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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So ive always insisted on guys using a condom for anal and oral but im thinking is there really a need to use on for oral?

I love to idea of oral (well anal as well but im not going there) without a condom but have never thought it safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm afraid there are certain things you can get from uncovered oral but pretty sure they're rare

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"So ive always insisted on guys using a condom for anal and oral but im thinking is there really a need to use on for oral?

I love to idea of oral (well anal as well but im not going there) without a condom but have never thought it safe.

"

don't compromise on your own safety rules would be my advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So ive always insisted on guys using a condom for anal and oral but im thinking is there really a need to use on for oral?

I love to idea of oral (well anal as well but im not going there) without a condom but have never thought it safe.

"

We have looked into this pretty carefully and we can accept the much lower level of risk associated with oral. Anal and vaginal are always with a condom because there is a significant level of risk attached to them.

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By *nequeenslutWoman
over a year ago

rugeley


"So ive always insisted on guys using a condom for anal and oral but im thinking is there really a need to use on for oral?

I love to idea of oral (well anal as well but im not going there) without a condom but have never thought it safe.

"

don't do it with out a condom its to risky

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"So ive always insisted on guys using a condom for anal and oral but im thinking is there really a need to use on for oral?

I love to idea of oral (well anal as well but im not going there) without a condom but have never thought it safe.

"

Oral: low risk; not, no risk

Vaginal: could end up dead

Anal: gotta be kiddin'

Everything is risky; how much risk to take is individual choice and decision

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By *eggysallyTV/TS
over a year ago

manchester

I always insist on condoms and safe sex if I am being penetrated. No glove , no love.

Oral is a different matter. I gave a guy a blow job once whilst he had a condom on & within a few minutes I told him to take it off as it didn't feel right and felt horrible. Plus I am a bit of a dirty girl and like to feel his cum hit the back of my throat when he orgasm's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So ive always insisted on guys using a condom for anal and oral but im thinking is there really a need to use on for oral?

I love to idea of oral (well anal as well but im not going there) without a condom but have never thought it safe.

"

you are correct to think it is unsafe with an unknown partner; here are a few of the infections you can pick up very easily if your partner is infected;

.•chlamydia.

•herpes – type 1 and type 2, which can cause cold sores around the mouth and on the genitals or anus.

•genital warts.

•gonorrhoea.

•hepatitis A, hepatitis B and hepatitis C.

•HIV.

•syphilis

.

good luck if anyone chooses to go without

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ah, and here is an NHS link which may help you avoid nasty infections;

http://www.nhs.uk/Livewell/STIs/Pages/Sexualactivitiesandrisk.aspx

.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching and reading replies with interest on this subject

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Its just a simple matter of risk assessment and how much risk v reward you want to take. Pretty much like anything you do in life (assuming your thought process if anything like mine). And to a certain extent that risk level depends on the person and your knowledge of them.

Simply only do what you are comfortable with and level of risk your happy with. Never compromise your happiness and feeling of safety.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So ive always insisted on guys using a condom for anal and oral but im thinking is there really a need to use on for oral?

I love to idea of oral (well anal as well but im not going there) without a condom but have never thought it safe.

Oral: low risk; not, no risk

Vaginal: could end up dead

Anal: gotta be kiddin'

Everything is risky; how much risk to take is individual choice and decision"
this

I think most of us know that there is a risk with unprotected oral but i am not going to suck cock or make someone use a dental dam..

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By *ust4fun555Man
over a year ago

city centre

A quick Google search will tell you that you have a 0.04% of catching Hiv receiving anal sex from an unknown status gay male partner per encounter with a condom. The risk is between 0% and 0.04% giving oral with out a condom. So pretty much the same risk kinda.

Side note:

The risk increases by a factor 20 for receiving unprotected anal from a gay man of unknown status to 0.82% per encounter.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"So ive always insisted on guys using a condom for anal and oral but im thinking is there really a need to use on for oral?

I love to idea of oral (well anal as well but im not going there) without a condom but have never thought it safe.

Oral: low risk; not, no risk

Vaginal: could end up dead

Anal: gotta be kiddin'

Everything is risky; how much risk to take is individual choice and decision this

I think most of us know that there is a risk with unprotected oral but i am not going to suck cock or make someone use a dental dam..

"

I think the risk is greater to the 'suckee'

It is a moot point for me as I don't engage in oral sex; but I can bite it off; using a dental dam, ofcourse

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By *ayde BlanchardTV/TS
over a year ago

lancashire

Giving a bj with a condom on well sorry but that's like eating a Mars bar with the wrapper still on.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"Giving a bj with a condom on well sorry but that's like eating a Mars bar with the wrapper still on. "

Same rule for both; swallowing the wrapper is no recommended

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By *eggysallyTV/TS
over a year ago

manchester


"Giving a bj with a condom on well sorry but that's like eating a Mars bar with the wrapper still on. "

Lol jade i totally agree x x

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By *ayde BlanchardTV/TS
over a year ago

lancashire


"Giving a bj with a condom on well sorry but that's like eating a Mars bar with the wrapper still on.

Same rule for both; swallowing the wrapper is no recommended "

Haha

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By *ayde BlanchardTV/TS
over a year ago

lancashire

I just find it bizzare takes all sorts on fab strangers one was the guy that wanted me to punish him and make him clean my bathroom. You get some weird requests

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"I just find it bizzare takes all sorts on fab strangers one was the guy that wanted me to punish him and make him clean my bathroom. You get some weird requests "

Can he do Saturdays 1 pm - 3 pm? Send him over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A quick Google search will tell you that you have a 0.04% of catching Hiv receiving anal sex from an unknown status gay male partner per encounter with a condom. The risk is between 0% and 0.04% giving oral with out a condom. So pretty much the same risk kinda.

Side note:

The risk increases by a factor 20 for receiving unprotected anal from a gay man of unknown status to 0.82% per encounter."

The clinic states a much higher rate for anal and vaginal sex risks compared to oral.

I do ask frequently x

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By *angria_girlukWoman
over a year ago

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By *angria_girlukWoman
over a year ago

LUTON


"I just find it bizzare takes all sorts on fab strangers one was the guy that wanted me to punish him and make him clean my bathroom. You get some weird requests

Can he do Saturdays 1 pm - 3 pm? Send him over "

and Mine. I'll even reschedule!

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By *icenick1966Man
over a year ago

clowne

I bet the people at Google are wondering what's going on. A sudden spike for info on diseases through anal and oral sex

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By *ayde BlanchardTV/TS
over a year ago

lancashire


"I just find it bizzare takes all sorts on fab strangers one was the guy that wanted me to punish him and make him clean my bathroom. You get some weird requests

Can he do Saturdays 1 pm - 3 pm? Send him over

and Mine. I'll even reschedule! "

Yeah I told him come round I will get the flash ready he never replied and left the site.

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By *ust4fun555Man
over a year ago

city centre


"A quick Google search will tell you that you have a 0.04% of catching Hiv receiving anal sex from an unknown status gay male partner per encounter with a condom. The risk is between 0% and 0.04% giving oral with out a condom. So pretty much the same risk kinda.

Side note:

The risk increases by a factor 20 for receiving unprotected anal from a gay man of unknown status to 0.82% per encounter.

The clinic states a much higher rate for anal and vaginal sex risks compared to oral.

I do ask frequently x"

We're you comparing condom anal to unprotected oral. Stats show there is little difference. There is a huge difference if both unprotected obviously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A quick Google search will tell you that you have a 0.04% of catching Hiv receiving anal sex from an unknown status gay male partner per encounter with a condom. The risk is between 0% and 0.04% giving oral with out a condom. So pretty much the same risk kinda.

Side note:

The risk increases by a factor 20 for receiving unprotected anal from a gay man of unknown status to 0.82% per encounter.

The clinic states a much higher rate for anal and vaginal sex risks compared to oral.

I do ask frequently x

We're you comparing condom anal to unprotected oral. Stats show there is little difference. There is a huge difference if both unprotected obviously."
that is different to what the clinic advise.

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By *ust4fun555Man
over a year ago

city centre


"A quick Google search will tell you that you have a 0.04% of catching Hiv receiving anal sex from an unknown status gay male partner per encounter with a condom. The risk is between 0% and 0.04% giving oral with out a condom. So pretty much the same risk kinda.

Side note:

The risk increases by a factor 20 for receiving unprotected anal from a gay man of unknown status to 0.82% per encounter.

The clinic states a much higher rate for anal and vaginal sex risks compared to oral.

I do ask frequently x

We're you comparing condom anal to unprotected oral. Stats show there is little difference. There is a huge difference if both unprotected obviously. that is different to what the clinic advise. "

Perhaps they were advising for all stds. My post only related to Hiv transmission risks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A quick Google search will tell you that you have a 0.04% of catching Hiv receiving anal sex from an unknown status gay male partner per encounter with a condom. The risk is between 0% and 0.04% giving oral with out a condom. So pretty much the same risk kinda.

Side note:

The risk increases by a factor 20 for receiving unprotected anal from a gay man of unknown status to 0.82% per encounter.

The clinic states a much higher rate for anal and vaginal sex risks compared to oral.

I do ask frequently x

We're you comparing condom anal to unprotected oral. Stats show there is little difference. There is a huge difference if both unprotected obviously. that is different to what the clinic advise.

Perhaps they were advising for all stds. My post only related to Hiv transmission risks."
yeah although they said although they quote it as 0.something % for oral there is almost a zero chance of catching hiv from oral.

There advise is obviously for the whole spectrum of stds. But it annoys me that many arent being offered it as I dont know anyone that uses comdoms for oral..

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