FabSwingers.com forum: Blindfold

By *vncpl89 OP Couple
over a year ago

Hello people. For a long time myself and Mrs talked about playing with other guys and thankfully we are coming up to nearly a year of it now and it has gone great. There was always the risk of it potentially damaging our relationship but in fact we are stronger now than ever. The thing is though Mrs only ever plays with a blindfold on. She gets turned on by it but she doesn't know why and we are both flummoxed! we thought we'd ask people here if they have an opinion as to why she only will play with a blindfold on and also why she gets turned on by it. Weird question but she doesn't know what it is about it that she likes. Anyway happy swingtime to each and all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay for me with a blind fold it enhances it for me because actually i feel awkward with eye contact normally ( exception is when giving oral )but also its the not knowing who.. how many or whats coming next and I feel a little helpless and that my partner has full control and thats awfully sexy.

My other senses are enhanced too.. and it certainly makes me tingle. I can even kiss others like this..which for me is odd as I normally dont enjoy it. But it would be like is it my partner... and Its exciting.

Hope that helps. Im on my phone so typing a lot is tedious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not knowing who is having me is a huge turn on. Plus for us it demonstrates my total trust in Himself to look after me if I am blindfolded and have no control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not knowing who is having me is a huge turn on. Plus for us it demonstrates my total trust in Himself to look after me if I am blindfolded and have no control."

Mostly like this for me too, I like the lack of control, not knowing what is going to happen next or who is doing what and absolutely it's a total trust of being looked after.

Ruby

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By *vncpl89 OP Couple
over a year ago

Thanks guys for shedding some light and experience, much appreciated!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By depriving the main sense we often lazily lean on all the others become heightened to compensate. Plus putting on a blindfold sets a tone... you're doing something unusual, something kinky... we don't often wear blindfolds so it can act as a trigger in this way. And then there's all the stuff it brings up about abandoning ourselves to someone, trusting them to pleasure us.

But, all this said and done, it seems a bit odd that she'll only play with a blindfold. It infers some degree of unease about eye contact and intimacy. Though this may not be the case it may be worth discussing it together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello people. For a long time myself and Mrs talked about playing with other guys and thankfully we are coming up to nearly a year of it now and it has gone great. There was always the risk of it potentially damaging our relationship but in fact we are stronger now than ever. The thing is though Mrs only ever plays with a blindfold on. She gets turned on by it but she doesn't know why and we are both flummoxed! we thought we'd ask people here if they have an opinion as to why she only will play with a blindfold on and also why she gets turned on by it. Weird question but she doesn't know what it is about it that she likes. Anyway happy swingtime to each and all

I think it may be

The excitment of not knowing who is fucking you.

The excitement of not knowing where his lips, tongue or cock is going to be next.

Eliminating one sense (sight) heightens other senses.

Wearing a blindfold helps a woman feel less inhibited and they find it easier to fantasise (men need visual clues).

A blinfold can lead to seudo feeling of helplessness and that heightens the pleasure for some women.

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By *inge61Couple
over a year ago

n/wales

do the ladies enjoy it more if the blindfold is left till the other person/s leave and dont have a clue who was there at all

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By *vncpl89 OP Couple
over a year ago

For us the blindfold is on all the time from start to finish, Mrs never sees the other guy.

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