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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Me and my gf have a great relationship but she tends to tease me on the size of my willy. It's not small but not huge, about 6" and quite thick. She's had few partners in the past and does brag at times about some of the let's say larger guys. However she does say she is happy with mine and our relationship is great. But little voices in the back of my mind saying I think she would love to have bigger. I've asked outright if she does but she goes round houses saying happy with what we have but I don't get a straight answer. How on earth do I get overthinking out my head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have given the thread title a little more thought if I'd been you OP.

I was expecting a thread about how your GF used to be a man

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Me and my gf have a great relationship but she tends to tease me on the size of my willy. It's not small but not huge, about 6" and quite thick. She's had few partners in the past and does brag at times about some of the let's say larger guys. However she does say she is happy with mine and our relationship is great. But little voices in the back of my mind saying I think she would love to have bigger. I've asked outright if she does but she goes round houses saying happy with what we have but I don't get a straight answer. How on earth do I get overthinking out my head "

You need to stop asking her for confirmation that you're good enough. If her answers aren't changing there's no need to keep asking. She's said she's happy albeit in a roundabout way you need to accept that and accept that you're good enough.

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By *D123Man
over a year ago

Kings Heath and Estepona


"I would have given the thread title a little more thought if I'd been you OP.

I was expecting a thread about how your GF used to be a man "

Must admit. That was my thought as well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me and my gf have a great relationship but she tends to tease me on the size of my willy. It's not small but not huge, about 6" and quite thick. She's had few partners in the past and does brag at times about some of the let's say larger guys. However she does say she is happy with mine and our relationship is great. But little voices in the back of my mind saying I think she would love to have bigger. I've asked outright if she does but she goes round houses saying happy with what we have but I don't get a straight answer. How on earth do I get overthinking out my head "

Not sure why she feels the need to tease you about it or brag about other guys. She sounds very insecure and is trying to put you down to make herself feel better about herself. You can't change your penis so if it was me I'd tell her if she doesn't like to to sling her hook!

Ruby

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By *ea_CoffeeCouple
over a year ago

Near Kettering

Being not well endowed myself I can understand why teasing you about your size would make you feel a little self conscious but is she really teasing you?

It sounds like she is trying to tell you she is happy with what you have together.

From my perspective I know im not huge, however when me and the wife have sex there is a mental connection and that knowledge of each other that allows us to have great sex. Now when she eventually has sex with a someone a litle larger im sure it will be great for her but I know at that point its only sex and he wont be able to do things for her I can do instinctively.

In short enjoy the physical variety swinging has offer and then enjoy the intimacy at home your relationship has to offer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actions speak louder then words... she's with you isn't she?

Is she wasn't happy... then she would be looking elsewhere.

Just have a word with her saying your previous had bigger boobs then her or a tighter Pussy.. and when she looks at you shocked.. just say.. "it's a joke.. but it still hurts doesn't it"

Hope she gets the message then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she tells you its all good, then you have to take her at her word. Keep asking the same question though, and I fear it will start to wear a bit thin. Equally though, if she does often comment on past partners and their size etc, that's not really what you need to be hearing if she already knows you have insecurities in that area.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Next time you're between her legs, licking her out, just shout Hello! And follow up with a comical Hello..hello...hello, like an echo, and say "Never got that with any of my previous girlfriends " and see what she says

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

It's pretty shitty of her to bring this up. Almost like she's trying to put you down to make up for some insecurity?

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By *ea_CoffeeCouple
over a year ago

Near Kettering


"Next time you're between her legs, licking her out, just shout Hello! And follow up with a comical Hello..hello...hello, like an echo, and say "Never got that with any of my previous girlfriends " and see what she says "

LMAO

I have done that as a joke to the wife. Its a good job my sense of humour is part of what she loves about me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps she'd be interested in swinging too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actions speak louder then words... she's with you isn't she?

Is she wasn't happy... then she would be looking elsewhere.

Just have a word with her saying your previous had bigger boobs then her or a tighter Pussy.. and when she looks at you shocked.. just say.. "it's a joke.. but it still hurts doesn't it"

Hope she gets the message then "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me and my gf have a great relationship but she tends to tease me on the size of my willy. It's not small but not huge, about 6" and quite thick. She's had few partners in the past and does brag at times about some of the let's say larger guys. However she does say she is happy with mine and our relationship is great. But little voices in the back of my mind saying I think she would love to have bigger. I've asked outright if she does but she goes round houses saying happy with what we have but I don't get a straight answer. How on earth do I get overthinking out my head "

Is this a cuckold relationship? Do you like her telling you about larger dicks??

If not she SHOULD NOT be "bragging" about the endowment of her previous partners. Thats a massive red flag and, if you feel so inclined, I would simply return the favor by bragging about the attributes of your own previous partners which she does not have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's weird she's talking about other cocks she has had to be honest

Unless that's your thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on the small side myself and when we meet guys my wife likes to have a bigger one it's not better it's just different that's all and after all swinging is after something different. If I was you just get on with your relationship and be happy that she wants you ......just my opinion

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Next time you're between her legs, licking her out, just shout Hello! And follow up with a comical Hello..hello...hello, like an echo, and say "Never got that with any of my previous girlfriends " and see what she says

LMAO

I have done that as a joke to the wife. Its a good job my sense of humour is part of what she loves about me.

"

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By *vpamelaTV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville

You can buy a sheath for your cock which will give your gf what she wants. Lots to choose from love honey

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By *nterracial2Couple
over a year ago

Ribble Valley


"I would have given the thread title a little more thought if I'd been you OP.

I was expecting a thread about how your GF used to be a man "

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does she mention cock size during sex as a type of talking dirty or fantasy? Or she might be unaware of the (presumably) negative effect it has on you, in which case she needs telling in no uncertain terms of the effect it has on you. It seems pretty mean if she is aware - but on the other hand she is with you so cock size isn't everything. You must be doing something right with what you have.

With my Devils Advocate hat on (its the red one with plastic horns and goggles) if it is taunting during the heat of the moment it might be she enjoys the thought of cucking you. Perhaps this is something you could discuss even if you have no intention of taking it further - the brain being the biggest sexual organ and all that.

I'm not so sure but I think this might be the first time I've said anything considered this year - makes me feel all grown up and everyfing.

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By *aul DeUther-OneMan
over a year ago

Sussex

If you're relationship with your girlfriend is really so great then you should feel no need of any outside reassurance.

PS Might you be just a little paranoid that your partner is going behind your back? After all, you're sort of cheating on her by advertising yourself as a single guy seeing what you can get up to. ..

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"I would have given the thread title a little more thought if I'd been you OP.

I was expecting a thread about how your GF used to be a man "

Well, atleast it has all been sorted out now

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By *r SelectiveMan
over a year ago

newcastle

Tell her she's got a fanny like a wizard sleeve mate n see what she says ....you are what you are don't let it bother you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does she mention cock size during sex as a type of talking dirty or fantasy? Or she might be unaware of the (presumably) negative effect it has on you, in which case she needs telling in no uncertain terms of the effect it has on you. It seems pretty mean if she is aware - but on the other hand she is with you so cock size isn't everything. You must be doing something right with what you have.

With my Devils Advocate hat on (its the red one with plastic horns and goggles) if it is taunting during the heat of the moment it might be she enjoys the thought of cucking you. Perhaps this is something you could discuss even if you have no intention of taking it further - the brain being the biggest sexual organ and all that.

I'm not so sure but I think this might be the first time I've said anything considered this year - makes me feel all grown up and everyfing."

This is a pretty good point actually

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I get what your saying there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If only. Talks about it but upset when keep bringing it up to move it on

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"If only. Talks about it but upset when keep bringing it up to move it on"

Use the Quote function

Personally I think it's really unkind of her and if it was the other way round people would be calling you and abusive bastard.

Have you told her that it upsets you?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

And now having looked at your profile maybe she does it because she knows that you don't really love her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And now having looked at your profile maybe she does it because she knows that you don't really love her?"

Like I said; perhaps she'd like to swing too

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By *ouble_The_DelightCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Next time you're between her legs, licking her out, just shout Hello! And follow up with a comical Hello..hello...hello, like an echo, and say "Never got that with any of my previous girlfriends " and see what she says

LMAO

I have done that as a joke to the wife. Its a good job my sense of humour is part of what she loves about me. "

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By *eadytoplay.Man
over a year ago

all over

Does she know that you are on here ??? Im sure u she can find bigger here if thats the case ....

Hope things work out

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By *andH83Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Does she know that you are on here ??? Im sure u she can find bigger here if thats the case ....

Hope things work out"

Point exactly , what's with all the single guy profiles who say they have a gf ?????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And now having looked at your profile maybe she does it because she knows that you don't really love her?"

What do you mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile says bi. Why don't you suggest a threesome with her .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she keeps on mentioning it then it's obviously on her mind a bit, maybe she is hungering after a bigger one

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By * SCARED x STIFF xCouple
over a year ago

west midlands


"Next time you're between her legs, licking her out, just shout Hello! And follow up with a comical Hello..hello...hello, like an echo, and say "Never got that with any of my previous girlfriends " and see what she says "

Hilarious

I doff my cap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me and my gf have a great relationship but she tends to tease me on the size of my willy. It's not small but not huge, about 6" and quite thick. She's had few partners in the past and does brag at times about some of the let's say larger guys. However she does say she is happy with mine and our relationship is great. But little voices in the back of my mind saying I think she would love to have bigger. I've asked outright if she does but she goes round houses saying happy with what we have but I don't get a straight answer. How on earth do I get overthinking out my head "

Tell her to fuck off and find a guy with a bigger dick!

If you don't, she will keep on bullying you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stick to anal only, she'll start appreciating it more!

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

If she comments on the small size of your organ, tell her it wasn’t designed for a cathedral.

(Take care of this joke, it's very old)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me and my gf have a great relationship but she tends to tease me on the size of my willy. It's not small but not huge, about 6" and quite thick. She's had few partners in the past and does brag at times about some of the let's say larger guys. However she does say she is happy with mine and our relationship is great. But little voices in the back of my mind saying I think she would love to have bigger. I've asked outright if she does but she goes round houses saying happy with what we have but I don't get a straight answer. How on earth do I get overthinking out my head

You need to stop asking her for confirmation that you're good enough. If her answers aren't changing there's no need to keep asking. She's said she's happy albeit in a roundabout way you need to accept that and accept that you're good enough."

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By *abcouple11Couple
over a year ago

Truro

Maybe accommodate her occasionally "doing" a guy with a large penis - let her wallow - then life will be complete for her. She is presumably happy with you, because she's there. Leave it that she hasn't any unfulfilled thoughts...???

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

If you're having great sex you must be doing something right... It's not down to the size but how you use what you got that counts..

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Me and my gf have a great relationship but she tends to tease me on the size of my willy. It's not small but not huge, about 6" and quite thick. She's had few partners in the past and does brag at times about some of the let's say larger guys. However she does say she is happy with mine and our relationship is great. But little voices in the back of my mind saying I think she would love to have bigger. I've asked outright if she does but she goes round houses saying happy with what we have but I don't get a straight answer. How on earth do I get overthinking out my head

Not sure why she feels the need to tease you about it or brag about other guys. She sounds very insecure and is trying to put you down to make herself feel better about herself. You can't change your penis so if it was me I'd tell her if she doesn't like to to sling her hook!

Ruby"

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I have to say, if I was into someone I wouldn't be talking about another guys cock unless it turned him on.

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By *mber GamblerCouple
over a year ago

rugby

When i read the bit about she brags about other mens big cocks. I thought. Dump her!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6''Is jus under average.

Anything less and you are classed as Penis-plaegic.

Luckily I'm 7.5 - 8" which is bang on.

Anything bigger is a waste and harder to get proper rock hard dick.

If asked if wanted more id homestly say no way

(Ok ffs id have 20" gnarly one sewn in, and wear nothing but Speedos and a hat)??

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By *aysmitMan
over a year ago

walsall


"I have to say, if I was into someone I wouldn't be talking about another guys cock unless it turned him on."

Totally agree xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would have given the thread title a little more thought if I'd been you OP.

I was expecting a thread about how your GF used to be a man "

Me too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think she's being unkind, maybe tell her if she wants a bigger Willy then fk off and find someone else. Then she will realise you don't like the constant references to other blokes cocks and will shut up. X

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By *razyhWoman
over a year ago

thorrington

You don't if the seed has already been.planted ..... she wants bigger

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By *razyhWoman
over a year ago

thorrington

For me the bigger the better

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By *ihimbiherCouple
over a year ago

lightwater

Just tell her your penis is the perfect size and fits in your hand perfectly...

It's her saggy pussy that is the problem.....pass the buck lol

Ps.....no offence intended about the saggyness lol

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By *ink magnolia s yorksWoman
over a year ago

south yorkshire

There's a lot more to a relationship than cock size and a lot more to sex than cock size. Women think very differently to men x

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