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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Now that we're over the beginners nerves we want to do some meets. However people on here let us do most of the talking and don't come up with ideas so we'd like some advice.

What is the best place that people have found for a first meet?

Have people found any really good ways to make meets really naughty and fun?

We want it to be something fun and exciting, that takes the edge off the nerves so things don't get awkward. We have ideas for a few naughty games to play and have looked into parties a bit. Basically we don't want to be sitting around like "right shall we go have sex then"? lol

Any advice will be greatly appreciated D and J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and my wife are looking for the same.....lol

Although we been members over a year they is a very different people with strange fantasies.... But were looking to hit it off shortly (although laura is pregnant due 17/04) she wants a surprise for her birthday...... With no limits...mmm

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

If we could do it all over again we would go to the vanilla alternative for our first meet. Takes away all the awkwardness and gives you loads to talk about and loads of options and the facility to play whenever you want.

Private meets, particularly with two newbie couples together can get awkward. Games are ok but I think they tend to work better when there's 3 or 4 couples playing rather than two new ones.

Worth a thought maybe....

It really is about clicking woth the right people and we've found that much more challenging online than face to face....

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

The other good reason for meeting in a club is that if you decide you don't want to play with the other couple it is much easier in a club to make your excuses and move on to somewhere else in the club rather than being somewhere with just the four of you and having to awkwardly say you want to leave now.

Sally

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"The other good reason for meeting in a club is that if you decide you don't want to play with the other couple it is much easier in a club to make your excuses and move on to somewhere else in the club rather than being somewhere with just the four of you and having to awkwardly say you want to leave now.

Sally"

True that xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've met in clubs and quite like to do so for the reasons mentioned above but we love to meet for a drink at a bar but then gonup to a hotel room. We do this with a couple we've met a few times now.

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