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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Usually I let the man do all the chasing but I am confused as to whether the same rules apply here?

How do you know if a man is interested in more than once or once a week?

Is there any etiquette to social rules when playing I should know about?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Hmmm, social etiquette on here is a tough one. You will get men messaging you (unless you filter them out) and you will then be able to choose the one that fits your requests. however if you want to make plans I find from personal experience you'll have to do the running. Most men just want to do sexy talk or exchange pics, and will request Kik quite early.

Like all good things, you have to persevere. A man who is only interested in sex talk or wanking will fall off your radar quite quickly, whereas a good guy will take time to get to know you. But really, you move at the rate you want to, and things should go OK.

As to whether they want repeat meets, I am afraid that comes with experience. Most of them won't, but if you make your wants clear then you might avoid the wannabes and dreamers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'm happy to approach guys I like on here but once I feel like I'm doing all the chasing I get bored! I usually ask how they like to play things should we get on over coffee. From that you can usually gage if they want a quick shag or something more regular.

It's fab, you're a woman therefore you can make your own rules up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

By coffee you mean at a cafe? Sorry if that is a silly question

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"By coffee you mean at a cafe? Sorry if that is a silly question "

Yes, I always have a social first. I have shares in Starbucks

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

A few words of a text message:

Do you want to come round?

Would usually let you know if he's interested, though if you start doing every night, you might as well leave your door open as that is what it'll turn into.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"How do you know if a man is interested in more than once or once a week?"

The only way you'll know this is if it happens

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"How do you know if a man is interested in more than once or once a week?

The only way you'll know this is if it happens "

Right. I still see my first ever meet occasionally and there are others who I wish I could see again.

But there are others I bump into at odd times. Mostly in a club.

I try to be laid back and go with the flow when it comes to making "swinging" friends.

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