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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've completely fallen for a guy I met and he feels the same....are we creating a problem for ourselves?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as long as you both feel the same i dont see any problems with it, but you will need to sit down and have a serious chat about it and if you do whether you'll continue swinging and stuff

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

are you both single and available? Will anyone else get hurt by your actions?

If the answers are yes and no respectively what problems will you create?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No

But others have, so give it a go if you both want it

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We've discussed having a couple's profile x

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

Hpw lovely just what I was looking for good sex a friend and soul mate in the making good luck and have fun.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"are you both single and available? Will anyone else get hurt by your actions?

If the answers are yes and no respectively what problems will you create?"

We are both single so us getting together won't affect anyone. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw someone for a couple of months from here.

It does happen and if you are both feeling the same then go for it! Hoping something similar happens for me.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"We've discussed having a couple's profile x"

Why not just wait and get to know each other better and then decide on that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've discussed having a couple's profile x"

Why not just enjoy each other for now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds good to me, I've had relationships with people I've met on here before. At least you get the sexual compatibility bit sorted before anything else, that can be the toughest thing to achieve.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you've fallen for each other then why not give the relationship time to grow away from swinging

See how long it lasts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wondering how many times you've met? That would have an effect on the advice I would give.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just wondering how many times you've met? That would have an effect on the advice I would give."

Just once...which is absolutely crazy, but we talked a lot before we met and have not stopped talking to each other (constantly) since x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a woman which I ended up seein for about a year.

If you both feel the same and no one else is evolved or will get hurt then go for it, good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering how many times you've met? That would have an effect on the advice I would give.

Just once...which is absolutely crazy, but we talked a lot before we met and have not stopped talking to each other (constantly) since x"

Then id take a step back and wait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be very wary. Some men will say and do anything to snare a woman to use for bait on a couples profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met the man in my life through Fab. At the first meet we knew something was different. We didn't want to leave. 5 and a half years in and its better than ever. Go for it and enjoy every moment of a fab and vanilla life with each other x

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I've completely fallen for a guy I met and he feels the same....are we creating a problem for ourselves? "

Please take this with the spirit intended.

Many couples have found happiness on here and it's lovely

My observations over the years, the ones who take time for them do well,

The ones who declare in the forums and rush to couple profiles, less so.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and mrs met through here. We met once and it just felt different. It felt right. We have been an item now for well over two years x shes very lucky she found me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're only going to create a problem for yourselves if you're not completely truthful with each other.

You've only just met each other, could be an endorphin overload. My advice would be to chill and enjoy the journey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to burst your bubble but after one meet id wait.....had the same thing happen last year ended up with the guy just stringing me along for weeks then going off with some one else pmsl. After one meet its just lust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering how many times you've met? That would have an effect on the advice I would give.

Just once...which is absolutely crazy, but we talked a lot before we met and have not stopped talking to each other (constantly) since x"

Then I wouldn't rush into doing anything serious yet, incl making a couples profile. I would suggest you meet up a few more times and see how you feel after that.

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By *oecurlingkink999Couple
over a year ago

Rhuddan

2 years in and still in love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be very wary. Some men will say and do anything to snare a woman to use for bait on a couples profile. "

This is a good point, especially as you've only met him once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A relationship coming from fab will not work as feelings getting stronger and jealously will rage just keep it as fun my advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"are you both single and available? Will anyone else get hurt by your actions?

If the answers are yes and no respectively what problems will you create?

We are both single so us getting together won't affect anyone. X"

Then you have found the perfect solution....go for it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes this has happened a few times. Usually with regulars who were in sexless and affection less marriages. I'm not a marriage breaker though so I put an end to it if that happens. They need to understand swinging is swinging. Also happened twice to me with married men with whom I had crazy chemistry and amazing sex, but I ended it to stop falling in love completely. It's one of the main reasons I make myself out to be a much bigger slut than I actually am. Difficult to get attached when there is almost no talking during a quickie and where the man knows he's expected to leave as soon as he cums and not stick around. As soon as you start cuddling and chatting it becomes risky. My two longest relationships (5 and 2 years) both started as regular hookups and after a while fell in love. That's not a problem. The problem is when one is already taken.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I don't think you should rush into these things tbh. You've met once, give it a bit of time, but good luck. A lot of people are looking for similar I guess, I hope it works out for you

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth


"Just wondering how many times you've met? That would have an effect on the advice I would give.

Just once...which is absolutely crazy, but we talked a lot before we met and have not stopped talking to each other (constantly) since x"

Careful, you might catch that thing called feelings It's terrible, leads to things like living together and marriage

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth


"A relationship coming from fab will not work as feelings getting stronger and jealously will rage just keep it as fun my advice"

Oops I guess we'd better head to the divorce courts then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've completely fallen for a guy I met and he feels the same....are we creating a problem for ourselves? "

Why would you be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I've had some lovely 'NSA' long-term relationships- it can work (unless you move away like I did!)

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"We've discussed having a couple's profile x"

Very good luck my lovely!

Speaking for myself - if I met someone here and we fell for each other - I'd suggest we both take a few months away from swinging to establish our relationship and THEN come back with a couples profile as a secure couple!

I think that would help to quell the insecurities than an open/swinging relationship could cause!

Good luck anyway op. Very happy for you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my fella on another swinging site. We werent looking for love but it happened. We swing together now. We have been together for over 9 years, married for 4 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see why it's a problem if you're both single and both into each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"are you both single and available? Will anyone else get hurt by your actions?

If the answers are yes and no respectively what problems will you create?

We are both single so us getting together won't affect anyone. X"

those were my questions so do whatever makes you both happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"are you both single and available? Will anyone else get hurt by your actions?

If the answers are yes and no respectively what problems will you create?

We are both single so us getting together won't affect anyone. X"
in that case go for it. If your happiest together then maybe it was meant to be

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"I'd be very wary. Some men will say and do anything to snare a woman to use for bait on a couples profile. "

Very very true, has happened to me more than once!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is so refreshing to read on the forums.... people actually using the site for what it was intended for... To meet another swinger and have a happy relationship...

You're are both adults and if feels right go for it... many people have met on fab and have strong healthy relationships

Please don't listen to the negative people on this thread.... jealousy people always find a way to show themselves and project their insecurities and bad vibes on happy people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way I see... if it's meant to be it will.

to make a relationship work it takes more then phenomenal sex.

You don't know each other yet.. that only comes with time.

Just enjoy each other and get to know and learn about each other.

Good luck and hope it works out for the both of

You x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is so refreshing to read on the forums.... people actually using the site for what it was intended for... To meet another swinger and have a happy relationship...

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soooo its a place to meet partners on ????

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

If you value their friendship then stay FB's, you'll never get that friendship back if the relationship don't work out. believe me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what feels right. I can't give any other advice than that as I know neither party nor their circumstances. Good luck op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say take a breath, step back and decide if it's the endorphin rush of whatever or something more long term.

I had a meet 3 years ago that I wrote about at the time on here -will see if i can find it- and wasn't long term but did point me in the right direction

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By *risrugbyfanMan
over a year ago

yate

We did and are very happy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you value their friendship then stay FB's, you'll never get that friendship back if the relationship don't work out. believe me..."

Sounds like you've had some very poor relationship experiences in the past. I personally wouldn't assume that everyone loses friendships once they start sleeping with and dating people.

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By *iss InnocenceWoman
over a year ago

Coventry/Bristol

I met my fella on fab he was my 2nd meet on my old profile,started as fuck buddies and 2 years later we're still together now as a proper couple it can work out xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is so refreshing to read on the forums.... people actually using the site for what it was intended for... To meet another swinger and have a happy relationship...

soooo its a place to meet partners on ???? "

People tend to forget that unfortunately . I like reading happy stories on the forums.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is so refreshing to read on the forums.... people actually using the site for what it was intended for... To meet another swinger and have a happy relationship...

soooo its a place to meet partners on ????

People tend to forget that unfortunately . I like reading happy stories on the forums..... "

yes i like it too when that happens but you said its what the site intended for - and i disagree on that score

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"This is so refreshing to read on the forums.... people actually using the site for what it was intended for... To meet another swinger and have a happy relationship...

soooo its a place to meet partners on ???? "

Plenty do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is so refreshing to read on the forums.... people actually using the site for what it was intended for... To meet another swinger and have a happy relationship...

You're are both adults and if feels right go for it... many people have met on fab and have strong healthy relationships

Please don't listen to the negative people on this thread.... jealousy people always find a way to show themselves and project their insecurities and bad vibes on happy people

"

I really don't agree that's what the site is for. People have met and started relationships on here and that's great, but it's not the aim of the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is so refreshing to read on the forums.... people actually using the site for what it was intended for... To meet another swinger and have a happy relationship...

You're are both adults and if feels right go for it... many people have met on fab and have strong healthy relationships

Please don't listen to the negative people on this thread.... jealousy people always find a way to show themselves and project their insecurities and bad vibes on happy people

I really don't agree that's what the site is for. People have met and started relationships on here and that's great, but it's not the aim of the site. "

Yes I know that's not primarily what Fab is for.... but with all the negative posts on the forums... it's nice to hear someone post something happy...

It's like someone stepping in dog poop and finding a diamond ring

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town


"I've completely fallen for a guy I met and he feels the same....are we creating a problem for ourselves? "

No

I'm still seeing someone of here for 6 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is so refreshing to read on the forums.... people actually using the site for what it was intended for... To meet another swinger and have a happy relationship...

soooo its a place to meet partners on ????

People tend to forget that unfortunately . I like reading happy stories on the forums.....

yes i like it too when that happens but you said its what the site intended for - and i disagree on that score

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The site is intended for people to meet others who are into swinging.

What they meet them for is between them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is so refreshing to read on the forums.... people actually using the site for what it was intended for... To meet another swinger and have a happy relationship...

You're are both adults and if feels right go for it... many people have met on fab and have strong healthy relationships

Please don't listen to the negative people on this thread.... jealousy people always find a way to show themselves and project their insecurities and bad vibes on happy people

I really don't agree that's what the site is for. People have met and started relationships on here and that's great, but it's not the aim of the site.

Yes I know that's not primarily what Fab is for.... but with all the negative posts on the forums... it's nice to hear someone post something happy...

It's like someone stepping in dog poop and finding a diamond ring

"

I'm arranging a meet with a guy that I've been chatting to for years . We're going to meet and fuck each other silly and then go on our merry way and back to reality. That's a happy ending in my book

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is so refreshing to read on the forums.... people actually using the site for what it was intended for... To meet another swinger and have a happy relationship...

You're are both adults and if feels right go for it... many people have met on fab and have strong healthy relationships

Please don't listen to the negative people on this thread.... jealousy people always find a way to show themselves and project their insecurities and bad vibes on happy people

I really don't agree that's what the site is for. People have met and started relationships on here and that's great, but it's not the aim of the site.

Yes I know that's not primarily what Fab is for.... but with all the negative posts on the forums... it's nice to hear someone post something happy...

It's like someone stepping in dog poop and finding a diamond ring

I'm arranging a meet with a guy that I've been chatting to for years . We're going to meet and fuck each other silly and then go on our merry way and back to reality. That's a happy ending in my book "

A happy ending is if his wife or girlfriend doesn't hunt you down a week later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is so refreshing to read on the forums.... people actually using the site for what it was intended for... To meet another swinger and have a happy relationship...

You're are both adults and if feels right go for it... many people have met on fab and have strong healthy relationships

Please don't listen to the negative people on this thread.... jealousy people always find a way to show themselves and project their insecurities and bad vibes on happy people

I really don't agree that's what the site is for. People have met and started relationships on here and that's great, but it's not the aim of the site.

Yes I know that's not primarily what Fab is for.... but with all the negative posts on the forums... it's nice to hear someone post something happy...

It's like someone stepping in dog poop and finding a diamond ring

I'm arranging a meet with a guy that I've been chatting to for years . We're going to meet and fuck each other silly and then go on our merry way and back to reality. That's a happy ending in my book

A happy ending is if his wife or girlfriend doesn't hunt you down a week later "

I'll take that chance. It's never happened in 8 years and since I don't give personal info I'll be impressed if they do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is so refreshing to read on the forums.... people actually using the site for what it was intended for... To meet another swinger and have a happy relationship...

You're are both adults and if feels right go for it... many people have met on fab and have strong healthy relationships

Please don't listen to the negative people on this thread.... jealousy people always find a way to show themselves and project their insecurities and bad vibes on happy people

I really don't agree that's what the site is for. People have met and started relationships on here and that's great, but it's not the aim of the site.

Yes I know that's not primarily what Fab is for.... but with all the negative posts on the forums... it's nice to hear someone post something happy...

It's like someone stepping in dog poop and finding a diamond ring

I'm arranging a meet with a guy that I've been chatting to for years . We're going to meet and fuck each other silly and then go on our merry way and back to reality. That's a happy ending in my book "

Absolutely

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"This is so refreshing to read on the forums.... people actually using the site for what it was intended for... To meet another swinger and have a happy relationship...

soooo its a place to meet partners on ???? "

To be fair, swinging does usually mean some sort of relationship. Not exclusive though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As if you'd change your mind depending on what others advise...

Enjoy the moment, have fun and try to not overthink

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By *risrugbyfanMan
over a year ago

yate

I thought you could use this site how ever you want ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but it doesn't mean it can't happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've completely fallen for a guy I met and he feels the same....are we creating a problem for ourselves? "

If you're asking that question then you need to have a very long conversation about it. It could go either way but at least no one will get hurt in the long run.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you so much everyone for your replies.....we've both been reading them and have agreed that there is a lot to talk about xx

Much love to you all

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe


"Thank you so much everyone for your replies.....we've both been reading them and have agreed that there is a lot to talk about xx

Much love to you all "

Good luck to you both jojo you might even develop a stronger relationship than those of us that have had one the normal way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my friends had a meet with a guy from here, after the first meet they knew there was a spark between them and started dating within a week.

A year later they were married, that was 4 years ago, and they are both still very much in love with each other.

It can definitely happen from here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worked for us!

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"The way I see... if it's meant to be it will.

to make a relationship work it takes more then phenomenal sex.

You don't know each other yet.. that only comes with time.

Just enjoy each other and get to know and learn about each other.

Good luck and hope it works out for the both of

You x"

Totally agree....enjoy time together to get to know eachother first...best of luck

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Enjoy the friendship, and enjoy the swinging.

The "acid test" will come when he sees you shagging someone else for the first time, if he's uncomfortable with that, then you have to ask "Can we both give up swinging and make a go of a relationship based on how we feel now?"

If you cant both say "Yes" honestly... then just stay friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it! It could be a great relationship, particularly as you are both 'on the same page' with things...,

We know several couples (including us!) who met through sites/clubs etc and have brilliant relationships and have been together for a long time now.!

Think it's a good idea to take some time out for a while to build on your relationship first, then when you feel ready you can try things together.

Good luck! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A relationship coming from fab will not work as feelings getting stronger and jealously will rage just keep it as fun my advice"

Are you serious? Jealousy ? Many people are here not just for a fuck but because they are truly swingers! I meet at least 6 couples they meet here and some are happily married or engaged! Why the relationship from here is not like any other?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is so refreshing to read on the forums.... people actually using the site for what it was intended for... To meet another swinger and have a happy relationship...

You're are both adults and if feels right go for it... many people have met on fab and have strong healthy relationships

Please don't listen to the negative people on this thread.... jealousy people always find a way to show themselves and project their insecurities and bad vibes on happy people

I really don't agree that's what the site is for. People have met and started relationships on here and that's great, but it's not the aim of the site.

Yes I know that's not primarily what Fab is for.... but with all the negative posts on the forums... it's nice to hear someone post something happy...

It's like someone stepping in dog poop and finding a diamond ring

I'm arranging a meet with a guy that I've been chatting to for years . We're going to meet and fuck each other silly and then go on our merry way and back to reality. That's a happy ending in my book

A happy ending is if his wife or girlfriend doesn't hunt you down a week later "

Why would they ? negativity yet again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is so refreshing to read on the forums.... people actually using the site for what it was intended for... To meet another swinger and have a happy relationship...

You're are both adults and if feels right go for it... many people have met on fab and have strong healthy relationships

Please don't listen to the negative people on this thread.... jealousy people always find a way to show themselves and project their insecurities and bad vibes on happy people

I really don't agree that's what the site is for. People have met and started relationships on here and that's great, but it's not the aim of the site.

Yes I know that's not primarily what Fab is for.... but with all the negative posts on the forums... it's nice to hear someone post something happy...

It's like someone stepping in dog poop and finding a diamond ring

I'm arranging a meet with a guy that I've been chatting to for years . We're going to meet and fuck each other silly and then go on our merry way and back to reality. That's a happy ending in my book "

My whole life on here is happy. I wouldn't be here if it wasn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you've fallen for each other then why not give the relationship time to grow away from swinging

See how long it lasts "

Why is that smart pants?If they are both here is because they like this life style! I meet this couple on Friday they are together 15 years and swinging almost that time! Sometime I think people think swinging is an issue dismisses the fact that is they life style!

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

If it is to be, then it will be.

There is no need to rush it, just take things slowly communicate honestly and openly with each other and see where the road takes you.

If you are both taking it at the same pace I don't really see why it would cause a problem for anyone.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Hi op

Jack and I met here as singles,we weren't looking for more, but it just happened.

We hid our profiles and took time away from fab for a few months,then decided to do it as a couple.

Go for it and good luck xx

Miss

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

To answer the OP's question no I haven't

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By *oecurlingkink999Couple
over a year ago

Rhuddan

We met on here

Totally in love 2 years on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A relationship coming from fab will not work as feelings getting stronger and jealously will rage just keep it as fun my advice"

I disagree, if both parties communicate and tell the other how they feel, then there is no reason why jealousy should be a problem in a relationship developed on FAB rather than one developed elsewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi op

Jack and I met here as singles,we weren't looking for more, but it just happened.

We hid our profiles and took time away from fab for a few months,then decided to do it as a couple.

Go for it and good luck xx

Miss"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A relationship coming from fab will not work as feelings getting stronger and jealously will rage just keep it as fun my advice

I disagree, if both parties communicate and tell the other how they feel, then there is no reason why jealousy should be a problem in a relationship developed on FAB rather than one developed elsewhere. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi op

Jack and I met here as singles,we weren't looking for more, but it just happened.

We hid our profiles and took time away from fab for a few months,then decided to do it as a couple.

Go for it and good luck xx

Miss"

We did the same

Mrs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've completely fallen for a guy I met and he feels the same....are we creating a problem for ourselves? "

The only problem is if you aren't single. I got involved for 11 months. Had to part. Was very traumatic. If you want it. Enjoy and good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've completely fallen for a guy I met and he feels the same....are we creating a problem for ourselves? "

No. I had a 3 year relationship following a meet. It was brilliant. It was complicated though and had to end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We didn't meet on this site but a similar story. Nearly 2 years in and very much in love. Anything we do on Fab is very much a shared experience

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I have had it and it has caused some issues so u walked away.

I have a a relationship already- being on this site is just for friendship and playing.

I guess it depends if you are both free and single really as to whether its an issue.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you gotta realise that if you do get together he may wanna still be involved in the swinging scene depends if you could cope with him meeting other people or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've completely fallen for a guy I met and he feels the same....are we creating a problem for ourselves? "

Nope! If you both feel the same then it sounds perfect!

Ruby

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By *usty_n_LustyCouple
over a year ago

Kent


"I've completely fallen for a guy I met and he feels the same....are we creating a problem for ourselves? "

That's how we met over 6 yrs ago!! Happily married and swinging our socks off x

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By *nimalsCouple
over a year ago

home


"I'd be very wary. Some men will say and do anything to snare a woman to use for bait on a couples profile. "

This

So he wants a couples profile ?? lol he's just bullshitting you so he can get more meets I'm afraid

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By *usty_n_LustyCouple
over a year ago

Kent


"Just wondering how many times you've met? That would have an effect on the advice I would give.

Just once...which is absolutely crazy, but we talked a lot before we met and have not stopped talking to each other (constantly) since x

Then id take a step back and wait. "

This xxx although I felt the same with my now hubby after meeting once. Was a a few weeks before we went from fab friends and that was doing 'normal' stuff like food and cinema to becoming a couple x one meet is not enough to start a couples profile up xx

Sorry hadn't read all messages before posting my last message! B xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met as singles on here and after a while decided to try and find more fun so got a couple profile to do it together !

Have met some fab ppl and hope to meet many more but our main thing is that we both still enjoy each other ?

Which after 2 years we most certainly do !!

I feel lucky to have her as my friend with amazing benefits !!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I have, it was absolutely not something I wanted to do.

Wrong time, too many broken pieces. So head and heart battle one another and my wall will go up. I become distant which isn't really fair as we're the best of friends but it's how I cope. I run.

Fight or flight....it's a fight I will never win, and a fight I'm not prepared to even be a contender in.

It's down to me to give myself that slap and talking to. Down to me to remind myself the other person never signed up for anything long term (nor did I!)

I wish you the best of luck, and hope the planets align for you so it all works out. I fucking love a happy ending

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over a year ago

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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a few times. wouldn't go for making a couples profile straight away though. i'd concentrate on building something with them first...and if they don't care to then there's always other guys coming along all the time.

i could do polygamy.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Just take it easy and do what feels natural. Do plan too far ahead and make expectations. Just carry on seeing each other and talking. If it's right it will just all naturally slot into place.

Plus I sort of like the backwards dating option FAB gives you. Sexaul compatability is a big deal to me (and I assume all of us). In the vanilla world you can spend a long time dating before you get to play in the bedroom. So after all that investment it could turn out that you are sexual opposites (reminds me of the Lilly Allen song, not fair). I think sexaul compatability is a good indication of relationship compatability. After all there is no better team work than great sex. So I am a bit of a fan of shag first and if it feels right explore relationship options later.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"I've completely fallen for a guy I met and he feels the same....are we creating a problem for ourselves? "

As long as you are both single, I can't see how it would be a problem

I met someone from here over a year ago; neither one of us was looking but we ended up in an open relationship. We have met the parents, been on holidays, spend our weekends together and also meet others, together or separately, for fun

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By *BW SnowbunnyWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere over the Rainbow

I fell for a guy, but I kicked myself in touch after a few days thankfully. Discovered he's full of male cow poo anyway.

I NEVER want that to happen again.

However, if there's something between you both and nothing in the way, go for it

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By *rMrs CumalotCouple
over a year ago

East Mids

Why would it cause issues! Op you only live once!!

Do what you feel

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By *rMrs CumalotCouple
over a year ago

East Mids


"I've completely fallen for a guy I met and he feels the same....are we creating a problem for ourselves?

As long as you are both single, I can't see how it would be a problem

I met someone from here over a year ago; neither one of us was looking but we ended up in an open relationship. We have met the parents, been on holidays, spend our weekends together and also meet others, together or separately, for fun"

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By *aysmitMan
over a year ago

walsall


"Sorry to burst your bubble but after one meet id wait.....had the same thing happen last year ended up with the guy just stringing me along for weeks then going off with some one else pmsl. After one meet its just lust."

I agree

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I wouldnt say after a meet no, I fell for someone from here before we met, the meet was just confirmation

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