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By *rNaughtyNick OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

What is deemed as too many verification's ??

The verification's I've received have been via cam as well as the handful of of actual meets I've had too.

My actual meets have been social / drinks as well as fun.

Curious to know if ladies / couples would be put off meeting due to the amount of verification's I've had ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is deemed as too many verification's ??

The verification's I've received have been via cam as well as the handful of of actual meets I've had too.

My actual meets have been social / drinks as well as fun.

Curious to know if ladies / couples would be put off meeting due to the amount of verification's I've had ?"
You will find Veri prejudice on here but I wouldn't worry you only have 6 meet. When you get say over 25 meet it starts to get different. Some couples or single fem want to feel special and don't wanna just be a name on a long list of others.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"What is deemed as too many verification's ??

The verification's I've received have been via cam as well as the handful of of actual meets I've had too.

My actual meets have been social / drinks as well as fun.

Curious to know if ladies / couples would be put off meeting due to the amount of verification's I've had ? You will find Veri prejudice on here but I wouldn't worry you only have 6 meet. When you get say over 25 meet it starts to get different. Some couples or single fem want to feel special and don't wanna just be a name on a long list of others. "

...and loads of men won't go anywhere near women with 'too many'.

The fact is, unless everyone is verified by everyone, every time they meet and they then publish every verification, you have no bloody idea how many people someone has shagged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you think someone has too many verifications,then perhaps swinging isn't suited to you.dating maybe a better option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is deemed as too many verification's ??

The verification's I've received have been via cam as well as the handful of of actual meets I've had too.

My actual meets have been social / drinks as well as fun.

Curious to know if ladies / couples would be put off meeting due to the amount of verification's I've had ? You will find Veri prejudice on here but I wouldn't worry you only have 6 meet. When you get say over 25 meet it starts to get different. Some couples or single fem want to feel special and don't wanna just be a name on a long list of others.

...and loads of men won't go anywhere near women with 'too many'.

The fact is, unless everyone is verified by everyone, every time they meet and they then publish every verification, you have no bloody idea how many people someone has shagged."
Yeah depends on who you have shagged as well. Prejudice because of jealousy or peoples preferences off putting. A lot of judgemental people in this swinging game.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been turned down by two or three couples because we have a few verifications but oh well never mind haha x

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

We have had more meets than veri's . We would rather see veri's on others profiles no matter how many as we do use them to get a feel if they are what we are looking for

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By *rNaughtyNick OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"You will find Veri prejudice on here but I wouldn't worry you only have 6 meet. When you get say over 25 meet it starts to get different. Some couples or single fem want to feel special and don't wanna just be a name on a long list of others. "

Sounds like there's prejudice for everything on here

Joking aside I guess its double edged sword as a very large percentage of women wont meet someone who' isn't verified let alone return a message.

So if your after that exclusive guy then its not gonna simply happen.

Its quite interesting and out of those 6 meets the ratio is more socials/drinks than sexy fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is deemed as too many verification's ??

The verification's I've received have been via cam as well as the handful of of actual meets I've had too.

My actual meets have been social / drinks as well as fun.

Curious to know if ladies / couples would be put off meeting due to the amount of verification's I've had ? You will find Veri prejudice on here but I wouldn't worry you only have 6 meet. When you get say over 25 meet it starts to get different. Some couples or single fem want to feel special and don't wanna just be a name on a long list of others.

...and loads of men won't go anywhere near women with 'too many'.

The fact is, unless everyone is verified by everyone, every time they meet and they then publish every verification, you have no bloody idea how many people someone has shagged."

Definitely! We've encountered way more people than we have veris, but I suppose our veris make us look rather innocent

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You will find Veri prejudice on here but I wouldn't worry you only have 6 meet. When you get say over 25 meet it starts to get different. Some couples or single fem want to feel special and don't wanna just be a name on a long list of others.

Sounds like there's prejudice for everything on here

Joking aside I guess its double edged sword as a very large percentage of women wont meet someone who' isn't verified let alone return a message.

So if your after that exclusive guy then its not gonna simply happen.

Its quite interesting and out of those 6 meets the ratio is more socials/drinks than sexy fun. "
Yeah if you get a lot as a man you are considered a player

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By *aptivatingWoman
over a year ago

Chester

As far as I am concerned the more the better, there are way too many time wasters and fantasists on this site. The more verifications someone has, the more I believe they are genuine people looking to actually meet and have fun.

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By *rNaughtyNick OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"If you think someone has too many verifications,then perhaps swinging isn't suited to you.dating maybe a better option "

I wouldn't judge someone or a couple on the amount of verification's they've had.

Mainly due to the fact there is large percentage that those verification's can be from social meets not purely from swinging.

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By *oandjohnCouple
over a year ago

South Wales, will travel to Hereford, Worcestershire and Shropshire

The number veries does not worry us as long as they are all positive

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By *ohnandLucyCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

We are confident in who we are. If we have too many verifications for some people so be it. We are not going to make excuses for how we are...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just smile knowingly when people assume I'm new to this and have only fucked 2 guys ever. Naive fools

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you think someone has too many verifications,then perhaps swinging isn't suited to you.dating maybe a better option "

Well said.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Op you've only got 3 now

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I have over 300 verifications, I just don't show them all. Does that make a difference to whether someone will meet me? Don't care - anyone who judges someone on here for meeting people is someone I don't want to meet.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Op you've only got 3 now "

Awww he doesn't want people to think he's a man-slut.

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By *onkeydickspartiesMan
over a year ago

SALISBURY Sat 20th MAY Mixed Erotic Party


"As far as I am concerned the more the better, there are way too many time wasters and fantasists on this site. The more verifications someone has, the more I believe they are genuine people looking to actually meet and have fun."

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By *rNaughtyNick OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Op you've only got 3 now

Awww he doesn't want people to think he's a man-slut. "

If you look at my actual verification's on the left rather than the ones under my profile.

As I said I've had quite a number of cam verification's and pointless displaying all of those alongside the meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were worried about meeting couples with loads when we first joined as we felt inexperienced. But we soon got over that fear

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Op you've only got 3 now

Awww he doesn't want people to think he's a man-slut.

If you look at my actual verification's on the left rather than the ones under my profile.

As I said I've had quite a number of cam verification's and pointless displaying all of those alongside the meets."

All verifications are there for one reason only; for someone to confirm that YOU are genuine, and who you say you are. Whether that is from a cam chat, a social meet, or a play date, it doesn't matter; you are real, happy days!

What is too many? Who knows? Either your inbox will be busy, or the cobwebs will set in. Don't try to second-guess anyone in here, we're all snowflakes; no two the same. Just do your own thing mate, you're off to a good start already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The actual number doesn't bother me, what might make me have second thoughts are the type of veris that have been left / displayed.

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By *rNaughtyNick OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"

All verifications are there for one reason only; for someone to confirm that YOU are genuine, and who you say you are. Whether that is from a cam chat, a social meet, or a play date, it doesn't matter; you are real, happy days!

"

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have met peeps with loads and met peeps with none xx

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

Im suprised they read the profilesto see how many verications the amount of times we have had messages and they haven't read them lol

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By *rNaughtyNick OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Im suprised they read the profiles to see how many verications the amount of times we have had messages and they haven't read them lol"

Who reads profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im suprised they read the profiles to see how many verications the amount of times we have had messages and they haven't read them lol

Who reads profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have over 300 verifications, I just don't show them all. Does that make a difference to whether someone will meet me? Don't care - anyone who judges someone on here for meeting people is someone I don't want to meet."

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im suprised they read the profiles to see how many verications the amount of times we have had messages and they haven't read them lol

Who reads profiles

"
I do... My hubby rarely does though x

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By *egin551Couple
over a year ago

south west !

We have a few, if people dont like us, then move on, we are not worried about the amount of veris, its what they say that matters.

You can have 3 or 300 it just does not matter.

We are all here to have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have a few, if people dont like us, then move on, we are not worried about the amount of veris, its what they say that matters.

You can have 3 or 300 it just does not matter.

We are all here to have fun. "

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"If you think someone has too many verifications,then perhaps swinging isn't suited to you.dating maybe a better option "

don't see a problem personally

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Im suprised they read the profilesto see how many verications the amount of times we have had messages and they haven't read them lol"

You're not kidding; I've been chatting to a woman over the last four days, and last night she asked me if I was single

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton


"Im suprised they read the profilesto see how many verications the amount of times we have had messages and they haven't read them lol

You're not kidding; I've been chatting to a woman over the last four days, and last night she asked me if I was single "

That's because a lot say they are and then reveal they are not ? So a genuine question but maybe she didn't read your profile lol

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Im suprised they read the profilesto see how many verications the amount of times we have had messages and they haven't read them lol

You're not kidding; I've been chatting to a woman over the last four days, and last night she asked me if I was single

That's because a lot say they are and then reveal they are not ? So a genuine question but maybe she didn't read your profile lol"

No, if she had read my profile, she wouldn't have asked me whether I was single, as I make it as clear as I possibly can that I am not, and even put it on the first line of my text so they can't use the excuse of 'got bored reading through it, sorry'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To some a few veris are too many , and to others it doesn't matter how many you have . We truly don't care whether people think we have too many or not . If those who think we meet too many people don't want to meet us , it's a good thing as we certainly wouldn't want to meet them . And we only veri play meets , well , we only do play meets so social veris aren't an option for us !

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By *iverpool 2Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool

We have over 30 veris, a few are multiple veris from friends that have left the site and the re verified us, others are social veris rather than play veris.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To some a few veris are too many , and to others it doesn't matter how many you have . We truly don't care whether people think we have too many or not . If those who think we meet too many people don't want to meet us , it's a good thing as we certainly wouldn't want to meet them . And we only veri play meets , well , we only do play meets so social veris aren't an option for us !

"
ohhhh welcome back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently I have too many...never for prospective playmates....but if they show a veri from me it can stop them getting a playmate as I have too many veris for the local females that make ridiculous assumptions about me because of them...same as everyone else tho...some are play, some social, more than one from some people, some redone on new accounts blah blah blah.... I am fine with what I have and do get up to...if others aren't, that is their problem not mine so try not to worry about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is deemed as too many verification's ??

The verification's I've received have been via cam as well as the handful of of actual meets I've had too.

My actual meets have been social / drinks as well as fun.

Curious to know if ladies / couples would be put off meeting due to the amount of verification's I've had ?"

This question pops up so often!

It's a swinging site

If a fella doesn't want to meet me because I have too many veri's I wouldn't be in the least bit bothered xx

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

I read them and my hubby does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To some a few veris are too many , and to others it doesn't matter how many you have . We truly don't care whether people think we have too many or not . If those who think we meet too many people don't want to meet us , it's a good thing as we certainly wouldn't want to meet them . And we only veri play meets , well , we only do play meets so social veris aren't an option for us !

ohhhh welcome back "

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is deemed as too many verification's ??

The verification's I've received have been via cam as well as the handful of of actual meets I've had too.

My actual meets have been social / drinks as well as fun.

Curious to know if ladies / couples would be put off meeting due to the amount of verification's I've had ?"

We don't have or give graphic verifications, we keep them polite. We wouldn't be put off by the quantity of verifications but we might be put off if someone publishes poor quality verifications. That said we often meet someone at a club and play before finding out their fab name so veris are not even looked at until later. We often find it easier to interact face to face - attraction/personality/sexy conversation....it all flows more naturally face to face, m x

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I don't get this mentality at all, its a swinging site after all... I show my veri's proudly- at least it shows i'm not a timewaster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dammed if you do, Dammed if you don't. So fuck it, go with the flow

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea


"What is deemed as too many verification's ??

The verification's I've received have been via cam as well as the handful of of actual meets I've had too.

My actual meets have been social / drinks as well as fun.

Curious to know if ladies / couples would be put off meeting due to the amount of verification's I've had ?"

How long is a piece of string ? I haven't found anyone put off by my veri's yet...I hope lol.

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By *he Hobbit And MeCouple
over a year ago

southampton

We have a few veri`s but it does not mean we are in thick of it all the time, You have to read the veri`s for what they are and it builds up a picture of what that person is like under the sheets

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By *ouble_The_DelightCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We are not put off by the amount of verifications that people have and people do not seem to be put off by the amount we have on ours.

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By *hloversCouple
over a year ago

Merseyside & Isle of Man


"We are not put off by the amount of verifications that people have and people do not seem to be put off by the amount we have on ours."

We are so pleased to hear that!!!! x

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By *at1sevCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

It wouldn't put me off . I will actually read them and if they have more experience than us, maybe they could teach us something haha.

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

We have played with way more people than we have veri's, they're nice mementoes of meets in a way and show we are real and do meet. Don't judge others on how many or how few they have, everyone on their own merits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When someone has a veri for literally every day they have been on fab it would put me off. But again it's up to the individual. People can choose who they want to meet or not based on whatever reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When someone has a veri for literally every day they have been on fab it would put me off. But again it's up to the individual. People can choose who they want to meet or not based on whatever reasons. "

I agree. I use verifications as a filter. Too few, too many, one from someone I don't like for whatever reason. Everyone uses the site their own way and that's fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't give a tiny rats ass how many someone has . I find it very strange that people on a swinging site still judge others for the number of people they have slept with

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you think someone has too many verifications,then perhaps swinging isn't suited to you.dating maybe a better option "

Fully agree.

More verifications to us means that that person or couple has been doing what swingers do, go out and meet.

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

This is a swinging site. We are proud of our 87 verifications. People so often talk about timewasters and no genuine people. Hopefully our verifications show we are a real couple who enjoy sex.

Sally

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By *eal Deal PartiesWoman
over a year ago

x

Same here... I'm proud to have the verification I have... I got told the other day that I'm a fake!! Really with over 200 veris... haha!!

Happy swinging everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But people do judge. And I'm not a swinger and I'm not looking for a swinger. There's no law to say I have to be a swinger or be looking for a swinger to be using the site, so if I choose to turn someone down, for WHATEVER reason, that's up to me. If it happens to be that they have 'too many' verifications then that's my call. Just as it is for absolutely anyone who uses the site.

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Only a few days ago girl said she was "weary" of me because of the amount of veri's I have.

I must say for the ones I have not all are from play meets, some are just from friends I have meet in clubs, on the other hand I have meet many more people than what I have veir's for as some people just don't veri me at all, for many ridiculous reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only a few days ago girl said she was "weary" of me because of the amount of veri's I have.

I must say for the ones I have not all are from play meets, some are just from friends I have meet in clubs, on the other hand I have meet many more people than what I have veir's for as some people just don't veri me at all, for many ridiculous reasons. "

I ( Mrs ) am on here to have hot sex , whether that be a mmf or one to one . You are hot therefore I'd want to have sex with you . I really don't get how the amount of people you've had sex with before would come into that (unless it was 0)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is deemed as too many verification's ??

The verification's I've received have been via cam as well as the handful of of actual meets I've had too.

My actual meets have been social / drinks as well as fun.

Curious to know if ladies / couples would be put off meeting due to the amount of verification's I've had ?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is deemed as too many verification's ??

The verification's I've received have been via cam as well as the handful of of actual meets I've had too.

My actual meets have been social / drinks as well as fun.

Curious to know if ladies / couples would be put off meeting due to the amount of verification's I've had ?"

The question is a bit irrelevant as most people hide their veri count and only display a few.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is deemed as too many verification's ??

The verification's I've received have been via cam as well as the handful of of actual meets I've had too.

My actual meets have been social / drinks as well as fun.

Curious to know if ladies / couples would be put off meeting due to the amount of verification's I've had ? You will find Veri prejudice on here but I wouldn't worry you only have 6 meet. When you get say over 25 meet it starts to get different. Some couples or single fem want to feel special and don't wanna just be a name on a long list of others.

...and loads of men won't go anywhere near women with 'too many'.

The fact is, unless everyone is verified by everyone, every time they meet and they then publish every verification, you have no bloody idea how many people someone has shagged. Yeah depends on who you have shagged as well. Prejudice because of jealousy or peoples preferences off putting. A lot of judgemental people in this swinging game."

Judgemental on here.....never been known.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you think someone has too many verifications,then perhaps swinging isn't suited to you.dating maybe a better option

Fully agree.

More verifications to us means that that person or couple has been doing what swingers do, go out and meet."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is deemed as too many verification's ??

The verification's I've received have been via cam as well as the handful of of actual meets I've had too.

My actual meets have been social / drinks as well as fun.

Curious to know if ladies / couples would be put off meeting due to the amount of verification's I've had ?"

Your summary shows you've only met six times in a couple of years. I'd say you need to pick up the pace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is deemed as too many verification's ??

The verification's I've received have been via cam as well as the handful of of actual meets I've had too.

My actual meets have been social / drinks as well as fun.

Curious to know if ladies / couples would be put off meeting due to the amount of verification's I've had ?

Your summary shows you've only met six times in a couple of years. I'd say you need to pick up the pace "

Correction; in a year. Go you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just hide the profile summary and show select veris

If you want to meet someone and they demand to see all veris and/or the summary simply advise they aren't for you

The demands on other peoples privacy on sites like this can be stifling and often you are expected to lay your soul bare whilst they refuse to give an ounce of their own.

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town


"What is deemed as too many verification's ??

The verification's I've received have been via cam as well as the handful of of actual meets I've had too.

My actual meets have been social / drinks as well as fun.

Curious to know if ladies / couples would be put off meeting due to the amount of verification's I've had ?"

Yes I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is deemed as too many verification's ??

The verification's I've received have been via cam as well as the handful of of actual meets I've had too.

My actual meets have been social / drinks as well as fun.

Curious to know if ladies / couples would be put off meeting due to the amount of verification's I've had ?

Yes I would "

Why? He's only been meeting once every couple of months.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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No, I wouldn't be. I don't put too much inportance on veris unless it's someone who has been fucking in a way I don't want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

I have been put off by verifications before, but that's not a quantity thing, unless it appears they have nothing else going on in their life apart from meeting for sex, in which case they'd be unlikely to interest me.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

How can you tell how many veries someone has actually had?

We show all of ours, but someone could have been veried 30 times, 50 times, maybe a hundred times, and just show one or two, so you will never know the real number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But people do judge. And I'm not a swinger and I'm not looking for a swinger. There's no law to say I have to be a swinger or be looking for a swinger to be using the site, so if I choose to turn someone down, for WHATEVER reason, that's up to me. If it happens to be that they have 'too many' verifications then that's my call. Just as it is for absolutely anyone who uses the site. "

We agree with some of what you say but the clues in the name FABSWINGERS, not Facebook not twitter not find me a boyfriend .com it's FABSWINGERS !

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town


"What is deemed as too many verification's ??

The verification's I've received have been via cam as well as the handful of of actual meets I've had too.

My actual meets have been social / drinks as well as fun.

Curious to know if ladies / couples would be put off meeting due to the amount of verification's I've had ?

Yes I would

Why? He's only been meeting once every couple of months."

How to you know?

Been Perving at my profile again.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"But people do judge. And I'm not a swinger and I'm not looking for a swinger. There's no law to say I have to be a swinger or be looking for a swinger to be using the site, so if I choose to turn someone down, for WHATEVER reason, that's up to me. If it happens to be that they have 'too many' verifications then that's my call. Just as it is for absolutely anyone who uses the site. "

That's very true, but would you tell them they have too many verifications? Because that would be a really weird reason to turn people down on a site geared towards meeting people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is deemed as too many verification's ??

The verification's I've received have been via cam as well as the handful of of actual meets I've had too.

My actual meets have been social / drinks as well as fun.

Curious to know if ladies / couples would be put off meeting due to the amount of verification's I've had ?

The question is a bit irrelevant as most people hide their veri count and only display a few. "

This is the truth of the matter , especially for the more savvy amongst us . It may well be that we say we don't care how many veris anyone else has , or that we wouldn't want to meet the people who feel that a certain amount is too many , but if the chances of meeting are lessened by showing too many , then why show them all ?

The best bet is to show a couple of recent ones , and maybe a couple of really good ones , and don't show the summary . Then it's a win win situation .

No one should feel like they are being vetted before a meet , surely it's about the fun isn't it ?

When we used to visit clubs we played with many a profile which stated quality over quantity , or just looking for a select few etc..... Yet when the said people realised how many veris we had , or how often we met , they would be mortified ! Never mind that we all had a great time , and that the very essence of the lifestyle was enjoyed . Some would ask us not to veri them , yet would always ask if we could meet again !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can you tell how many veries someone has actually had?

We show all of ours, but someone could have been veried 30 times, 50 times, maybe a hundred times, and just show one or two, so you will never know the real number."

I don't show any of mine, people just have to decide for themselves if I'm worth meeting

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"No.

I have been put off by verifications before, but that's not a quantity thing, unless it appears they have nothing else going on in their life apart from meeting for sex, in which case they'd be unlikely to interest me."

Pretty much this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No.

I have been put off by verifications before, but that's not a quantity thing, unless it appears they have nothing else going on in their life apart from meeting for sex, in which case they'd be unlikely to interest me.

Pretty much this.

"

This is interesting .....

What would make you think they had nothing else going on in their life apart from meeting for sex ?

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

We always look for verification's not only how genuine the guy or couple is but also that there profile is active not meeting anyone for over 6 months alarm bells sound so more the better for us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But people do judge. And I'm not a swinger and I'm not looking for a swinger. There's no law to say I have to be a swinger or be looking for a swinger to be using the site, so if I choose to turn someone down, for WHATEVER reason, that's up to me. If it happens to be that they have 'too many' verifications then that's my call. Just as it is for absolutely anyone who uses the site.

We agree with some of what you say but the clues in the name FABSWINGERS, not Facebook not twitter not find me a boyfriend .com it's FABSWINGERS ! "

Yeah...and you find cuckolds every day on facebook and twitter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't think there is such a thing. Don't forget to take in to account some of the verification may be from social meets. Some may be multiple verifications from regular meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No.

I have been put off by verifications before, but that's not a quantity thing, unless it appears they have nothing else going on in their life apart from meeting for sex, in which case they'd be unlikely to interest me.

Pretty much this.

This is interesting .....

What would make you think they had nothing else going on in their life apart from meeting for sex ?"

They were on "meet today" for all day every day and had verifications from every night of the week. Maybe a harsh judgement on my part but it put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But people do judge. And I'm not a swinger and I'm not looking for a swinger. There's no law to say I have to be a swinger or be looking for a swinger to be using the site, so if I choose to turn someone down, for WHATEVER reason, that's up to me. If it happens to be that they have 'too many' verifications then that's my call. Just as it is for absolutely anyone who uses the site.

That's very true, but would you tell them they have too many verifications? Because that would be a really weird reason to turn people down on a site geared towards meeting people."

I'd probably just send a 'no thanks' delete and block.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"No.

I have been put off by verifications before, but that's not a quantity thing, unless it appears they have nothing else going on in their life apart from meeting for sex, in which case they'd be unlikely to interest me.

Pretty much this.

This is interesting .....

What would make you think they had nothing else going on in their life apart from meeting for sex ?"

There have been some that every day have a meet up, status begging to have their balls drained, write they get bored/frustrated if they don't fuck everyday, everything they post about Fab related etc...absolutely nothing wrong with that, horses for courses.

Even for casual sex, as I meet socially first I prefer someone who can hold a conversation and engage me. If you only have one topic of conversation and your life evolves around Fab we won't be compatible.

I'm not looking for a partner, I have one.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"No.

I have been put off by verifications before, but that's not a quantity thing, unless it appears they have nothing else going on in their life apart from meeting for sex, in which case they'd be unlikely to interest me.

Pretty much this.

This is interesting .....

What would make you think they had nothing else going on in their life apart from meeting for sex ?

They were on "meet today" for all day every day and had verifications from every night of the week. Maybe a harsh judgement on my part but it put me off."

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town


"But people do judge. And I'm not a swinger and I'm not looking for a swinger. There's no law to say I have to be a swinger or be looking for a swinger to be using the site, so if I choose to turn someone down, for WHATEVER reason, that's up to me. If it happens to be that they have 'too many' verifications then that's my call. Just as it is for absolutely anyone who uses the site.

We agree with some of what you say but the clues in the name FABSWINGERS, not Facebook not twitter not find me a boyfriend .com it's FABSWINGERS ! "

FABSWINGERS IS JUST A LABEL!

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town


"No.

I have been put off by verifications before, but that's not a quantity thing, unless it appears they have nothing else going on in their life apart from meeting for sex, in which case they'd be unlikely to interest me.

Pretty much this.

This is interesting .....

What would make you think they had nothing else going on in their life apart from meeting for sex ?

They were on "meet today" for all day every day and had verifications from every night of the week. Maybe a harsh judgement on my part but it put me off.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No.

I have been put off by verifications before, but that's not a quantity thing, unless it appears they have nothing else going on in their life apart from meeting for sex, in which case they'd be unlikely to interest me.

Pretty much this.

This is interesting .....

What would make you think they had nothing else going on in their life apart from meeting for sex ?

They were on "meet today" for all day every day and had verifications from every night of the week. Maybe a harsh judgement on my part but it put me off."

That's not harsh , it's a very fair assessment .

It may put us off too

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"The number veries does not worry us as long as they are all positive"

Haven't seen too many negative ones...

OP..yeah it may put off one or two but a simple solution is to not display verification summary..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No.

I have been put off by verifications before, but that's not a quantity thing, unless it appears they have nothing else going on in their life apart from meeting for sex, in which case they'd be unlikely to interest me.

Pretty much this.

This is interesting .....

What would make you think they had nothing else going on in their life apart from meeting for sex ?

There have been some that every day have a meet up, status begging to have their balls drained, write they get bored/frustrated if they don't fuck everyday, everything they post about Fab related etc...absolutely nothing wrong with that, horses for courses.

Even for casual sex, as I meet socially first I prefer someone who can hold a conversation and engage me. If you only have one topic of conversation and your life evolves around Fab we won't be compatible.

I'm not looking for a partner, I have one. "

Again , a good and reasoned response .

If you prefer a social meet first , this type of person wouldn't be likely to respect that , and as you say wouldn't be a good match .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is deemed as too many verification's ??

The verification's I've received have been via cam as well as the handful of of actual meets I've had too.

My actual meets have been social / drinks as well as fun.

Curious to know if ladies / couples would be put off meeting due to the amount of verification's I've had ? You will find Veri prejudice on here but I wouldn't worry you only have 6 meet. When you get say over 25 meet it starts to get different. Some couples or single fem want to feel special and don't wanna just be a name on a long list of others. "

Couples and single fens are much more likely to have a long list than a single bloke would.

But, as others have said, the verifications displayed may be a very small part of the whole story!

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

A lot of people seem to miss the whole "this is a site full of swingers" thing. By definition swingers meet people ( sometimes lots of them ) . Veries can come from 'big' social party's , or repeatedly meeting the same people or person . So having lots of verifications doesn't mean they've played with them all .

But if they have , so what ! It's a swingers site after all .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The number veries does not worry us as long as they are all positive"

They will be because no one would show a negative one.

I do think show all mine or my verification summary due to the numbers. We're fab let's us members down is it doesn't say how long you've been a member 6 years for me or which meets are social meets, or club meets where you may not have played etc etc.

Only last night I had a troll giving me grief about the number of veris I've got showing. If only you knew the truth lad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of people seem to miss the whole "this is a site full of swingers" thing. By definition swingers meet people ( sometimes lots of them ) . Veries can come from 'big' social party's , or repeatedly meeting the same people or person . So having lots of verifications doesn't mean they've played with them all .

But if they have , so what ! It's a swingers site after all . "

I agree with the 'so what' because everyone is entitled to live their lives as they wish to. But that doesn't mean that it won't be used as a filter for some people.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"A lot of people seem to miss the whole "this is a site full of swingers" thing. By definition swingers meet people ( sometimes lots of them ) . Veries can come from 'big' social party's , or repeatedly meeting the same people or person . So having lots of verifications doesn't mean they've played with them all .

But if they have , so what ! It's a swingers site after all .

I agree with the 'so what' because everyone is entitled to live their lives as they wish to. But that doesn't mean that it won't be used as a filter for some people. "

Sad but true! That is of course their choice and in many cases their loss. Having said that maybe there should be parameters in place to give more detail in the veries . Ie. Socials / party's or repeat meets. If only to help those too quick to judge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is deemed as too many verification's ??

The verification's I've received have been via cam as well as the handful of of actual meets I've had too.

My actual meets have been social / drinks as well as fun.

Curious to know if ladies / couples would be put off meeting due to the amount of verification's I've had ?

Yes I would

Why? He's only been meeting once every couple of months.

How to you know?

Been Perving at my profile again. "

Lol. I peeked to see you meet twice as often. Promise I wasn't perving; I only perve the men's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But people do judge. And I'm not a swinger and I'm not looking for a swinger. There's no law to say I have to be a swinger or be looking for a swinger to be using the site, so if I choose to turn someone down, for WHATEVER reason, that's up to me. If it happens to be that they have 'too many' verifications then that's my call. Just as it is for absolutely anyone who uses the site.

We agree with some of what you say but the clues in the name FABSWINGERS, not Facebook not twitter not find me a boyfriend .com it's FABSWINGERS !

Yeah...and you find cuckolds every day on facebook and twitter. "

Your profile states your not attracted to cocks but are to faces, well I think you'll find more faces and less cocks on either of the for mentioned sites as opposed to a SWINGING site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The number veries does not worry us as long as they are all positive"

This for us too! M z

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By *uthTVDerbysTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

19 is the exact official cut off point for verification overload. And 20 on a leap year. However if the meeter was a bit half interested this counts as 0.5 of a veri. And if the meeting was more than expected this counts as 1.5 verifications. Cheers

(PS: The above information is complete untrue-please carry on as you were, thanks)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But people do judge. And I'm not a swinger and I'm not looking for a swinger. There's no law to say I have to be a swinger or be looking for a swinger to be using the site, so if I choose to turn someone down, for WHATEVER reason, that's up to me. If it happens to be that they have 'too many' verifications then that's my call. Just as it is for absolutely anyone who uses the site.

We agree with some of what you say but the clues in the name FABSWINGERS, not Facebook not twitter not find me a boyfriend .com it's FABSWINGERS !

Yeah...and you find cuckolds every day on facebook and twitter.

Your profile states your not attracted to cocks but are to faces, well I think you'll find more faces and less cocks on either of the for mentioned sites as opposed to a SWINGING site."

So someone has to class themselves as a swingers to use this site? I've seen many people in different threads state this is a sex site people are here for sex. I'm sure you don't have to class yourself as a swingers just to use the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No.

I have been put off by verifications before, but that's not a quantity thing, unless it appears they have nothing else going on in their life apart from meeting for sex, in which case they'd be unlikely to interest me."

I agree someone can have many veris from people they have met socially etc. But when someone has a different veri sometimes 2 a day go up for pretty much the whole length of time they have been on fab with very intimate details of how they suck like a Dyson. Kinda makes me think they don't have much going on apart from sex and meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is deemed as too many verification's ??

The verification's I've received have been via cam as well as the handful of of actual meets I've had too.

My actual meets have been social / drinks as well as fun.

Curious to know if ladies / couples would be put off meeting due to the amount of verification's I've had ?"

We have had people say we've had too many meets in such a short time.

But we've only had two play meets, the rest are from clubs when we have chatted to people.

But I still sleep pretty good so..

Adam.

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"We have had more meets than veri's . We would rather see veri's on others profiles no matter how many as we do use them to get a feel if they are what we are looking for "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No.

I have been put off by verifications before, but that's not a quantity thing, unless it appears they have nothing else going on in their life apart from meeting for sex, in which case they'd be unlikely to interest me.

I agree someone can have many veris from people they have met socially etc. But when someone has a different veri sometimes 2 a day go up for pretty much the whole length of time they have been on fab with very intimate details of how they suck like a Dyson. Kinda makes me think they don't have much going on apart from sex and meets "

Imagine that,a swinger,on a site to meet swingers,having too much sex....

Don't they realise this site is just to talk about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No.

I have been put off by verifications before, but that's not a quantity thing, unless it appears they have nothing else going on in their life apart from meeting for sex, in which case they'd be unlikely to interest me.

I agree someone can have many veris from people they have met socially etc. But when someone has a different veri sometimes 2 a day go up for pretty much the whole length of time they have been on fab with very intimate details of how they suck like a Dyson. Kinda makes me think they don't have much going on apart from sex and meets

Imagine that,a swinger,on a site to meet swingers,having too much sex....

Don't they realise this site is just to talk about it?

"

It actually is for some , and they will say so too .

And then we will see the phrases like each to their own , we can use the site as we want to , there's no rule book that says we have to meet , etc.....come out .

Part and parcel of any forum I guess .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No.

I have been put off by verifications before, but that's not a quantity thing, unless it appears they have nothing else going on in their life apart from meeting for sex, in which case they'd be unlikely to interest me.

I agree someone can have many veris from people they have met socially etc. But when someone has a different veri sometimes 2 a day go up for pretty much the whole length of time they have been on fab with very intimate details of how they suck like a Dyson. Kinda makes me think they don't have much going on apart from sex and meets

Imagine that,a swinger,on a site to meet swingers,having too much sex....

Don't they realise this site is just to talk about it?

"

I'm on this site to meet people to have sex with. But if people are literally just spending all their time trying to meet all day every day, with no evidence of having a job or any kind of interests whatsoever? Hell yeah that's a turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No.

I have been put off by verifications before, but that's not a quantity thing, unless it appears they have nothing else going on in their life apart from meeting for sex, in which case they'd be unlikely to interest me.

I agree someone can have many veris from people they have met socially etc. But when someone has a different veri sometimes 2 a day go up for pretty much the whole length of time they have been on fab with very intimate details of how they suck like a Dyson. Kinda makes me think they don't have much going on apart from sex and meets

Imagine that,a swinger,on a site to meet swingers,having too much sex....

Don't they realise this site is just to talk about it?

I'm on this site to meet people to have sex with. But if people are literally just spending all their time trying to meet all day every day, with no evidence of having a job or any kind of interests whatsoever? Hell yeah that's a turn off. "

C'mon folks,no using your phones at work.

And if you have to post a meet,please give your occupation,hours of work,and if needed a run down of your income and expenditure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No.

I have been put off by verifications before, but that's not a quantity thing, unless it appears they have nothing else going on in their life apart from meeting for sex, in which case they'd be unlikely to interest me.

I agree someone can have many veris from people they have met socially etc. But when someone has a different veri sometimes 2 a day go up for pretty much the whole length of time they have been on fab with very intimate details of how they suck like a Dyson. Kinda makes me think they don't have much going on apart from sex and meets

Imagine that,a swinger,on a site to meet swingers,having too much sex....

Don't they realise this site is just to talk about it?

I'm on this site to meet people to have sex with. But if people are literally just spending all their time trying to meet all day every day, with no evidence of having a job or any kind of interests whatsoever? Hell yeah that's a turn off.

C'mon folks,no using your phones at work.

And if you have to post a meet,please give your occupation,hours of work,and if needed a run down of your income and expenditure "

I don't expect you to agree, I'm just giving a view to the question that's been asked, alright with you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But people do judge. And I'm not a swinger and I'm not looking for a swinger. There's no law to say I have to be a swinger or be looking for a swinger to be using the site, so if I choose to turn someone down, for WHATEVER reason, that's up to me. If it happens to be that they have 'too many' verifications then that's my call. Just as it is for absolutely anyone who uses the site.

We agree with some of what you say but the clues in the name FABSWINGERS, not Facebook not twitter not find me a boyfriend .com it's FABSWINGERS !

Yeah...and you find cuckolds every day on facebook and twitter.

Your profile states your not attracted to cocks but are to faces, well I think you'll find more faces and less cocks on either of the for mentioned sites as opposed to a SWINGING site.

So someone has to class themselves as a swingers to use this site? I've seen many people in different threads state this is a sex site people are here for sex. I'm sure you don't have to class yourself as a swingers just to use the site. "

You certainly don't have to be a swinger to use the site but that what is was developed to be used for initially.

As you rightly point out it's now full of none swingers like yourself using it for other interests . Getting back to the op question about varifications at least by having them however many one may have, at least you can get an idea of who's here and for what .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't have that many really... I've been put off before but they have had 100+

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But people do judge. And I'm not a swinger and I'm not looking for a swinger. There's no law to say I have to be a swinger or be looking for a swinger to be using the site, so if I choose to turn someone down, for WHATEVER reason, that's up to me. If it happens to be that they have 'too many' verifications then that's my call. Just as it is for absolutely anyone who uses the site.

We agree with some of what you say but the clues in the name FABSWINGERS, not Facebook not twitter not find me a boyfriend .com it's FABSWINGERS !

Yeah...and you find cuckolds every day on facebook and twitter.

Your profile states your not attracted to cocks but are to faces, well I think you'll find more faces and less cocks on either of the for mentioned sites as opposed to a SWINGING site.

So someone has to class themselves as a swingers to use this site? I've seen many people in different threads state this is a sex site people are here for sex. I'm sure you don't have to class yourself as a swingers just to use the site.

You certainly don't have to be a swinger to use the site but that what is was developed to be used for initially.

As you rightly point out it's now full of none swingers like yourself using it for other interests . Getting back to the op question about varifications at least by having them however many one may have, at least you can get an idea of who's here and for what ."

Just because I dont want to put a label on myself? I'm a member of a swingers club I go regularly and I meet people for sex. However I'm also a member of the gym but im still fat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But people do judge. And I'm not a swinger and I'm not looking for a swinger. There's no law to say I have to be a swinger or be looking for a swinger to be using the site, so if I choose to turn someone down, for WHATEVER reason, that's up to me. If it happens to be that they have 'too many' verifications then that's my call. Just as it is for absolutely anyone who uses the site.

We agree with some of what you say but the clues in the name FABSWINGERS, not Facebook not twitter not find me a boyfriend .com it's FABSWINGERS !

Yeah...and you find cuckolds every day on facebook and twitter.

Your profile states your not attracted to cocks but are to faces, well I think you'll find more faces and less cocks on either of the for mentioned sites as opposed to a SWINGING site."

Oh ok. So swingers are only attracted to genitalia. Got it.

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By *appysunflowerWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"But people do judge. And I'm not a swinger and I'm not looking for a swinger. There's no law to say I have to be a swinger or be looking for a swinger to be using the site, so if I choose to turn someone down, for WHATEVER reason, that's up to me. If it happens to be that they have 'too many' verifications then that's my call. Just as it is for absolutely anyone who uses the site.

We agree with some of what you say but the clues in the name FABSWINGERS, not Facebook not twitter not find me a boyfriend .com it's FABSWINGERS !

Yeah...and you find cuckolds every day on facebook and twitter.

Your profile states your not attracted to cocks but are to faces, well I think you'll find more faces and less cocks on either of the for mentioned sites as opposed to a SWINGING site.

Oh ok. So swingers are only attracted to genitalia. Got it. "

chuffing love it lady!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is deemed as too many verification's ??

The verification's I've received have been via cam as well as the handful of of actual meets I've had too.

My actual meets have been social / drinks as well as fun.

Curious to know if ladies / couples would be put off meeting due to the amount of verification's I've had ?

Your summary shows you've only met six times in a couple of years. I'd say you need to pick up the pace "

We are often out but normally with the same crowd so we are not that bothered about veris as some people are. If we were in a club and met a newbie we wouldn't shy away if the aptitude to play was there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is deemed as too many verification's ??

The verification's I've received have been via cam as well as the handful of of actual meets I've had too.

My actual meets have been social / drinks as well as fun.

Curious to know if ladies / couples would be put off meeting due to the amount of verification's I've had ?

Your summary shows you've only met six times in a couple of years. I'd say you need to pick up the pace

We are often out but normally with the same crowd so we are not that bothered about veris as some people are. If we were in a club and met a newbie we wouldn't shy away if the aptitude to play was there. "

I know what you're saying. I've not asked for a veri in a couple of years. They pop up on their own now and then and I return the favour.

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By *ayde BlanchardTV/TS
over a year ago

lancashire

I know tv/ts that have seen more pricks than a second hand dartboard and they have like 3 varis. Prob because they don't really know who they have been with. Varis can be social people that know you not all are sex.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"If you think someone has too many verifications,then perhaps swinging isn't suited to you.dating maybe a better option "

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By *ayde BlanchardTV/TS
over a year ago

lancashire


"If you think someone has too many verifications,then perhaps swinging isn't suited to you.dating maybe a better option

"

Very true

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"No.

I have been put off by verifications before, but that's not a quantity thing, unless it appears they have nothing else going on in their life apart from meeting for sex, in which case they'd be unlikely to interest me.

I agree someone can have many veris from people they have met socially etc. But when someone has a different veri sometimes 2 a day go up for pretty much the whole length of time they have been on fab with very intimate details of how they suck like a Dyson. Kinda makes me think they don't have much going on apart from sex and meets

Imagine that,a swinger,on a site to meet swingers,having too much sex....

Don't they realise this site is just to talk about it?

I'm on this site to meet people to have sex with. But if people are literally just spending all their time trying to meet all day every day, with no evidence of having a job or any kind of interests whatsoever? Hell yeah that's a turn off. "

Agreed

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By *requent_FerryersCouple
over a year ago

Norwich to Great Yarmouth


"What is deemed as too many verification's ??

The verification's I've received have been via cam as well as the handful of of actual meets I've had too.

My actual meets have been social / drinks as well as fun.

Curious to know if ladies / couples would be put off meeting due to the amount of verification's I've had ? You will find Veri prejudice on here but I wouldn't worry you only have 6 meet. When you get say over 25 meet it starts to get different. Some couples or single fem want to feel special and don't wanna just be a name on a long list of others.

...and loads of men won't go anywhere near women with 'too many'.

The fact is, unless everyone is verified by everyone, every time they meet and they then publish every verification, you have no bloody idea how many people someone has shagged. Yeah depends on who you have shagged as well. Prejudice because of jealousy or peoples preferences off putting. A lot of judgemental people in this swinging game."

Or maybe it is a problem of folk having their own standards and not being willing to diverge from them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No.

I have been put off by verifications before, but that's not a quantity thing, unless it appears they have nothing else going on in their life apart from meeting for sex, in which case they'd be unlikely to interest me.

I agree someone can have many veris from people they have met socially etc. But when someone has a different veri sometimes 2 a day go up for pretty much the whole length of time they have been on fab with very intimate details of how they suck like a Dyson. Kinda makes me think they don't have much going on apart from sex and meets

Imagine that,a swinger,on a site to meet swingers,having too much sex....

Don't they realise this site is just to talk about it?

I'm on this site to meet people to have sex with. But if people are literally just spending all their time trying to meet all day every day, with no evidence of having a job or any kind of interests whatsoever? Hell yeah that's a turn off.

Agreed"

I guess that's how we come across to some, even though we have a family and both of us have hugely demanding managerial positions, this is a hobby, some let it fill there lives, some flitter in and out (we are somewhere in between) personally we are not bothered if the people we meet play a lot or infrequently and either way it makes no difference to us, yes we have a life outside of fab but so what, same goes for those that appear not to have a life outside of fab! Who cares?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The number veries does not worry us as long as they are all positive

They will be because no one would show a negative one.

I do think show all mine or my verification summary due to the numbers. We're fab let's us members down is it doesn't say how long you've been a member 6 years for me or which meets are social meets, or club meets where you may not have played etc etc.

Only last night I had a troll giving me grief about the number of veris I've got showing. If only you knew the truth lad "

I had a bit of this on my old profile......apparently over 200 for a single guy is way too many.....but no surprises....the trolls were mainly "single" guys with no veries and crap profiles!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had an interesting conversation about veris this evening and how some people see them as a given right if you meet. If you chose to meet, its up to you if you want to verify someone. what if you just don't verify, don't give them or receive them? That's your choice.

They've become a bit of a currency for some I think and my friend was saying how she finds some men hound for them. I'm sure some women do too. Which I think is wrong. Veris should be a security measure in my opinion, a couple maybe from trusted friends, but that's my opinion, my choice.

I think it's up to people to share what they chose, and if others find it too many, too few, then that's their choice too.

But come on, why can't we just be nice and not judge people for their choices on how they want to use Fab, we're all here for something that we want, that we chose to pursue, and how we chose to pursue it. If you don't like what you see on someone's profile, move on, why waste your time, chose to be nice and go your separate ways and pursue what it is you chose to sign up for

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield

You can hide your veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you think someone has too many verifications,then perhaps swinging isn't suited to you.dating maybe a better option "

Well put why is there do much jealousy when there is no place for it in swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as I'm new to fabs, I'm obviously still learning "the rules".

Reading various ladies profiles, with their verifications, it's interesting to see, some say "they're not swingers" yet have been on fabs for almost a year, and have more than 50.

or the profiles extolling their fussiness, standards and class, yet they've posted images of cum dripping out, whilst spreadeagled in a premier inn, after they simply went for a social.

Each to their own!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had an interesting conversation about veris this evening and how some people see them as a given right if you meet. If you chose to meet, its up to you if you want to verify someone. what if you just don't verify, don't give them or receive them? That's your choice.

They've become a bit of a currency for some I think and my friend was saying how she finds some men hound for them. I'm sure some women do too. Which I think is wrong. Veris should be a security measure in my opinion, a couple maybe from trusted friends, but that's my opinion, my choice.

I think it's up to people to share what they chose, and if others find it too many, too few, then that's their choice too.

But come on, why can't we just be nice and not judge people for their choices on how they want to use Fab, we're all here for something that we want, that we chose to pursue, and how we chose to pursue it. If you don't like what you see on someone's profile, move on, why waste your time, chose to be nice and go your separate ways and pursue what it is you chose to sign up for "

It's almost like eBay feedback!

The "sellers" requirement & the "buyers" expectation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't bother with them now

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By *ayde BlanchardTV/TS
over a year ago

lancashire

The idea is to see people are not time wasters. I always question when someone has not had one for years. Seen a profile that said varified by one person by 1 meet 8 frigging years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is deemed as too many verification's ??

The verification's I've received have been via cam as well as the handful of of actual meets I've had too.

My actual meets have been social / drinks as well as fun.

Curious to know if ladies / couples would be put off meeting due to the amount of verification's I've had ?"

Does not bother me at all, I'm not looking for a guy after a fuck buddie or regular/exclusive meets so I would expect them to meet other people and have plenty of verificarions

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only time alarm bells ring is when there are multiple verifications from the same person ....I always check what veris the person I'm interested in has left for that other person. It's often very insightful into how they handle NSA and if they are gonna think we're an item after a couple of fucks

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"The only time alarm bells ring is when there are multiple verifications from the same person ....I always check what veris the person I'm interested in has left for that other person. It's often very insightful into how they handle NSA and if they are gonna think we're an item after a couple of fucks "

Lol thats a good game plan and one I have only just started doing myself!

Also to see if they are polite enough to leave a verification.

I guess thats just my preference though.

I can't imaginr there are many on here that havn't slept about a fair bit veri's or not anyhow.

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By *osieAndJim22Couple
over a year ago

Liskeard


"The number veries does not worry us as long as they are all positive"

As you get to choose whether to publish your own veris, you'd have to be a bit dumb to publish a bad one? Veris are not Trust Pilot, we think too many people use them as a review, they simply verify the person they have met are genuine...

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"The number veries does not worry us as long as they are all positive

As you get to choose whether to publish your own veris, you'd have to be a bit dumb to publish a bad one? Veris are not Trust Pilot, we think too many people use them as a review, they simply verify the person they have met are genuine..."

Exactly this Don't know why people feel the need to give a move by move account of someone's performance......

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