get paid."

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Do you have to attend all the socials or the club's to get along on here. I prefer the more intimate meets but it seems that's not what people are after. Any help appreciated "

Lots of people will meet you with the possibility of having sex without a separate social first. You have to realise though that they might decide that they don't want to have sex with you when you are face to face and that this doesn't mean that you arrive at your meeting point and immediately have sex, there will often (but not always) be a social element to every meet.

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Do you have to attend all the socials or the club's to get along on here. I prefer the more intimate meets but it seems that's not what people are after. Any help appreciated "

I think potential meets will find it puzzling when your profile says you are straight but both your verifications are from tv/ts.

Sally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah so I have heard but that's not my thing. But it's all people say "

Go to clubs and socials is an inevitable response on here whenever someone asks for advice. There are plenty on here that do well without going to clubs and socials and also those that do go to them that get nowhere. Reality is find what works for you.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Do you have to attend all the socials or the club's to get along on here. I prefer the more intimate meets but it seems that's not what people are after. Any help appreciated

I think potential meets will find it puzzling when your profile says you are straight but both your verifications are from tv/ts.

Sally"

If somebody is hiding their bisexuality, then .....

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"Do you have to attend all the socials or the club's to get along on here. I prefer the more intimate meets but it seems that's not what people are after. Any help appreciated

I think potential meets will find it puzzling when your profile says you are straight but both your verifications are from tv/ts.

Sally"

Not puzzling if you've been on Fab for 5 minutes...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the advice. Maybe a profile re jig could be in order. I always like to chat with people first get to know them and then a social so it gives us something to talk about. Not after one offs as I think the more times the better.

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By *larayCouple
over a year ago

bolton

Or just admit on your profile that you are bi!?

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