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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ladies in particular on this one. How do I make sure that I don't get tarnished with the same brush as some of the let's say "undesirables" on here?

What kind of first message really gets your attention?

I know a lot of it is down to physical attraction to but what can a guy do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just had a quick nosy. Your pics are good (nice legs btw), your profile to me looks fine, maybe include a bit more about what you like to give and receive. Your good looking so I'd say it's just going to be perseverance x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just had a quick nosy. Your pics are good (nice legs btw), your profile to me looks fine, maybe include a bit more about what you like to give and receive. Your good looking so I'd say it's just going to be perseverance x "

Thanks! What about things like first messages and stuff? Like what separates the best from the rest for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For first message I tend to open them if they're a bit quirky. I never open if it's a blank profile pic or cock pic, so that's not an issue for you. So again, I think it's going to perseverance x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's going to be difficult as there are so many people here, and everyone will look for somthing different.

Maybe make a reference to someone's pics or somthing in their profile so it shows you've actually looked x

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Looking like you do it's not your message that would grab my attention ...

Sorry my bad

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Looking like you do it's not your message that would grab my attention ...

Sorry my bad "

Haha thanks Scarlett! What in particular graves your attention then?

I was thinking the same about your profile!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's going to be difficult as there are so many people here, and everyone will look for somthing different.

Maybe make a reference to someone's pics or somthing in their profile so it shows you've actually looked x"

Thanks!! I guess it's perservaerance like you said! Hard being a single guy here aha

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Looking like you do it's not your message that would grab my attention ...

Sorry my bad

Haha thanks Scarlett! What in particular graves your attention then?

I was thinking the same about your profile! "

Have to say your legs are pretty damn fine !

But all your pics are great ... can't spot a bad one

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Ladies in particular on this one. How do I make sure that I don't get tarnished with the same brush as some of the let's say "undesirables" on here?

What kind of first message really gets your attention?

I know a lot of it is down to physical attraction to but what can a guy do? "

If you're not like the 'undesirables' it will be immediately obvious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, the less talk about sex in a first message the better.

Don't say something like "nice tits" either.

Something quite lighthearted and funny is good, or football. I always reply to a message about football

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Looking like you do it's not your message that would grab my attention ...

Sorry my bad

Haha thanks Scarlett! What in particular graves your attention then?

I was thinking the same about your profile!

Have to say your legs are pretty damn fine !

But all your pics are great ... can't spot a bad one "

Haha thanks! I grew them all by myself!! Must say I love the pink hair, hair like that doesn't suit many people but you pull it off very well! And of course the boobs

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Looking like you do it's not your message that would grab my attention ...

Sorry my bad

Haha thanks Scarlett! What in particular graves your attention then?

I was thinking the same about your profile!

Have to say your legs are pretty damn fine !

But all your pics are great ... can't spot a bad one

Haha thanks! I grew them all by myself!! Must say I love the pink hair, hair like that doesn't suit many people but you pull it off very well! And of course the boobs "

Thank you ... well I like big legs, legs like that don't suit many people but you pull them off well ... and of course the tatts too lmfao

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By *rMrs-Luv-ItCouple
over a year ago

cwmbranish

Good profile great pics good verifications you should do just fine

(Jo) x x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you ... well I like big legs, legs like that don't suit many people but you pull them off well ... and of course the tatts too lmfao

Well that's good news, my legs are 29 inches around aha! I've been told they look better in real though...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Good profile great pics good verifications you should do just fine

(Jo) x x"

You'd be suprised! Haha

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By *rMrs-Luv-ItCouple
over a year ago

cwmbranish

I cant see you going unnoticed for to long x x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Looking like you do it's not your message that would grab my attention ...

Sorry my bad

Haha thanks Scarlett! What in particular graves your attention then?

I was thinking the same about your profile!

Have to say your legs are pretty damn fine !

But all your pics are great ... can't spot a bad one

Haha thanks! I grew them all by myself!! Must say I love the pink hair, hair like that doesn't suit many people but you pull it off very well! And of course the boobs

Thank you ... well I like big legs, legs like that don't suit many people but you pull them off well ... and of course the tatts too lmfao "

Well that's good news, my legs are 29 inches around aha! I've been told they look better in real though...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I cant see you going unnoticed for to long x x"

I hope so! Messages tend to get lost in the huge amount people get on here

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Three veris this year already OP I'd say you're doing something right and probably don't need any further advice about your first messages that you've not been given already.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think you will be fine -

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Looking like you do it's not your message that would grab my attention ...

Sorry my bad

Haha thanks Scarlett! What in particular graves your attention then?

I was thinking the same about your profile!

Have to say your legs are pretty damn fine !

But all your pics are great ... can't spot a bad one

Haha thanks! I grew them all by myself!! Must say I love the pink hair, hair like that doesn't suit many people but you pull it off very well! And of course the boobs

Thank you ... well I like big legs, legs like that don't suit many people but you pull them off well ... and of course the tatts too lmfao

Well that's good news, my legs are 29 inches around aha! I've been told they look better in real though... "

Is that an offer for me to find out ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Looking like you do it's not your message that would grab my attention ...

Sorry my bad

Haha thanks Scarlett! What in particular graves your attention then?

I was thinking the same about your profile!

Have to say your legs are pretty damn fine !

But all your pics are great ... can't spot a bad one

Haha thanks! I grew them all by myself!! Must say I love the pink hair, hair like that doesn't suit many people but you pull it off very well! And of course the boobs

Thank you ... well I like big legs, legs like that don't suit many people but you pull them off well ... and of course the tatts too lmfao

Well that's good news, my legs are 29 inches around aha! I've been told they look better in real though...

Is that an offer for me to find out ? "

Would be rude not to let you check for yourself right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking like you do it's not your message that would grab my attention ...

Sorry my bad

Haha thanks Scarlett! What in particular graves your attention then?

I was thinking the same about your profile!

Have to say your legs are pretty damn fine !

But all your pics are great ... can't spot a bad one

Haha thanks! I grew them all by myself!! Must say I love the pink hair, hair like that doesn't suit many people but you pull it off very well! And of course the boobs

Thank you ... well I like big legs, legs like that don't suit many people but you pull them off well ... and of course the tatts too lmfao

Well that's good news, my legs are 29 inches around aha! I've been told they look better in real though...

Is that an offer for me to find out ?

Would be rude not to let you check for yourself right? "

Will you two get a room!

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Looking like you do it's not your message that would grab my attention ...

Sorry my bad

Haha thanks Scarlett! What in particular graves your attention then?

I was thinking the same about your profile!

Have to say your legs are pretty damn fine !

But all your pics are great ... can't spot a bad one

Haha thanks! I grew them all by myself!! Must say I love the pink hair, hair like that doesn't suit many people but you pull it off very well! And of course the boobs

Thank you ... well I like big legs, legs like that don't suit many people but you pull them off well ... and of course the tatts too lmfao

Well that's good news, my legs are 29 inches around aha! I've been told they look better in real though...

Is that an offer for me to find out ?

Would be rude not to let you check for yourself right?

Will you two get a room!

Ruby"

You should join us if we do ruby!

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