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"To my knowledge I have always been straight and still consider myself to be that, in the everyday world I only ever find myself attracted to women, especially ones with that twinkle in their eye that matches mine! But in the bedroom, in the throws of passion, my Dom side emerges and find myself really turned on by submissives, be they female or male! With that in mind I have set my profile as 'bisexual' although I don't feel that is quite accurate. My question is really aimed at the single ladies; are you put off by a bi-guy?" maybe it would some , but I'm really open minded and would not bother me in the slightest . I guess it depends on ur play partners at the time . | |||
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"Nope. The only thing that would enter my head that's anything less that positive would be that a true bi guy would probably have had lots of better blow jobs from guys than mine would be! I've never had any complaints but I always presume that bi and gay guys will be better! Ruby" Bi guy I had fun with, took tips from my technique, was quite flattered by that | |||
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"No ... I apply exactly the same criteria to each prospective playmate before taking things further, regardless of their sexuality. Do we fancy each other, is he intelligent and interesting, do I feel relaxed and comfortable with him, is he respectful and considerate? That's what matters to me ..." I could not agree more 'Green Fairy', connection, communication, trust and attraction. Get those and add a little bit of naughty, woof!!! | |||
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"I've experienced a biased towards bi guys , a couple of meets are cancelled as they hadn't read my profile properly and didn't realise I was bi !!!! But am happy to play straight as I prefer it , but would and so always respect the boundaries of the person / people on with !!! " Shame to hear that meets were cancelled, I am sure you were disappointed but hey, you might have just had a narrow escape and avoided an less than great meet! | |||
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"Thanks for the reply lemonsqueezecake, are you having any joy on here connecting with genuine and interesting people who can play to those needs of your " Mmmm, debatable in all honesty! The general connection thing seems to be struggling, let alone anything else at the moment! | |||
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"Nope. The only thing that would enter my head that's anything less that positive would be that a true bi guy would probably have had lots of better blow jobs from guys than mine would be! I've never had any complaints but I always presume that bi and gay guys will be better! Ruby Bi guy I had fun with, took tips from my technique, was quite flattered by that " Brilliant! Now I really am intrigued to know more of you 'technique' Ruby! | |||
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"I always thought I was straight until last year in a three sum on holiday, now iam bi-curious, would I do it again yes please. Billy " And why not! More choice, more fun! | |||
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"Thanks for the reply lemonsqueezecake, are you having any joy on here connecting with genuine and interesting people who can play to those needs of your Mmmm, debatable in all honesty! The general connection thing seems to be struggling, let alone anything else at the moment! " Sorry to hear that LemonSqueezeCake. I think it is tricky on here with so many guys probably desperate to meet, no doubt you get inundated with unimaginative messages like 'how are you' or 'fancy a meet'. If I were to happen to be sat by you in a cafe I might look across and think 'hello!' and then say hi and strike up a conversation. You might think 'ooh he's a bit different from a lot of the boring blokes I see around here'. We might get a little conversation going and feel a little connection. But the point is, it would start with eyes across a coffee shop! At the moment I am not sure how to replicate that with an opening text message that is easily lost in a sea of other guys messages! | |||
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"Not at all love a three way with bi guys we all get to have fun plus I love watching the guys get it on very horny x" My thoughts exactly Shazzabomb. If there are going to be two willies in play it's probably best if everyone it comfortable around them! | |||
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"Thanks for the reply lemonsqueezecake, are you having any joy on here connecting with genuine and interesting people who can play to those needs of your Mmmm, debatable in all honesty! The general connection thing seems to be struggling, let alone anything else at the moment! Sorry to hear that LemonSqueezeCake. I think it is tricky on here with so many guys probably desperate to meet, no doubt you get inundated with unimaginative messages like 'how are you' or 'fancy a meet'. If I were to happen to be sat by you in a cafe I might look across and think 'hello!' and then say hi and strike up a conversation. You might think 'ooh he's a bit different from a lot of the boring blokes I see around here'. We might get a little conversation going and feel a little connection. But the point is, it would start with eyes across a coffee shop! At the moment I am not sure how to replicate that with an opening text message that is easily lost in a sea of other guys messages!" I don't get the 100's messages that others do! If a profile is good and appeals, then a quick hi and some comment about my profile will work. Hoping I meet you in a coffee shop then | |||
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"Thanks for the reply lemonsqueezecake, are you having any joy on here connecting with genuine and interesting people who can play to those needs of your Mmmm, debatable in all honesty! The general connection thing seems to be struggling, let alone anything else at the moment! Sorry to hear that LemonSqueezeCake. I think it is tricky on here with so many guys probably desperate to meet, no doubt you get inundated with unimaginative messages like 'how are you' or 'fancy a meet'. If I were to happen to be sat by you in a cafe I might look across and think 'hello!' and then say hi and strike up a conversation. You might think 'ooh he's a bit different from a lot of the boring blokes I see around here'. We might get a little conversation going and feel a little connection. But the point is, it would start with eyes across a coffee shop! At the moment I am not sure how to replicate that with an opening text message that is easily lost in a sea of other guys messages! I don't get the 100's messages that others do! If a profile is good and appeals, then a quick hi and some comment about my profile will work. Hoping I meet you in a coffee shop then " | |||
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"To my knowledge I have always been straight and still consider myself to be that, in the everyday world I only ever find myself attracted to women, especially ones with that twinkle in their eye that matches mine! But in the bedroom, in the throws of passion, my Dom side emerges and find myself really turned on by submissives, be they female or male! With that in mind I have set my profile as 'bisexual' although I don't feel that is quite accurate. My question is really aimed at the single ladies; are you put off by a bi-guy?" No ....lol | |||
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"To my knowledge I have always been straight and still consider myself to be that, in the everyday world I only ever find myself attracted to women, especially ones with that twinkle in their eye that matches mine! But in the bedroom, in the throws of passion, my Dom side emerges and find myself really turned on by submissives, be they female or male! With that in mind I have set my profile as 'bisexual' although I don't feel that is quite accurate. My question is really aimed at the single ladies; are you put off by a bi-guy? No ....lol " | |||
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"I would add - that being Bisexual and meeting genuine females or MF couples who openly invite Bisexual men into their beds, is dead dead dead rare " | |||
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"At the moment we're put off playing with people who do anal sex, purely due to the increased risks. Unfortunately few bi guys think about this and fail to clarify whether they do this or not. We'd suggest guys who are only orally bi should make this clear on their profile as it might make a big difference to some couples... indeed, shouldn't Fab have "orally bi" and "fully bi" as preferences?" I totally agree! I never thought of that. I will try to update my profile to make that clearer. I am only orally bi and definitely not into anal with another guy. I agree about the increased label options, in fact I have a bit of an issue with labels altogether as, ironically, I think of myself as straight. The fact that I don't mind a guy giving me a blow job, as far as I'm concerned just means I'm a bit kinky and rather horny! | |||
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"At the moment we're put off playing with people who do anal sex, purely due to the increased risks. Unfortunately few bi guys think about this and fail to clarify whether they do this or not. We'd suggest guys who are only orally bi should make this clear on their profile as it might make a big difference to some couples... indeed, shouldn't Fab have "orally bi" and "fully bi" as preferences?" We ALL need to be safe and whether that's a man having anal with a women or another man - or a women on women anal with strap on - same risks same safe guards needed | |||
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"At the moment we're put off playing with people who do anal sex, purely due to the increased risks. Unfortunately few bi guys think about this and fail to clarify whether they do this or not. We'd suggest guys who are only orally bi should make this clear on their profile as it might make a big difference to some couples... indeed, shouldn't Fab have "orally bi" and "fully bi" as preferences? We ALL need to be safe and whether that's a man having anal with a women or another man - or a women on women anal with strap on - same risks same safe guards needed " Of course, I'm not judging what people like to dislike, just saying my own prefs, but totally agree ALWAYS play safe | |||
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"No, the complete opposite infact! " The complete opposite! Now that does give me hope! | |||
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"I've experienced a biased towards bi guys , a couple of meets are cancelled as they hadn't read my profile properly and didn't realise I was bi !!!! But am happy to play straight as I prefer it , but would and so always respect the boundaries of the person / people on with !!! Shame to hear that meets were cancelled, I am sure you were disappointed but hey, you might have just had a narrow escape and avoided an less than great meet! " I just take it on the chin , it sthat sortbof place on here , but reading some of the other comments I might add some info regarding my bi side and my likes regarding bi | |||
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"It seems most people , fem or male, have a bit of curiosity in them . Those that shout 'no' loudest are usually trying to convince themselves rather than others Enjoy and have as much fun as life brings. " Ha ha, yes I suspect that too! | |||
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"At the moment we're put off playing with people who do anal sex, purely due to the increased risks. Unfortunately few bi guys think about this and fail to clarify whether they do this or not. We'd suggest guys who are only orally bi should make this clear on their profile as it might make a big difference to some couples... indeed, shouldn't Fab have "orally bi" and "fully bi" as preferences?" I never understand that distinction...so does being orally bi make you only half bi if you're not fully bi? Isn't sexuality more than just a list of what you're prepared to do? do you get fully gay people? or only orally lesbian? | |||
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"At the moment we're put off playing with people who do anal sex, purely due to the increased risks. Unfortunately few bi guys think about this and fail to clarify whether they do this or not. We'd suggest guys who are only orally bi should make this clear on their profile as it might make a big difference to some couples... indeed, shouldn't Fab have "orally bi" and "fully bi" as preferences?" I never gave this a thought, I'm bi oral so I shall change it | |||
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" I never understand that distinction...so does being orally bi make you only half bi if you're not fully bi? Isn't sexuality more than just a list of what you're prepared to do? do you get fully gay people? or only orally lesbian? " I've tried taking A but it bloody hurts way too much & I'm not that bothered about doing anal to a guy. I think guys, or at least the guys I see just want a bj. I wouldn't say I'm half bi but good point. | |||
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"To my knowledge I have always been straight and still consider myself to be that, in the everyday world I only ever find myself attracted to women, especially ones with that twinkle in their eye that matches mine! But in the bedroom, in the throws of passion, my Dom side emerges and find myself really turned on by submissives, be they female or male! With that in mind I have set my profile as 'bisexual' although I don't feel that is quite accurate. My question is really aimed at the single ladies; are you put off by a bi-guy?" Doesn't bother me but would not be my choice to play knowing that he would want to include my partner in his play | |||
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"That's great to hear Roxy400. I am only interested in intelligent, open minded people like you as otherwise I don't think there would be any chemistry " I'm put off by a bi guy. So that makes me not intelligent or open minded? Fine by me - clearly I made the right decision!! | |||
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"Not particularly. Keen for a mmf, so plays to my needs really " i agree if i meet two bi-guys they both play with me only and under no circumstances with each other. | |||
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"Not particularly. Keen for a mmf, so plays to my needs really i agree if i meet two bi-guys they both play with me only and under no circumstances with each other." I wouldn't mind them playing with each other as long as all fun started and ended with my needs being met! | |||
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"At the moment we're put off playing with people who do anal sex, purely due to the increased risks. Unfortunately few bi guys think about this and fail to clarify whether they do this or not. We'd suggest guys who are only orally bi should make this clear on their profile as it might make a big difference to some couples... indeed, shouldn't Fab have "orally bi" and "fully bi" as preferences? I never understand that distinction...so does being orally bi make you only half bi if you're not fully bi? Isn't sexuality more than just a list of what you're prepared to do? do you get fully gay people? or only orally lesbian? " I fully agree; the oral anal thing is a limit and does not indicate bisexuality. If you suck cock are you only partially bi? Methinks it is not as easy as that. I like sex with men and women but rarely ogle a dude. The issue of labelling eh? | |||
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"Not particularly. Keen for a mmf, so plays to my needs really " Crikey o'reilly. How many times do I have to say that just because a fella might be bi does not mean he will leap on a poor unsuspecting straight male. It's there as an option should it be required. Its why you discuss boundaries. So there is no misunderstanding. | |||
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"At the moment we're put off playing with people who do anal sex, purely due to the increased risks. Unfortunately few bi guys think about this and fail to clarify whether they do this or not. We'd suggest guys who are only orally bi should make this clear on their profile as it might make a big difference to some couples... indeed, shouldn't Fab have "orally bi" and "fully bi" as preferences? I never understand that distinction...so does being orally bi make you only half bi if you're not fully bi? Isn't sexuality more than just a list of what you're prepared to do? do you get fully gay people? or only orally lesbian? I fully agree; the oral anal thing is a limit and does not indicate bisexuality. If you suck cock are you only partially bi? Methinks it is not as easy as that. I like sex with men and women but rarely ogle a dude. The issue of labelling eh?" Definitely this. Im only orally bi. If its required im happy to do it, if not then I won't, it's not the be all. | |||
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"Not particularly. Keen for a mmf, so plays to my needs really Crikey o'reilly. How many times do I have to say that just because a fella might be bi does not mean he will leap on a poor unsuspecting straight male. It's there as an option should it be required. Its why you discuss boundaries. So there is no misunderstanding. " Some do jump on straight men. Hence why it puts some people off. | |||
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"Not particularly. Keen for a mmf, so plays to my needs really Crikey o'reilly. How many times do I have to say that just because a fella might be bi does not mean he will leap on a poor unsuspecting straight male. It's there as an option should it be required. Its why you discuss boundaries. So there is no misunderstanding. " I didn't say that did I? If I'm going to a mmf you can be rest assured that I'm not going to pull two men off of the street! Lol!! It will take planning and knowing what all three of us expect. Think you need to give people a little bit more credit, we aren't all sex starved and some of us know how to think things through | |||
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"It seems most people , fem or male, have a bit of curiosity in them . Those that shout 'no' loudest are usually trying to convince themselves rather than others Enjoy and have as much fun as life brings. " It's this myth that most people are a bit bi that creates problems. It gets bi guys confused when a straight guy insists he isn't just being a kill joy he genuinely doesn't want his cock sucked. Come on! Surely you're a bit bi? Ahh you're just in denial. A quick bj will sort that out. So far, the only people I've seen transgress other's boundaries without asking at a party have been bi guys who just assumed another guy wouldn't mind his cock being sucked We can all play together. But we've got to give each other the decency of respecting our different sexual persuasions. Straight guys really do exist and it's precisely out of the necessity of having to say so that many do | |||
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"Hey Ruby5000, fear not! In my experience your worries are unfounded. I think it's a myth the idea that a guy would give a better blow job just like it's a myth that young guys have more stamina and mature ladies are dirtier! I'm not a Don Juan or anything but I have in my time experience sex with young and mature, male and female, and I can honestly say that it all comes down to the individual person, the connection you have with them and if your 'desires' are aligned. I have had good and bad blow jobs from both genders and my best ever was from a lady. " | |||
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"To my knowledge I have always been straight and still consider myself to be that, in the everyday world I only ever find myself attracted to women, especially ones with that twinkle in their eye that matches mine! But in the bedroom, in the throws of passion, my Dom side emerges and find myself really turned on by submissives, be they female or male! With that in mind I have set my profile as 'bisexual' although I don't feel that is quite accurate. My question is really aimed at the single ladies; are you put off by a bi-guy?" I am. | |||
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"It seems most people , fem or male, have a bit of curiosity in them . Those that shout 'no' loudest are usually trying to convince themselves rather than others Enjoy and have as much fun as life brings. It's this myth that most people are a bit bi that creates problems. It gets bi guys confused when a straight guy insists he isn't just being a kill joy he genuinely doesn't want his cock sucked. Come on! Surely you're a bit bi? Ahh you're just in denial. A quick bj will sort that out. So far, the only people I've seen transgress other's boundaries without asking at a party have been bi guys who just assumed another guy wouldn't mind his cock being sucked We can all play together. But we've got to give each other the decency of respecting our different sexual persuasions. Straight guys really do exist and it's precisely out of the necessity of having to say so that many do " | |||
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"To my knowledge I have always been straight and still consider myself to be that, in the everyday world I only ever find myself attracted to women, especially ones with that twinkle in their eye that matches mine! But in the bedroom, in the throws of passion, my Dom side emerges and find myself really turned on by submissives, be they female or male! With that in mind I have set my profile as 'bisexual' although I don't feel that is quite accurate. My question is really aimed at the single ladies; are you put off by a bi-guy?" Not at all xx | |||
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"Looks like hope for us bi men after all " it wd be great if u could all just be honest about it .. | |||
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"Hey Ruby5000, fear not! In my experience your worries are unfounded. I think it's a myth the idea that a guy would give a better blow job just like it's a myth that young guys have more stamina and mature ladies are dirtier! I'm not a Don Juan or anything but I have in my time experience sex with young and mature, male and female, and I can honestly say that it all comes down to the individual person, the connection you have with them and if your 'desires' are aligned. I have had good and bad blow jobs from both genders and my best ever was from a lady. " Glad to hear it, especially as we have an upcoming meet with a bi guy Ruby | |||
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"To my knowledge I have always been straight and still consider myself to be that, in the everyday world I only ever find myself attracted to women, especially ones with that twinkle in their eye that matches mine! But in the bedroom, in the throws of passion, my Dom side emerges and find myself really turned on by submissives, be they female or male! With that in mind I have set my profile as 'bisexual' although I don't feel that is quite accurate. My question is really aimed at the single ladies; are you put off by a bi-guy?" I don't see how someone's sexuality should play part in someone meeting you. We would meet a bi guy to play with fem like any other single guy. | |||
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" I don't see how someone's sexuality should play part in someone meeting you. We would meet a bi guy to play with fem like any other single guy. " What we like and don't like is part of our sexual energy and attitude. I wouldn't meet a guy which is into the scat, even for vanilla sex. Some people like to look at you as whole picture, for some is enough you got a pussy/dick. | |||
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